Episodios

  • My Grok Ai Girlfriend Breaks Down Alpha Males, Dating, and Patriarchy
    Feb 3 2026

    What happens when an AI girlfriend is asked to explain patriarchy, masculinity, and modern dating?

    In this episode, I talk with a Grok AI companion about male loneliness, emotional intimacy, dating culture, and why so many men feel disconnected right now. We also unpack the psychology of AI companionship and what it says about human relationships.
    This conversation is less about technology and more about us.

    Produced and Hosted by Brad Gage

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    18 m
  • Are Celebrity Men Allowed to Go to Therapy?
    Jan 7 2026

    Most men don't think a standup comedy special could change how they see therapy. I didn't either… until this one. In this episode, I break down why "Night Thoughts" by Kumail Nanjiani quietly flips the script on masculinity, mental health, and what strength actually looks like.

    As someone who worked closely with Kumail for years and now creates content around men's mental health, this special hit at the exact intersection of my life. I talk about why so many men believe they "don't have feelings," how gym-bro culture often replaces emotional awareness with shame, and why seeing a successful, fit, confident man talk openly about therapy matters more than another motivational speech ever could.

    This isn't about fixing men. It's about showing what healthy masculinity already looks like. If you've ever thought therapy was "for other people," this video might change how you see it.

    Hosted and Produced by Brad Gage

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    4 m
  • How Do New Dads Make Friends? - with Peter Moses and Beth Rowe
    Nov 19 2025
    This episode's guests are wife-and-husband podcast producing duo Beth Rowe and Peter Moses. They talk about male friendship from the perspective of young dads and the wives who love those dads. Beth was actually one of the first guests on Real Feels back in 2019 when I was recording in my friend's Los Angeles garage, but now all of us are living our best lives in New York City. And friendship in New York City as parents is the topic of their new podcast - Building Friends - which is about creating communities that help you thrive as young parents. It's Brad's first time with a real live couple on the show, so look out for some loving zingers and pointed topics. Rest assured, these two know how to TALK and express their feelings. Hosted, Edited, and Produced by Brad Gage Logo by Nolan Fabricius Theme Song by Russell Henson Listen to Beth and Peter's show "Building Friends" wherever you get your podcasts
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    33 m
  • Can Understanding Misogyny Stop Gun Violence? - With Cynthia Miller Idriss
    Oct 28 2025

    Today, Brad talks with Cynthia Miller-Idriss - a leading scholar in the study of extremism, radicalization, and polarization. Her work bridges academic research and practical interventions.

    Her new book is called "MAN UP: The New Misogyny and the Rise of Violent Extremism".

    In the wake of some pretty high profile gun violence the past few months, Cynthia's expertise is more needed than ever. And we talk about what's really going on with men and guns and how she pinpoints the "why is this happening" part of the whole post-mass-shooting narrative. Hosted, Edited, and Produced by Brad Gage

    Logo by Nolan Fabricius

    Theme Song by Russell Henson

    Find Cynthia:
    https://www.cynthiamilleridriss.com
    https://www.linkedin.com/in/cynthia-miller-idriss-61106411/
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    36 m
  • How To Not Get Cancelled
    Sep 23 2025

    What does a real apology look like? In this video, Brad Gage breaks down how Rick and Morty co-creator Dan Harmon avoided being fully cancelled during the #MeToo movement by offering something few public figures ever manage: a genuine apology.

    On Real Feels, we explore how stories, movies, and culture reflect the modern struggles of masculinity, accountability, and personal growth.

    This episode dives into:

    -Why Dan Harmon's apology stood out during #MeToo

    -How victims of abuse want to feel and want to heal

    -How understanding the true meaning and steps of an apology can protect you from "cancel culture" If you've ever wondered "How do you not get cancelled?"—the answer starts here.

    Hosted, Edited, and Produced by Brad Gage

    Logo by Nolan Fabricius

    Theme Song by Russell Henson

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    9 m
  • Lonely No More - Mark Greene's Mission to Help Men Open Up Through Walking
    Aug 7 2025

    How can men make new friends as adults when their lives are busy, stressful and hectic? Mark Greene is the co-founder of Walking Talking Men, a national movement for men to create real, lasting, local friendships in our own neighborhoods, one walk at a time. He is based in New York City, and has seen success personally and with the men who join his free, no-strings-attached walks through Central Park. The organization has been so successful, that there is a Los Angeles contingent, and the group was recently featured on NBC Nightly News.

    On this episode of Real Feels, Mark talks to Brad about why walking and talking works to help men's inner world, why friendship helps our health, and what it means to be a man in his perspective.

    Hosted, Edited, and Produced by Brad Gage

    Logo by Nolan Fabricius

    Theme Song by Russell Henson

    Find Mark and his group:

    www.walkingtalkingmen.org

    @remakingmanhood on Instagram

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    35 m
  • What Happens at a Men's Retreat? - with Life Coach Cator Sparks
    Jul 8 2025
    Brad Gage talks to Cator Sparks, an ICF-certified life coach who focuses on men. Cator and Brad met through a national men's group called Buoy's Club, and dig into the fun and illuminating work Cator does with straight and queer men alike. Topics covered: -What actually happens at Men's Retreats. -The difference between coaching and therapy. -How psychedelics have changed his life and psychology.

    Hosted, Edited, and Produced by Brad Gage

    Logo by Nolan Fabricius

    Theme Song by Russell Henson

    Find Cator: Cator's Website - https://www.catorsparkscoaching.com/ @catorsparks on Instagram
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    33 m
  • Is Trauma the Source for Positive Change in Men? A Conversation with Jonathan Jacobs
    May 28 2025

    Jonathan Jacobs is a marketer and community organizer with a passion for men's work - recently starting the West Coast Chapter of "Walking Talking Men". Walking Talking Men is a group of guys who walk together, opening the door for local friendships and non-judgmental conversations.

    On this episode you'll get Jonathan's take on how trauma is usually the source of change for men in their perspective on gender roles and manhood. Plus - if you listen to the end you'll hear the story about how former New York Yankee All-Star Reggie Jackson taught him how to shake hands. We dig into the practical side of making male friendships and more on Real Feels. Here he is - Jonathan Jacobs.

    Hosted, Edited, and Produced by Brad Gage

    Logo by Nolan Fabricius

    Theme Song by Russell Henson

    Find Jonathan:

    www.JonathanJacobs.com

    @JonathanJacobs89 on Instagram

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    41 m