What happens when you leave the place that raised you… and have to decide where you’re going to plant yourself next?

In this episode of Pretty & Painful, Bailey talks about being rooted — not stuck. Not small. Not silenced. Rooted.

From small-town football nights and Hardee’s parking lot conversations to finding belonging in new soil… this one is about identity, grief, growth, and what it means to build a life that feels like yours.

It’s about missing family milestones because of night shifts.

Driving a fire truck when generations of men did it before you.

Being 5’11 and still tripping — but getting back up anyway.

Loving your body while still wanting to be healthier.

Building magic for your daughter while quietly carrying your own pain.

This episode is for the woman who:

• ​ feels behind
• ​ feels overwhelmed
• ​ feels like she’s failing
• ​ but hasn’t quit

You can be tired and rooted.

You can grieve and grow.

You can miss home and still build a new one.

Bailey shares what it’s looked like to survive cancer, navigate guilt, show up imperfectly as a mom, balance dispatch life and fire calls, and still whisper to herself:

“I’m still here… and that’s good.”

If you’ve ever wondered whether you’re doing enough — this one’s for you.

🌿 Rooted doesn’t mean buried.

It means you’re planted on purpose.

Turns out remission doesn’t come with a glitter cannon.

And grief doesn’t leave quietly.

But somewhere between carrot cake recipes, decorating therapy, and my daughter asking, “Mom, can we make peanut butter cookies?” … I found pieces of myself again.

This episode is about personality coming back online.

About laughing without guilt.

About being allowed to sparkle after survival.

I’m still baking.

Still accessorizing.

Still healing.

Still sassin’.

And if you’re in your comeback season too — pull up a chair.

Grief doesn’t always whisper — sometimes it keeps baking, keeps winning bingo, keeps showing up.

In Episode 2 of Pretty & Painful, Bailey talks about celebrating the ones we’ve lost while honoring the generational strength that teaches us to survive heartbreak. From peanut butter cookies to hospital rooms, from Grandma’s resilience to Grandpa’s absence — this episode is raw, tender, and deeply human.

Because grief is painful.

But it’s also proof of love.

Yellow was never just a color — it was my Grandpa’s phone, the one he called “my yellow.” In this episode, I share what it’s like to lose the person who was always your call away and learn how grief quietly changes everything.

From hospital rooms and final goodbyes to finding joy in the everyday again, this episode is about love, loss, and carrying someone with you even when the phone goes silent.

Welcome to Pretty & Painful. 💛