Why do the simplest moments with kids — like putting on a coat — sometimes explode into shouting, tears, and slammed doors?
Why do even the most loving parents find themselves saying things they swore they'd never say?

In this powerful conversation, parenting coach Camilla McGill shares the three biggest mistakes parents unknowingly make — and, more importantly, how small shifts can completely transform the connection with a child.

Listeners will hear a real-life "messy moment" that every parent will recognise and walk away with practical tools to:
✨ Stay calm under pressure
✨ Guide instead of control
✨ Focus on building long-term resilience — not just short-term obedience

If anyone has ever walked away from an argument with their child thinking, "Why did it go that way?" — this episode offers the insight and reassurance they need.

Timestamps:

00:00 Introduction to Raising Kids with Love and Boundaries

00:04 Why we make mistakes

00:51 Introducing the Question of the Week: Handling Frustration

02:12 Mistake #1: Controlling Instead of Guiding

06:54 Mistake #2: Reacting Emotionally Instead of Responding Calmly

10:37 Mistake #3: Focusing on Short-Term Obedience

13:56 Reply to Question of the Week: "How can I get my child to put their coat on?"

14:45 Summary and Recap

Book a call with Camilla to discuss the in person or virtual 'House Visit' as part of her coaching package
https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/CHAT

When you're ready here are 3 ways that Camilla could help you further:
Tired of feeling like you go round in circles with your child and never seem to get anywhere?
Wish your child came with a manual, as you're just not sure what's the best approach?
1.Book a FREE Discovery Call to talk to Camilla about how she can help you personally to transform your family life. https://calendly.com/myparentingsolutions/discovery-call

2. For blogs, free downloadable guides and other information go to https://www.myparentingsolutions.com

3. Go to Camilla's instagram for further tips and inspiration https://www.instagram.com/myparentingsolutions/

“You’re stupid!” “I hate you!” “Give me it – NOW!”
If your child says things like this, you’re not alone — and you’re not doing anything wrong. But the truth is, hearing those words can be heartbreaking, especially when you’re trying to raise a kind and respectful human with good manners.

In this powerful episode, parenting coach Camilla McGill shares why rudeness shows up so often — particularly with the people our children feel safest with — and what we can do to guide them without shouting, shaming or punishment.

You’ll learn:

• Why kids are rude (hint: it’s rarely personal)
  
  
• How to stay calm and hold your boundary
  
  
• The gentle replay technique that helps children practise respectful communication
  
  
• What to do when they’re rude to a nanny or grandparent
  
  
• And how to handle those painful words: “I hate you.”

Time Stamps

• 00:00 - Introduction and personal anecdotes about rude behavior in children
• 01:00 - Overview of the episode's structure
• 03:00 - Explanation of why children are rude
• 05:00 - First strategy – Staying calm and not reacting
• 07:00 - Second strategy – Recognizing emotions without shaming
• 09:00 - Third strategy – Asking for a polite 'replay'
• 11:00 - Handling rudeness towards nannies or grandparents
• 13:00 - Question of the week – Responding to 'I hate you'
• 15:00 - Final thoughts and resources

This is not about raising perfect kids. It’s about helping them express big feelings without hurting others — and giving you the tools to respond with confidence.

✨ Ready to shift the tone in your home? Grab Camilla’s free guide: https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/justlisten

📩 Or book a free discovery call if you want personalised support. https://calendly.com/myparentingsolutions/discovery-call

🎧 If this episode helped, please rate it and share it with a friend or your child’s caregiver. Let’s spread the message of love and boundaries!

Book a call with Camilla to discuss the in person or virtual 'House Visit' as part of her coaching package
https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/CHAT

When you're ready here are 3 ways that Camilla could help you further:
Tired of feeling like you go round in circles with your child and never seem to get anywhere?
Wish your child came with a manual, as you're just not sure what's the best approach?
1.Book a FREE Discovery Call to talk to Camilla about how she can help you personally to transform your family life. https://calendly.com/myparentingsolutions/discovery-call

2. For blogs, free downloadable guides and other information go to https://www.myparentingsolutions.com

3. Go to Camilla's instagram for further tips and inspiration https://www.instagram.com/myparentingsolutions/

There’s a common parenting instinct to protect our children at all costs — and whilst that protective impulse is rooted in love, it can unintentionally hold our kids back.

Listen to this episode to learn three powerful reasons why we need to raise independent kids and why wrapping our children in cotton wool can prevent them from developing essential life skills like resilience, self-trust and problem-solving.

Camilla also offers practical, gentle ways to help your child learn to take ageand developmentally appropriate risks, build confidence, and grow into capable, independent people.

Expect lots of empathy, relatable stories from her own parenting journey, and real-life tips you can start using today.

🌟 What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

• Why over-protecting them actually limits their growth
  
  
• How to introduce risk in a safe, age-appropriate way
  
  
• What to say when your child faces disappointment or failure
  
  
• The long-term emotional and developmental benefits of fostering independence
  
  
• Why handing over responsibility in small doses builds resilience
  
  

🔧 Practical Strategies You'll Hear:

• How to stay calm when your child pushes boundaries — especially near roads or in risky situations
  
  
• The power of using natural consequences instead of threats or punishment
  
  
• Why involving your child in decision-making fosters independence, cooperation and safety awareness
  
  
• How to model learning through your own real-life mistakes
  
  

🎙️ Question of the Week:

“My child refuses to hold my hand near roads or in car parks, and I’m terrified he’ll run off — what should I do?”
Camilla shares a beautifully balanced response that addresses both safety and the need to build your child’s decision-making skills and independence.

📌 Links and Resources:

• Want to take things further? Apply for Camilla’s transformational 1:1 coaching package by starting with a free discovery call
  
  
• Grab Camilla's fantastic free guide: How to Get Kids to Listen Without Nagging or Shouting

Book a call with Camilla to discuss the in person or virtual 'House Visit' as part of her coaching package
https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/CHAT

When you're ready here are 3 ways that Camilla could help you further:
Tired of feeling like you go round in circles with your child and never seem to get anywhere?
Wish your child came with a manual, as you're just not sure what's the best approach?
1.Book a FREE Discovery Call to talk to Camilla about how she can help you personally to transform your family life. https://calendly.com/myparentingsolutions/discovery-call

2. For blogs, free downloadable guides and other information go to https://www.myparentingsolutions.com

3. Go to Camilla's instagram for further tips and inspiration https://www.instagram.com/myparentingsolutions/