Believing in yourself is not confidence.
It is not ego.
And it is not something you either have or do not have.

It is a daily practice.
And it is deeply connected to whether you actually like the person you see when you look in the mirror.

In this season-finale episode of Queens Behind the Scenes, Charise Beckett explores why self-belief and self-liking are inseparable, how high-achieving women learn to abandon both in the name of success, and what it really costs to reclaim them.

Drawing from lived experience, leadership insight, and cultural truth, Charise breaks down:

• Why believing in yourself is not optional if you want freedom, not just success

• How chronic self-betrayal erodes both confidence and self-respect

• The unspoken backlash that comes when you genuinely love yourself and others do not

• Why self-love is not soft work, but disruptive leadership

• Practical ways to activate self-trust, set boundaries, and stop playing small

This is not a motivational episode.
It is a grounded, honest conversation about power, alignment, and the work nobody applauds.

If you have ever felt successful on paper but disconnected from yourself, this episode is for you.

Recommended Resources from This Episode

If today’s conversation resonated, these resources are designed to help you go deeper and put the work into practice.

Book:
P.O.I.S.E.: The Blueprint for Escaping Burnout, Redefining Success, and Creating Your New Reality

Companion Workbook:
The P.O.I.S.E. Method Workbook: A Practical Guide to Building Sustainable Leadership, Self-Trust, and Endurance

Romanticizing your life isn’t about escaping reality or pretending everything is perfect. It’s about choosing intention, presence, and beauty inside the life you already have.

In this episode of Queens Behind the Scenes, we explore why romanticizing your everyday moments is not frivolous or naïve, but practical, grounding, and deeply sustaining. From small rituals and intentional routines to creating moments of care in the middle of real life, this conversation unpacks how softness, presence, and meaning can transform how life feels without requiring a complete overhaul.

This episode builds on the same philosophy explored in P.O.I.S.E.: The Blueprint for Escaping Burnout, Redefining Success, and Creating Your New Reality, where success is redefined beyond constant urgency and performance, and in The P.O.I.S.E. Leadership Action Workbook, which focuses on sustainable leadership, intentional living, and long-term endurance.

If you’ve been craving more joy, calm, and connection in your daily life, this episode is a reminder that you don’t need a new life to feel better — you need a different way of experiencing the one you’re already living.

This is an invitation to slow down, soften your days, and reimagine what it means to truly live well.

Some seasons don’t end with drama.
They end with resistance.

In this solo episode of Queens Behind the Scenes, Charise Beckett speaks directly to the woman who is still capable, still performing, and still successful — but quietly questioning why everything feels heavier than it used to.

This conversation isn’t about quitting or burning things down.
It’s about discernment.
About recognizing the difference between commitment and self-abandonment.
About learning to trust the signals your body, energy, and intuition have been offering long before your mind catches up.

In this episode, you’ll hear reflections on:

• How to recognize when a season is ending at work, in relationships, or within yourself

• The difference between burnout and misalignment — and why rest doesn’t fix everything

• Why hustle seasons have an expiration date

• How quiet disengagement, resistance, and fatigue can be signals of growth, not failure

• What you’re allowed to be unavailable for in your next season

This episode is for high-performing women who are not lost — they are evolving.
Not behind — they are between seasons.

If you’ve been asking, “Why does this feel heavier than it used to?”
This conversation is for you.

🎧 Queens Behind the Scenes is hosted by Charise Beckett — leadership strategist, founder of P.O.I.S.E.™, and trusted voice for women navigating success with clarity, endurance, and self-trust.

Follow along on Instagram: @charise.beckett

📘 Book: P.O.I.S.E.: The Blueprint for Escaping Burnout, Redefining Success, and Creating your New Reality

📓 Workbook: The P.O.I.S.E. Leadership Action Workbook: An Interactive Guide to Leading with Confidence, Clarity, and Resilience