Episodios

  • 178: Love Will Come in an Unexpected Package

    178: Love Will Come in an Unexpected Package
    Jan 12 2026

    What if love does not look the way you imagined, but feels better than you ever expected?

    In this Smart Dating Academy Podcast episode, Bela Gandhi shares Elayne’s inspiring journey from dating confusion to a healthy, committed relationship.

    This conversation explores:

    • Dating tips for professionals

    • Emotional availability in real relationships

    • Why unexpected love is not settling

    • How to find love without compromising your values

    If you want to find love again with confidence and clarity, this episode will stay with you.

    Apply to work with our dating coaches:
    https://www.smartdatingacademy.com/contact

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    51 m
  • 177: How Monica Broke Her Dating Patterns & Found Real Love (Using the Smart Dating Method)

    177: How Monica Broke Her Dating Patterns & Found Real Love (Using the Smart Dating Method)
    Dec 29 2025
    How Monica Broke Her Dating Patterns & Found Real Love

    In this inspiring episode, Bela talks with Smart Dating Academy client Monica Campbell, who shares how she moved from dating the wrong people to attracting a healthy, emotionally available partner.

    You’ll hear the shifts that changed everything, from breaking old patterns to using the Dating Funnel to date with clarity, confidence, and joy.

    If you’ve ever wondered whether love is still possible for you, this episode is your reminder that it absolutely is.

    Apply to work with Bela and our coaching team:
    https://www.smartdatingacademy.com/contact
    Learn more: https://www.smartdatingacademy.com
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    35 m
  • 176: Dating After Divorce: How Jeannette Found Confidence, Adventure, and Love Again with Smart Dating Academy

    176: Dating After Divorce: How Jeannette Found Confidence, Adventure, and Love Again with Smart Dating Academy
    Dec 15 2025
    Dating again after a long marriage can feel overwhelming.
    In this inspiring conversation, Bela talks with Jeannette, a Smart Dating Academy client who rebuilt her life after divorce.

    She shares how she healed, learned confidence, and by working with SDA, found a healthy relationship later in life.
    If you want hope and practical wisdom about dating after divorce, this episode is for you.

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    https://www.smartdatingacademy.com/contact
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    50 m
  • 174: She Rented 12 Billboards to Find Love: Lisa Catalano’s Bold Leap That Went Viral

    174: She Rented 12 Billboards to Find Love: Lisa Catalano’s Bold Leap That Went Viral
    Nov 17 2025
    What happens when you’ve tried everything to find love and decide to go big?

    In this heartwarming and hilarious episode, Bela Gandhi talks with Lisa Catalano, the woman who rented 12 billboards in San Francisco to find her husband. They explore what inspired her to take such a bold step, how the world reacted, and what she has already learned about confidence, courage, and connection!


    ✨ Whether you’re dating after divorce, in midlife, or just feeling stuck. This conversation will remind you that it’s never too late (or too bold) to find love.

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    44 m
  • 173: 🌟 How to Date Authentically and Build Real Love with Dr. Jeanne Michele

    173: 🌟 How to Date Authentically and Build Real Love with Dr. Jeanne Michele
    Nov 3 2025
    Let’s be real: dating in today’s swipe-right world can feel like a game you didn’t sign up for. Between ghosting, mixed signals, and second-guessing your own needs, it’s easy to wonder: Am I doing this right?

    In this empowering episode, I sit down with Dr. Jeanne Michele — relationship specialist, psychologist, and author of The Infidelity Cure — to talk about what it really means to date and love authentically. Jeanne brings her signature blend of heart, wisdom, and straight talk to help us see dating not as a performance, but as a mirror — a reflection of who we are, what we want, and where we might be holding ourselves back.

    Together, we dive into:

    • The difference between dating and relationshipping — and why both matter in building healthy love
    • How to have Courageous Conversations that honor your needs without pushing love away
    • The subtle ways we betray ourselves in relationships (and how to stop repeating old patterns)
    • Why dating is one of the best mirrors for self-awareness — and how to use it for growth
    • How to stay open-hearted in love while still protecting your truth and boundaries
    This conversation is an invitation to approach love with courage, compassion, and clarity. Whether you’re single, dating, or redefining what love means to you, Jeanne’s insights will help you stop settling, start honoring yourself, and finally create the kind of authentic connection you deserve.

    🎧 Tune in now and learn how to bring more authenticity and joy into your dating journey.

    💌 And if you’re ready for personalized support to make dating feel fun, empowering, and successful, reach out to us at Smart Dating Academy. Our expert coaches can help you build the confidence, clarity, and strategy you need to find the love you deserve.

