We’re continuing The Energy Is Everything Series and today I’m sitting down with my friend Danielle Laura, an energy mastery teacher and Human Design guide for conscious leaders who are here to use their gifts to make the world better… without sacrificing themselves in the process.

In this episode we talk about energetic hygiene, the hidden places energy leaks show up (even in “self-care”), and why the solution isn’t more rest. We also get into Human Design as a roadmap for regulation.

This one is for the woman who keeps pouring into a cup that has a hole in the bottom… and is ready to stop leaking her life force.

TOPICS WE EXPLORE:

• Why rest doesn’t restore energy when you’re never fully present
• Hidden energy leaks inside productivity and self-care
• Overgiving, access, and energetic boundaries
• Human Design as a tool for understanding energetic alignment
• Not-self themes and how they signal burnout early
• Micro-shifts that rebuild safety and presence
• Energetic hygiene as a daily practice, not a lifestyle overhaul

POINT OF THE EPISODE:
Energy isn’t lost in one big moment, it leaks slowly through small, unexamined patterns. When you learn how to recognize those leaks and respond with simple, embodied shifts, regulation becomes sustainable instead of exhausting.

MENTIONED:

• Danielle’s website
• Danielle on Socials: Instagram, Facebook, Linkedin, Podcast, TikTok, Substack
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I am the definition of duality — I swear like a sailor and break rules like it’s my job, but I also hold incredible space for my clients and work my ass off to help them achieve the success they’re after. But I'm also here for the non-preneur woman, too. My background in counseling gives me a unique perspective on what it means to show up, serve, & create connection for those who feel like they've never belonged before.

LINKS:

• Become the Regulated Woman
• Get emails that feel like your best friend (if your best friend was a therapist and actually told you the truth).
• Use code BB20 to get The Burnout Breakthrough for only $7
• Follow me on IG (dropping in once a quarter for updates & gossip)
• Website: ashmcdonaldmentoring.com

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• Business Therapy (therapy + strategic mentorship)
• ...

This bonus episode is an unfiltered reflection on what happens when the identity that once fueled your ambition no longer fits. I share openly about the messy middle of personal evolution, the quiet unraveling that followed slowing down in my business, and the unexpected ways that space reshaped my marriage, my sense of self, and my relationship with support.

This is not a story of resolution or arrival. It’s a story of transition, grief, surrender, and learning how to lean when hyper-independence has been your survival strategy for decades.

TOPICS WE EXPLORE:

• When ambition outgrows the identity that built it
• Hyper-independence and the fear of relying on others
• Slowing down without knowing what comes next
• How space in business can create space in marriage
• Letting go of being the provider as a core identity
• Grief, friendship loss, and the death of former selves
• Learning how to be held without shame

POINT OF THE EPISODE:
Sometimes growth doesn’t look like expansion… it looks like stopping. This episode is a reminder that ambition can evolve, identity can soften, and allowing support may be the most energetically expansive thing you ever do.

MENTIONED:

• The Energy Is Everything series (6 Episodes)

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MORE ABOUT ASH
I am the definition of duality — I swear like a sailor and break rules like it’s my job, but I also hold incredible space for my clients and work my ass off to help them achieve the success they’re after. But I'm also here for the non-preneur woman, too. My background in counseling gives me a unique perspective on what it means to show up, serve, & create connection for those who feel like they've never belonged before.

LINKS:

• Become the Regulated Woman
• Get emails that feel like your best friend (if your best friend was a therapist and actually told you the truth).
• Use code BB20 to get The Burnout Breakthrough for only $7
• Follow me on IG (dropping in once a quarter for updates & gossip)
• Website: ashmcdonaldmentoring.com

Work with me 1:1

• Therapeutic Mentorship
• Business Therapy (therapy + strategic mentorship)
• ...

Today we’re continuing The Energy Is Everything Series with a conversation that hits a nerve for so many high-achieving women: visibility, identity, and the energetic cost of hiding.

I’m joined by Renee Bowen — photographer, trauma-informed coach, and the kind of woman who makes you feel seen just by being in the room with her. We talk about what it really means to be “seen” (and why that can feel terrifying), how motherhood can blur your identity until you can’t find yourself anymore, and how neutrality is the bridge between being reactive and becoming sovereign.

This episode is for the woman who feels exhausted not because she’s doing too much… but because she’s doing too much of what isn’t true.

TOPICS WE EXPLORE:
• Why “not being seen” is one of the biggest energy leaks
• The visibility wound: where it starts and how it shows up
• Identity outside of motherhood, roles, and performance
• The cost of living for the male gaze (and how to unwind it)
• How anxiety, trauma, and nervous system dysregulation shape your choices
• Being called “selfish” when you stop martyring yourself
• What it means to get neutral — and why it changes everything
• Removing sensory charge (sound/color/story) to access objectivity
• Social media as energetic input (and how fast it drains you)
• Reclaiming self-trust without outsourcing your healing

POINT OF THE EPISODE:
When you’re hiding (even subtly, even “for good reasons”) you’re leaking energy. Healing the visibility wound isn’t about being louder online… it’s about becoming safe enough in your body to be honest, to take up space, and to live as you without needing permission.

MENTIONED:
• Renee’s website
• Renee on Instagram
• Renee’s podcast: Tried and True with a Dash of Woo
• Free hypnosis for anxiety

If this episode lit something up inside you, if you felt called out, softened, or seen... that’s not random. That’s your body telling the truth. And this series is your invitation to listen.

Are you loving it? Send Ash a text!

MORE ABOUT ASH
I am the definition of duality — I swear like a sailor and break rules like it’s my job, but I also hold incredible space for my clients and work my ass off to help them achieve the success they’re after. But I'm also here for the non-preneur woman, too. My background in counseling gives me a unique perspective on what it means to show up, serve, & create connection for those who feel like they've never belonged before.

LINKS:

• Become the Regulated Woman
• Get emails that feel like your best friend (if your best friend was a therapist and actually told you the truth).
• Use code BB20 to get The Burnout Breakthrough for only $7
• Follow me on IG (dropping in once a quarter for updates & gossip)
• Website: ashmcdonaldmentoring.com

Work with me 1:1

• Therapeutic Mentorship
• Business Therapy (therapy + strategic mentorship)
• ...