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  • 75. Can You Learn Compersion? ft. Evolving Love Project

    75. Can You Learn Compersion? ft. Evolving Love Project
    Mar 31 2026

    Today Abbey and Liam from the Evolving Love Project come back to talk about their process opening up their relationship. We explain why fairness doesn’t always mean doing the same things, as Abbey experienced when she dated solo for two years before Liam did. We also explore compersion, being turned on by the thought of your partner being with others, and whether that’s something you can grow into.


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    Abbey's Substack:

    https://substack.com/@evolvingloveproject?utm_source=global-search


    Evolving Love Podcast: When Abbey Vetoed Fer:


    https://open.spotify.com/episode/47hASJGbb3UfcaWQTxinxC


    Ep.42 Can Non-monogamy Make You a Better Parent? with Abbey and Liam:


    https://www.polycurious.com/podcast/ep42


    Evolving Love Project website:

    https://www.evolvingloveproject.com/



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  • 74. Do This Before Opening Up with Nancy & Jonny

    74. Do This Before Opening Up with Nancy & Jonny
    Mar 17 2026
    Nancy and Jonny spent months focusing on education, workshops, community, and strengthening their communication before taking their first steps into non-monogamy.In this episode, they share what that intentional process looked like, the challenges they encountered, and how moving slowly helped them build a deeper sense of safety and trust in their relationship.They also share practical communication tools that helped them navigate difficult emotions, including one simple but powerful question partners can ask each other: Do you need to be helped, hugged, or heard?Resources mentioned:Queering Existentialism (Unlearning Mononormativity workshop and others):https://www.queeringexistentialism.com/Jonny’s Self-Love playlist:https://open.spotify.com/playlist/1JszNHS2Bw95szUQtDaTG8?si=iModwn0YSR6lbcNv8dVouA&pi=K4mgv1OrTY2g1House Of Scorpio Lip Service Partyhttps://www.houseofscorpio.com/index.htmlBook: All Fours By Miranda Julyhttps://mirandajuly.com/all-fours/New York Jacks (Masturbation Party):https://nyjacks.com/Sucia Eventshttps://linktr.ee/suciasundaysMy Episode with Evolving Love Podcast:https://open.spotify.com/episode/47hASJGbb3UfcaWQTxinxCEp.52 How to Find Safety with Leo and Luna:https://www.polycurious.com/podcast/ep52My Break Up Story and Tips for Going Through a Breakup Part 2:https://www.patreon.com/posts/my-break-up-and-143818808Join my Patreon (for the Meetups) ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠:https://www.patreon.com/c/PolycuriousGet my free guide to opening up ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.polycurious.com/guide-to-opening-upBook a free exploratory call with me⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠:https://calendly.com/fernandafabian/30minJoin our Whatsapp community⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.polycurious.com/communityFollow Polycurious on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠:https://www.instagram.com/polycuriouspodcast?igshid=1mrwl69kdbtasFollow Polycurious on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Tik Tok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠:https://www.tiktok.com/@polycurious
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  • 73. I Wanted Sex with One Partner But Not The Other with Libby Sinback

    73. I Wanted Sex with One Partner But Not The Other with Libby Sinback
    Mar 3 2026
    What happens when you stop wanting sex with your long-term partner(s)… but not with someone new?In this episode, I’m joined by relationship coach and host of Making Polyamory Work, Libby Sinback. Libby shares openly about a four-year period in her marriage when she and her husband didn’t have sex and what it took to find their way back to intimacy.Resources mentioned:Learn more about Libby here: https://www.libbysinback.com/Morgan Burch’s post about sex not being a physical need here:https://www.instagram.com/goodmorgantherapy/p/DU01M50AD6s/?img_index=3Emily Nagoski’s books here: https://www.emilynagoski.com/booksMaking Polyamory Work episode with Drew here: https://creators.spotify.com/pod/profile/makingpolywork/episodes/Leaning-In-e3c7lgc/a-acbv8i2Poly Parents Miniseries here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YFX44KoR8S4&list=PLuhHN8kw_43UM2tkDWg8xwIZbOQBE__EeJoin my Patreon ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠:https://www.patreon.com/c/PolycuriousGet my free guide to opening up ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.polycurious.com/guide-to-opening-upBook a free exploratory call with me⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠:https://calendly.com/fernandafabian/30minJoin our Whatsapp community⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.polycurious.com/communityFollow Polycurious on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠:https://www.instagram.com/polycuriouspodcast?igshid=1mrwl69kdbtasFollow Polycurious on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Tik Tok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠:https://www.tiktok.com/@polycurious
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  • 72. I Questioned Monogamy and Heteronormativity and Couldn’t Go Back

