Why Believing in Yourself Changes Everything

Believing in yourself is not confidence.
It is not ego.
And it is not something you either have or do not have.

It is a daily practice.
And it is deeply connected to whether you actually like the person you see when you look in the mirror.

In this season-finale episode of Queens Behind the Scenes, Charise Beckett explores why self-belief and self-liking are inseparable, how high-achieving women learn to abandon both in the name of success, and what it really costs to reclaim them.

Drawing from lived experience, leadership insight, and cultural truth, Charise breaks down:

• Why believing in yourself is not optional if you want freedom, not just success

• How chronic self-betrayal erodes both confidence and self-respect

• The unspoken backlash that comes when you genuinely love yourself and others do not

• Why self-love is not soft work, but disruptive leadership

• Practical ways to activate self-trust, set boundaries, and stop playing small

This is not a motivational episode.
It is a grounded, honest conversation about power, alignment, and the work nobody applauds.

If you have ever felt successful on paper but disconnected from yourself, this episode is for you.

Recommended Resources from This Episode

If today’s conversation resonated, these resources are designed to help you go deeper and put the work into practice.

Book:
P.O.I.S.E.: The Blueprint for Escaping Burnout, Redefining Success, and Creating Your New Reality

Companion Workbook:
The P.O.I.S.E. Method Workbook: A Practical Guide to Building Sustainable Leadership, Self-Trust, and Endurance