    Ready to redefine your dating life or need guidance on your journey to love? Visit Smart Dating Academy to learn more about our transformative programs.

    For more free tips and up to date information, click here to register for the Smart Dating Academy free newsletter! https://www.smartdatingacademy.com/contact

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    35 m
  • 172: nsider's Secrets -- How to Overcome Dating Fatigue: Expert Tips from Smart Dating Academy!

    172: nsider's Secrets -- How to Overcome Dating Fatigue: Expert Tips from Smart Dating Academy!
    Oct 20 2025
    ating fatigue is something almost every single one of us has felt at some point. Maybe you've been dating for what feels like a century -- maybe you're exhausted by the dating apps (which can feel like "Human EBay"), endless small talk, or the emotional ups and downs of trying to find “your person"; if so this episode is for you! Bela Gandhi sits down with Smart Dating Academy coach Ilene Collins to unpack one of the most common — and overlooked — challenges in modern dating: dating fatigue.

    Ilene has been a powerful SDA coach for five years and has been a repeat voice on the podcast - responsible for MANY client success stories! This episode will give you a sneak peek of how Ilene met her husband Mark (broke every SDA rule, haha!) and help you see how two people that are different religions, races and careers can build a happy life together! And, Ilene brings both her personal experience and coaching expertise to the conversation, sharing how to spot the early signs of burnout and the mindset shifts that can make dating fun again. Together, Bela and Ilene explore what’s really behind dating fatigue — from unrealistic expectations to dating on autopilot — and how to reset your energy, focus, and optimism.

    You’ll learn:
    • Why dating fatigue happens (and how to know when you’re in it)
    • The biggest mindset mistake that keeps people stuck in frustration - and the BEST mindset reset (you won't want to miss this because it is POWERFUL)
    • How to take a healthy break — without giving up on love
    • How to meet people in real life
    • How to make a GREAT first impression
    • Practical steps to make dating feel joyful, not draining
    • What it means to date with intention and curiosity
    Whether you’re new to dating or you’ve been at it for a while, this episode will help you find your spark again and remember that dating can actually be exciting, fulfilling, and full of possibility.

    ✨ Ready to fall back in love with dating?
    Reach out to Smart Dating Academy for expert coaching, personalized strategy, and support that helps you meet amazing people — without the burnout. Visit SmartDatingAcademy.com to learn more.

    For more free tips and up to date information, click here to register for the Smart Dating Academy free newsletter! https://www.smartdatingacademy.com/contact

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    46 m
  • 171: Make Dating FUN Again! with Bela Gandhi & Kathy Citera

    171: Make Dating FUN Again! with Bela Gandhi & Kathy Citera
    Oct 6 2025
    Dating doesn’t have to feel like the awkward lunchroom of middle school — and in this episode, we’re showing you exactly how to leave that behind. I’m joined by our very own Smart Dating Academy coach, Kathy Citera, who brings her trademark humor, wisdom, and lived experience to the table.

    Kathy knows firsthand what it’s like to re-enter the dating world — she candidly shares her journey from post-divorce dating at 50 to becoming a coach who now helps others navigate dating with confidence and joy. Together, we talk about how dating can feel less like a chore and more like an adventure.

    Here’s what we cover in this episode:

    • Why dating feels like “middle school” for so many adults — and how to shift out of that mindset.

    • Post-divorce dating at 50: Kathy’s real-life lessons on rediscovering yourself and dating authentically.

    • How to bring fun, joy, and levity into dating without losing seriousness about your goals.

    • Knowing yourself first: Why self-awareness is the biggest game-changer in dating success.

    • Practical tips to “make dating fun again” — and why having the right mindset can change everything.

    This is a heartfelt, laugh-out-loud, and refreshingly honest conversation about dating — no games, no gimmicks, just straight talk on how to enjoy the process again. Whether you’re just getting back out there or you’ve been swiping for years, you’ll walk away feeling lighter, more hopeful, and ready to see dating as an adventure rather than a test.

    💌 Ready to make dating fun again in your own life? Contact Smart Dating Academy today to learn how our team of expert coaches can help you date smarter, build confidence, and finally find the love you deserve. Click here to get started!



    Ready to redefine your dating life or need guidance on your journey to love? Visit Smart Dating Academy to learn more about our transformative programs.

    For more free tips and up to date information, click here to register for the Smart Dating Academy free newsletter! https://www.smartdatingacademy.com/contact

    Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/smartdatingacademy/
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    54 m
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