    72. I Questioned Monogamy and Heteronormativity and Couldn’t Go Back
    Feb 17 2026

    In this episode, JJ shares how he went from being in a monogamous relationship to fully embracing his queer and non-monogamous identity. He opens up about working through shame and what it’s been like navigating queerness and non-monogamy as a man in a heteronormative culture.


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    https://www.patreon.com/posts/bonus-ep-72-nre-150958971?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=postshare_creator&utm_content=join_link


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    https://www.reddit.com/r/polyamory/comments/pwkdxp/v3_relationship_components_menu_last_update_for/


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  • 71. Can BDSM Be Therapeutic? with Nicolle Hodges

    71. Can BDSM Be Therapeutic? with Nicolle Hodges
    Feb 3 2026

    In this episode, Nicolle Hodges shares how she discovered the world of kink, became a lifestyle dominatrix, and realized BDSM can be profoundly therapeutic (the subject of her upcoming book!). She also reflects on her experience in a polyamorous relationship, including navigating a throuple, and explains why she ultimately decided to step away from non-monogamy.


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    https://nicolledoublel.substack.com/


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  • 70. Jealousy is Information with Kayla + Carl (Part 2)

    70. Jealousy is Information with Kayla + Carl (Part 2)
    Jan 20 2026

    In part two of my conversation with Kayla and Carl, we explore how jealousy can be a powerful source of information, helping us understand what we want more of and how we can grow. We also talk about a major milestone in their non monogamy journey: Carl’s first experience stepping outside his marriage, which was also his first sexual connection with someone other than Kayla.


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    ⁠Kayla's Essay⁠:

    https://medium.com/@kaylamerz/truth-sex-and-non-monogamy-8f1e42c8fde4?postPublishedType=initial


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  • 69. Non-monogamy Saved Our Marriage with Kayla + Carl (Part 1)

    69. Non-monogamy Saved Our Marriage with Kayla + Carl (Part 1)
    Jan 13 2026

    Kayla and Carl, a married couple with young kids, share how non monogamy helped them move out of a decline in sexual connection and communication. While Carl was initially not interested in exploring outside the relationship himself, his support of Kayla’s exploration became a major turning point. Kayla, who is seven years older and had often felt more in charge in the relationship, began to see Carl differently: more confident, grounded, and secure. That shift had a powerful impact on their intimacy.

    This episode explores how non monogamy can introduce new sexual energy into a relationship and help long-term couples who feel stagnant find their way out of a rut.


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  • 68. Having Three DADT Partners with Alex & Skyler

    68. Having Three DADT Partners with Alex & Skyler
    Dec 16 2025

    In this episode, we explore what it looks like to navigate three Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell relationships in which all partners want escalation, while Skyler is not ready to step onto the relationship escalator with any of them. This tension is especially present for Alex, who is in her mid-thirties and thinking seriously about partnership, stability, and having children.

    Skyler shares how he moved from a long-term monogamous marriage into non-hierarchy and unexpectedly found himself in three relationships, while Alex reflects on meeting Skyler shortly before her divorce and falling in love while still grieving.

    Together, we unpack when Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell dynamics can feel protective versus when they can become harmful and how non-hierarchy can create tension when people’s futures are uncertain.


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