What if abundance isn’t something you manifest, but something you practice?

In today’s episode, Sheila breaks down the concept of abundance in a way that actually makes sense. We start with a wild dream about her friend Sylvie (and a very full table), and use it as a jumping-off point to talk about lack, jealousy, action, timing — and cookies. Yes, cookies.

This episode is about learning to recognize where you’re feeling lack, trusting that the universe isn’t running out of good things, and understanding how belief, action, and patience all work together.

Light your Sheila Candle, grab a drink (and maybe a cookie), and let’s Sheila Science abundance.

CHAPTERS00:00 A dream about abundance and a message from the universe02:35 Welcome to Small Talk with Sheila03:45 What abundance actually means (and why we need to talk about lack first)05:10 A real-life story about jealousy, being chosen, and hidden lack08:40 The Cookie Theory of abundance 🍪12:15 Why nature reminds us that abundance is everywhere14:05 Manifesting vs. taking action (real talk)17:30 You have to go to the cookie jar19:40 Timing, patience, and trusting the process24:10 Final thoughts: belief, action, patience26:00 How to support the show + closing cookie moment

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This week, Sheila opens up about her long and complicated history with social media, from deleting Facebook after her divorce to eventually working at Meta and finding herself back online again. Now, as a creator, she shares the lessons, surprises, and self-reflection that come with living online. Sheila talks about the good she sees in the social space, the pressure of the algorithm, and the importance of setting boundaries so social media feels supportive, not overwhelming. This episode is an honest look at how to use social media in a way that actually feels good because everything in our lives should feel good. Chapters00:00 - Sheila's messy history with social media02:00 - How social media creates real-world opportunities05:00 - Why Sheila refuses to chase the algorithm07:30 - Boundaries, privacy, and what you do not have to share09:30 - Using social mindfully as your personal brandFOR MORE SHEILA:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/smalltalkwith_sheila/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SmallTalkWithSheilaSpotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1wWNmpNuoA9grBPHRVXNGGGet your FREE “Is It Me or My Cycle?” Guide: https://meormycycle.smalltalkwithsheila.comKEYWORDS:social media boundaries, healthy social media use, authenticity online, TikTok algorithm, TikTok beginner, deleting Facebook, rebuilding after divorce, social media anxiety, content creator life, personal growth, online confidence, digital wellbeing, online identity, using social media mindfully, finding your voice, creator burnout, social media reflection, Small Talk with Sheila

Sheila explores how personal rituals can become anchors in a world where many of us feel between identities, cultures, or expectations. Instead of treating routines as chores, she shows how turning simple acts like morning coffee, journaling, walking, or preparing a Shabbat meal into rituals can create a sense of belonging that starts from within. Sheila opens a window into her own multicultural upbringing and shares how blending traditions with her husband helps them build a home that feels emotionally safe and spiritually nourishing. Her stories about energy clearing and Persian practices like burning rue seeds highlight how rituals can protect your peace and help you reset when life feels heavy. By the end, you will feel inspired to design rituals that help you stay grounded, intentional, and connected to who you want to become.

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CHAPTERS:

00:00 Holidays, being between cultures, and why rituals matter01:30 Sheila’s gentle morning ritual of coffee, journaling, and intention setting03:50 Turning walking into an energy-releasing ritual you actually look forward to05:57 Creating an interfaith Shabbat ritual as a weekly reset with her husband08:13 Persian evil eye traditions and clearing bad energy from your home10:32 How to design rituals that make you feel grounded, seen, and at home in yourself

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KEYWORDS:

holiday rituals, personal rituals, morning ritual, morning routine, journaling, gratitude practice, walking ritual, Shabbat dinner, Jewish rituals, interfaith marriage, Persian culture, Iranian American, evil eye, burning rue seeds, energy clearing, spiritual rituals, creating traditions, self care, grounding practices, Small Talk with Sheila

Sheila flips the script on traditional gratitude by revealing why the real transformation happens when you finally learn to thank yourself. She walks you through a live internal gratitude practice, showing how specificity, honesty, and self-recognition can completely shift your confidence and self-trust. Through personal stories about consistency, boundaries, joy, and resilience, Sheila demonstrates how powerful it is to acknowledge the ways you’ve shown up for your own life. This episode is vulnerable, fun, awkward in the best way, and packed with real tools you can use today. By the end, you’ll feel inspired, lighter, and ready to celebrate yourself with a whole new level of self-appreciation.

