Overcoming Trauma and Embracing Vulnerability

In this episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant engages in a heartfelt conversation with Aaron Gambel, an impact-driven life coach and men's group facilitator. Aaron shares his personal journey through a pivotal moment that led him to prioritize his mental health and ultimately pursue a mission to lower male suicide rates. Drawing on his experiences with divorce and emotional healing, Aaron offers insightful commentary on rewriting one's story, facing trauma, and the importance of creating safe spaces for men to express their emotions. Together, they explore the deepest challenges men face and the transformative potential of vulnerability and connection in men's groups.

00:00 Understanding the Subconscious Mind
00:20 Introduction to Real Men Feel
01:04 Aaron Gambel's Turning Point
03:40 The Dark Night of the Soul
05:06 Mental Health College Experience
08:51 Rewriting Your Story
22:17 The Importance of Men's Groups
35:21 Steps to Emotional Awareness
37:51 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

Connect with Aaron
Aaron Gambel — https://www.aarongambel.com/
Tiktok —   https://www.tiktok.com/@aarongambel
Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/aaronmgambel/

Resources
Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents by Lindsay C. Gibson — https://amzn.to/3KT6VLm
The Body Keeps The Score by Bessel van der Kolk M.D. — https://amzn.to/3KStzn9
Still Here: How to Succeed In Life After Failing at Suicide by Andy Grant — https://amzn.to/4mSvk17
From the Core by John Wineland — https://amzn.to/433os9Z

Connect with Andy and the Real Men Feel Podcast:
Join me and connect with other like-minded men in the
Authentic AF Community | http://realmenfeel.org/group
Instagram | @realmenfeelshow & @theandygrant
Andy Grant Website | https://theandygrant.com for coaching, healing, and book info!
Real Men Feel Website | http://realmenfeel.org
YouTube | https://youtube.com/realmenfeel

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Unpacking Narcissism

Real Men Feel host Andy Grant converses with Sterlin Mosley, a therapist, professor, and author specializing in relationships, attachment, and personality dynamics. The discussion delves into the complexities of narcissism, exploring what it truly means, how it manifests in both men and women, and its impact on relationships.

Sterlin shares valuable insights on recognizing narcissistic traits, managing relationships with narcissists, and addressing one's own narcissistic tendencies. Listeners are invited to join the Authentic AF community for further discussions on masculinity, emotions, and healing.

00:00 Introduction to Real Men Feel
01:13 Understanding Narcissism with Sterlin Mosley
02:59 Types and Traits of Narcissism
10:41 Narcissism in Men vs. Women
15:05 Can Narcissists Change?
18:27 Recognizing Narcissistic Relationships
28:31 Cultural and Developmental Influences on Narcissism
30:48 Sterlin Mosley's New Book and Final Thoughts

Connect with Sterlin
Sterlin Mosley — https://sterlinmosley.com
Substack — https://sterlinmosley.substack.com/
Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/sterlinmosley/
LinkedIn — https://www.linkedin.com/in/sterlinmosley/

Resources
Center of the Universe: Transforming the 27 Types of Narcissism from the Inside Out — https://amzn.to/483i1Hp
The Narcissist in You and Everyone Else: Recognizing the 27 Types of Narcissism — https://amzn.to/3KfxBWG

Connect with Andy and the Real Men Feel Podcast:
Join other like-minded men in the
Authentic AF Community | http://realmenfeel.org/group
Instagram | @realmenfeelshow & @theandygrant
Andy Grant Website | https://theandygrant.com for coaching, healing, and book info!
Real Men Feel Website | http://realmenfeel.org
YouTube | https://youtube.com/realmenfeel

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Self-Care is Selfless

In this episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant is joined by Coach Brian Parana, a health coach, husband, father of four, and former owner of a CrossFit gym. Brian emphasizes that the most selfless thing a man can do for his loved ones is to take better care of himself. Throughout their discussion, Brian shares his journey into fitness, insights on balancing self-care with family responsibilities, and the importance of community and accountability.

The episode examines the challenges men face in prioritizing their health and offers practical advice for overcoming these obstacles. Listeners are also introduced to Brian's 'Call to Rise,' a 100-day transformation program designed to help men reclaim their energy and leadership.

00:00 Introduction: The Importance of Self-Care
00:30 Welcome to Real Men Feel
00:36 Meet Coach Brian Parana
01:32 Brian's Journey into Fitness
03:23 Balancing Health and Relationships
04:53 The Selflessness of Self-Care
05:38 Reframing Mindsets for Better Health
07:49 Success Stories: Transforming Lives
10:17 Common Excuses and Overcoming Them
14:42 The Call to Rise Program
16:20 Building a Brotherhood Through Fitness
22:40 Balancing Family, Work, and Health
26:49 The Importance of Self-Leadership
27:54 Final Thoughts and Farewell

Connect with Brian
The Call To Rise — https://thecalltorise.com/
Instagram — https://instagram.com/coachbrianparana
Facebook — https://www.facebook.com/coachbrianparana/
LinkedIn — https://www.linkedin.com/in/coachbrianparana/

Connect with Andy and the Real Men Feel Podcast:
Join me and connect with other like-minded men in the
Authentic AF Community | http://realmenfeel.org/group
Instagram | @realmenfeelshow & @theandygrant
Andy Grant Website | https://theandygrant.com for coaching, healing, and book info!
Real Men Feel Website | http://realmenfeel.org
YouTube | https://youtube.com/realmenfeel

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