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In this episode, I sit down with my friend and decades-long colleague, Dr. Stephen Cervantes, to explore our shared struggles with seeking approval and what it means to be an “approval junkie.” Together, we reflect on why we crave affirmation—from childhood to adulthood—and how this shapes our sense of belonging and self-worth.

We discuss the dangers of letting approval define us, the role of leaders in fostering healthy communities, and ultimately, how true acceptance comes from God’s unconditional love. Join us as we unpack these honest, relatable experiences and encourage one another toward deeper healing and authentic connection.

For daily insights from Stephen, visit DoctorMarriage.org.

• Exploration of the human need for approval and the concept of being an "approval junkie."
• Discussion on the origins of approval-seeking behavior rooted in early childhood development.
• Examination of the impact of seeking approval on self-worth and identity.
• Analysis of the different sources of approval, including peers, leaders, and spiritual figures.
• Consideration of the unhealthy aspects of excessive approval-seeking and its potential to become an addiction.
• Reflection on the role of leaders in affirming others and fostering healthy community dynamics.
• Insights into the emotional struggles associated with conditional approval and feelings of inadequacy.
• Discussion of "image building" and the conflict between external validation and internal acceptance.
• Emphasis on the importance of belonging and the safety it provides in community settings.
• Encouragement for listeners to seek true healing and identity through divine approval rather than human affirmation.

• Going Deeper by Dr. Eddie Capparucci
• Unwanted by Jay Stringer
• Gateway to Freedom 3-Day Intensive for Men

• Going Deeper: How Your Inner Child Impacts Your Sex Addiction
• The Key to Real and Lasting Freedom from Porn
• Overcoming Shame and Embracing Your True Identity

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In today’s Family Time episode, I sit down with Norma Q-Brown, our Family Care Director, to unpack the third critical conversation every parent needs to have with their child: preparing kids for exposure to sexualized content. We talk about why this comes after building trust and discussing God’s design for sex, and share practical ways to equip children for what they’ll inevitably see online or from peers.

Norma offers encouragement, tips for open communication, and resources to help parents feel confident—not fearful—as they guide their kids through a sex-saturated culture with grace and understanding.

For all of our Family resources, visit Bebroken.org/family.

• Importance of discussing feelings and emotions with children as a foundation for trust.
• Understanding God's design for sex and its relevance in today's culture.
• Preparing children for exposure to sexualized content in various media.
• Common sources of sexualized content that children may encounter.
• Barriers parents face in initiating conversations about exposure.
• Consequences of avoiding discussions about sexual content with children.
• Key principles for parents to communicate regarding exposure and boundaries.
• Strategies for keeping communication open and non-judgmental.
• Practical exercises, such as role-playing, to prepare children for potential exposure.
• Resources and next steps for parents to engage in these critical conversations.

• Good Pictures Bad Pictures by Kristen Jenson
• A Family Game Plan for Discussing Porn (online course)
• Family Integrity Trio Bundle (online courses)

• Helping Your Kids Know God's Good Design
• Better Screen Time for You and Your Family
• Brain Defense Digital Safety for Kids

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In this episode, I sit down with Stephen Cervantes, AKA "Doctor Marriage," to explore the journey of awakening from addiction. Together, we discuss how addiction numbs pain and stunts emotional and spiritual growth, and why facing our pain—rather than running from it—is key to healing.

Stephen shares personal insights about slowing down, self-reflection, and finding freedom in Christ. If you’re fighting an addiction, we encourage you to embrace courage, seek support, and trust God’s grace as you move from darkness and disconnection into light, connection, and true emotional freedom.

For daily insights from Stephen, visit DoctorMarriage.org.

• Awakening from addiction and its emotional and spiritual dimensions.
• The role of addiction as a form of numbness and escape from pain.
• The impact of addiction on emotional growth and personal relationships.
• The importance of facing pain rather than avoiding it through addiction.
• The connection between childhood wounds and the onset of addiction.
• The process of self-examination and slowing down to confront personal pain.
• The significance of community, accountability, and spiritual support in recovery.
• The concept of courage in the face of fear and the journey of healing.
• The ongoing nature of awakening and spiritual growth beyond initial recovery.
• The hope and possibility of healing through faith and honest self-reflection.

• Gateway to Freedom 3-Day Intensive for Men
• 40 Days of Purity online course
• Grace-Based Recovery* by Jonathan Daugherty

• Inviting Men to Wake Up Emotionally and Spiritually
• Maxims that Help Us Go Beyond Sobriety in Recovery
• Are You on an Emotional and Spiritual Growth Mission?

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