There’s a common parenting instinct to protect our children at all costs — and whilst that protective impulse is rooted in love, it can unintentionally hold our kids back.

Listen to this episode to learn three powerful reasons why we need to raise independent kids and why wrapping our children in cotton wool can prevent them from developing essential life skills like resilience, self-trust and problem-solving.

Camilla also offers practical, gentle ways to help your child learn to take ageand developmentally appropriate risks, build confidence, and grow into capable, independent people.

Expect lots of empathy, relatable stories from her own parenting journey, and real-life tips you can start using today.

🌟 What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

• Why over-protecting them actually limits their growth
  
  
• How to introduce risk in a safe, age-appropriate way
  
  
• What to say when your child faces disappointment or failure
  
  
• The long-term emotional and developmental benefits of fostering independence
  
  
• Why handing over responsibility in small doses builds resilience
  
  

🔧 Practical Strategies You'll Hear:

• How to stay calm when your child pushes boundaries — especially near roads or in risky situations
  
  
• The power of using natural consequences instead of threats or punishment
  
  
• Why involving your child in decision-making fosters independence, cooperation and safety awareness
  
  
• How to model learning through your own real-life mistakes
  
  

🎙️ Question of the Week:

“My child refuses to hold my hand near roads or in car parks, and I’m terrified he’ll run off — what should I do?”
Camilla shares a beautifully balanced response that addresses both safety and the need to build your child’s decision-making skills and independence.

📌 Links and Resources:

• Want to take things further? Apply for Camilla’s transformational 1:1 coaching package by starting with a free discovery call
  
  
• Grab Camilla's fantastic free guide: How to Get Kids to Listen Without Nagging or Shouting

Book a call with Camilla to discuss the in person or virtual 'House Visit' as part of her coaching package
https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/CHAT

When you're ready here are 3 ways that Camilla could help you further:
Tired of feeling like you go round in circles with your child and never seem to get anywhere?
Wish your child came with a manual, as you're just not sure what's the best approach?
1.Book a FREE Discovery Call to talk to Camilla about how she can help you personally to transform your family life. https://calendly.com/myparentingsolutions/discovery-call

2. For blogs, free downloadable guides and other information go to https://www.myparentingsolutions.com

3. Go to Camilla's instagram for further tips and inspiration https://www.instagram.com/myparentingsolutions/