Have you ever found yourself reacting to your spouse based on the marriage you witnessed growing up? Whether your parents had a strong, loving relationship or a broken one, their dynamic can unconsciously shape the way you show up in your own marriage. In this episode of SanctiFly Your Marriage, we’re unpacking how past family patterns can creep into your relationship—sometimes stifling grace, communication, and growth.

We’ll discuss:
✅ Recognizing inherited mindsets about love, conflict, and commitment
✅ How to break generational cycles that don’t serve your marriage
✅ The importance of grace in writing and rewriting your own marry-tale

Your marriage isn’t meant to be a copy-and-paste of what you saw growing up. It’s time to SanctiFly your relationship with wisdom, healing, and grace. Tune in now!

Conflict is inevitable in any marriage, but how we handle it can make all the difference. In this episode of SanctiFly Your Marriage, we’re diving into the art of conflict resolution—God’s way. We’ll explore practical strategies to communicate effectively, navigate disagreements with love, and invite healing into your marriage.

In this episode of SanctiFly Your Marriage, we’re tackling one of the most exciting seasons of a couple’s journey: engagement and the wedding day! From the moment you say "yes" to the moment you say "I do," this road is filled with joy, challenges, and spiritual growth. Let's talk about it!

Illness can test even the strongest marriages, bringing challenges that expose our deepest vulnerabilities. In this episode of SanctiFly Your Marriage, we discuss how to support your spouse through sickness. From communication to caregiving, we’ll discuss ways to support and strengthen your marriage through health challenges.

Is your marriage taking a backseat to parenting? In this episode of SanctiFly Your Marriage, we explore the dangers of child-centered marriages and how to create healthy love patterns. Learn how to prioritize your spouse while raising great kids—because a strong marriage builds a stronger family.

In this episode of SanctiFly Your Marriage, we’re talking about the power of therapy and why every couple—yes, even the ones who pray together—can benefit from sitting on somebody’s couch. Whether you’re newlyweds, seasoned partners, or somewhere in between, this conversation will help you see therapy as a tool, not a last resort. Tune in and let’s sanctiFLY your marriage—one session at a time!

From friendship to forever ❤️ In this episode, How Did You Know?, we’re sharing how we met, dated, and realized that our love story started with a solid friendship. Tune in for laughs, love, and lasting lessons!

A few years ago, we faced the toughest season of our marriage. Instead of walking away, we chose to fight and surrender. Through God’s grace, therapy, and community, we recovered. Marriage has its ups and downs, and Kendal and Alyssa share their journey of being intentional with each other, deepening their faith, and learning to SanctiFly® their marriage.