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CHAPTERS

00:00 Flipping the script on gratitude and why internal gratitude matters01:28 Why thanking yourself feels awkward and how to make gratitude specific03:45 Consistency in coaching and podcasting and showing up even when it is hard06:11 Building self trust through boundaries, tough conversations, and trusting your gut08:32 Choosing joy in a challenging year and using music, humor, and small rituals10:51 Your homework a three part internal gratitude practice for the year

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KEYWORDS

self gratitude, internal gratitude practice, gratitude for yourself, building self trust, setting boundaries with family, choosing joy after a hard year, Small Talk with Sheila, Sheila Kazan podcast, self worth and confidence, gratitude season

In this anniversary episode, Sheila celebrates one year of Small Talk with Sheila and reflects on how podcasting helped her find her voice again. She revisits three favorite stories, the McBoogers burger saga, her breakup glow up experiment, and the real life meet cute with her husband. Along the way she shares the mindset shifts that helped her stop people pleasing, use a little "I will show them energy," and choose happiness on purpose. This episode is for anyone who feels like they lost their creative spark in career or adulthood and wants practical encouragement to take up space again and go after what they want.Get your FREE “Is It Me or My Cycle?” Guide: https://meormycycle.smalltalkwithsheila.comCHAPTERS:00:00 Celebrating one year of Small Talk with Sheila and why she started the show02:24 The McBoogers story and how people pleasing shaped Sheila’s choices04:45 Breakup glow up energy without the breakup and using I will show them motivation07:13 Tapping into a little delulu confidence and backing it up with daily action07:50 Sheila’s rom com worthy meet cute with her husband and burning the old journal09:37 Choosing happiness on purpose and trusting something magical will happen11:51 Three big lessons from year one and what Sheila wants for year two listenersFor more Sheila, check out:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/smalltalkwith_sheila/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SmallTalkWithSheilaSpotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1wWNmpNuoA9grBPHRVXNGGKEYWORDS:Small Talk with Sheila, Sheila Kazan, podcast anniversary, finding your voice, people pleasing, breakup glow up, I will show them energy, delulu confidence, rom com meet cute, choosing happiness, creative self expression, women in tech careers, storytelling podcast, self help with humor, personal growth stories

Making friends as an adult can feel awkward, but it gets easier when you lead with honesty, make the first move, and keep an open mind. Sheila shares real stories from LA industry meetups, belly dance class, and a post-divorce condo community to show how authentic moments spark lasting connections. You will learn practical ways to answer “how are you?” with something real, start conversations, say yes to invitations, and release rigid expectations so friendships can ebb and flow. These tips will help you build community in any season of life.

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CHAPTERS:

00:00 – Making friends as an adult is complicated and awkward

01:20 – Be real like a kid again: authenticity invites connection

03:29 – The LA CineLadies moment: honest feelings created instant friendship

05:49 – Make the first move with potential friends

08:06 – Say yes and stay open-minded to different people and seasons

10:20 – Let friendships ebb and flow without heavy expectations

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KEYWORDS:

adult friendship tips, how to make friends as an adult, be real not fine, make the first move, open-minded friendship, friendship expectations, ebb and flow, Sheila Kazan, Small Talk with Sheila, building community

Worry doesn’t prepare you for the future. It steals joy from the present. In this episode, Sheila shares three practical ways to quiet 3 a.m. spirals: personify your inner voices so you can choose which one to listen to, build a simple practice of faith or prayer to restore trust, and play both sides of the what-if game to balance fear with possibility. You’ll leave with tools to manage worry, not be managed by it. Perfect for anyone who lies awake thinking through worst-case scenarios and wants a calmer, kinder brain.

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CHAPTERS:

00:00 — Why worry steals joy and what we’ll cover

01:23 — Name your voices: Fear as Bee, Love as Sassy

03:44 — When to listen to each voice and how naming helps

06:02 — Faith and prayer as everyday antidotes to worry

08:24 — The what if game: play both sides, not just worst cases

10:49 — Bringing it together and your listener challenge

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KEYWORDS:

worry, anxiety vs worry, inner voices, personification, Bee and Sassy, faith, prayer, what if game, mindset, self compassion, stress management, sleep anxiety, personal growth, mental health tools, resilience

Sheila skips the fake Halloween scares and faces the real ones that keep many of us up at night. Through three funny and cringey Halloween memories, she reveals three honest fears that keep her awake at night. This episode is for anyone who wants relief from quiet anxiety and a practical way to move forward with more self‑compassion and momentum.

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CHAPTERS:00:00 – Why Sheila hates Halloween and what really scares her00:52 – Halloween Trauma 103:13 – Real Fear 103:14 – Halloween Trauma 204:40 – Real Fear 205:37 – Halloween Trauma 307:54 – Real Fear 310:23 – Three gentle resets

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KEYWORDS:Small Talk with Sheila, Halloween, real fears, fear of not reaching potential, people pleasing, caring what others think, time anxiety, mindfulness, being present, self compassion, personal growth, confidence, creative goals, productivity, mental health, anxiety relief, story time, haunted house, childhood memories