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Have you ever felt like your thoughts are hijacking your parenting leaving you overwhelmed, reactive, and stuck in survival mode?

In this episode, we’re diving into three powerful anchors for your thought life that will help you take your thoughts captive, so you can show up calmer and more connected with your strong-willed or neurodivergent child (whether ADHD, ASD, ODD, or PDA).

You’ll learn how your thoughts shape your feelings, your actions, and ultimately the atmosphere in your home. Instead of being run by fear, shame, or others’ opinions, you’ll discover practical tools to declutter your mind and anchor your thoughts in truth—so meltdowns no longer have the power to hijack your peace.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

• Why awareness of your thoughts is the first step to transformation.
• How to use a “thought download” to declutter your mind and release negative loops.
• Why other people’s opinions don’t define you—or your child.
• Biblical encouragement on renewing your mind (Romans 12:2) and speaking life over your parenting.
• A faith-rooted perspective on shifting from chaos to calm, even when meltdowns happen.

Faith Anchor

Romans 12:2 reminds us: “Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.” Mama, you don’t have to let your thoughts run wild—you can anchor them in truth and take back your peace.

Episode Challenge

This week, try a “thought download.” Write down every thought swirling in your mind about parenting, meltdowns, and your child. Then ask: Does this thought serve me and the relationship I want with my child? Release what doesn’t, and choose one life-giving thought to carry forward.

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Parenting Beyond Meltdowns is ranked in the Top 5% of podcasts globally!

What comes to mind when you hear the word obedience? For many mamas, it feels tied to pressure, rules, and the belief that if our child doesn’t obey instantly, we must be failing. But what if that way of thinking is actually breaking connection with your strong-willed or neurodivergent child?

In this episode, I’m rethinking obedience through a biblical lens — and exploring how connection, trust, and the Holy Spirit reshape the way we show up as moms, especially when raising kids with ASD, ADHD, ODD, or PDA.

We’ll cover:

• The traditional view of obedience — and why it often leaves kids feeling unseen or discouraged.
• A deeper dive into Scripture and how relationship always comes before obedience.
• The role of the Holy Spirit in guiding us away from fear-based parenting and toward love and trust.

What you’ll walk away with:

• A fresh perspective on obedience that prioritizes your child’s heart over fear and control.
• Permission to meet your child at their developmental level — whether they’re strong-willed, neurodivergent, or both.
• Practical and faith-filled encouragement to lean into the Holy Spirit’s whisper instead of the world’s pressure.

Bible Verses Referenced:

• Luke 22:39–45

• Ephesians 6:1–4

• Colossians 3:21

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Parenting Beyond Meltdowns is ranked in the Top 5% of podcasts globally!

Mama, Is your child just strong-willed, or could something deeper be going on...

In this episode, we’ll unpack the difference between a strong-willed child and a neurodivergent child, and why the distinction matters—but not in the way you might think.

Because at the end of the day, your child’s identity isn’t found in a label. And yours isn’t defined by their meltdowns. 💜

We’ll talk about:

• The difference between strong-willed traits and neurodivergent challenges.
• Why regulation and connection matter more than labels.
• How to anchor yourself so you can show up with peace, regardless of diagnosis.

Whether you’re navigating ADHD, ASD (Autism Spectrum Disorder), PDA (Pathological Demand Avoidance), ODD (Oppositional Defiant Disorder), or just a whole lot of strong-willed energy, this conversation will give you hope and perspective.

Scriptures referenced:

• Psalm 139:14 — “I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made.”
• Isaiah 43:1 says, “Do not fear, for I have redeemed you; I have summoned you by name; you are mine.”

Cleveland Clinic List Referenced:

https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/symptoms/23154-neurodivergent

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