In this episode, I reflect on the first six months of 2025 and how I unpack them before setting goals for the remaining six months of the year. It’s essential to acknowledge our resilience and the ways we responded during challenging times. Instead of focusing solely on external validation, I encourage listeners to reflect on their own internal growth and the lessons they have learned.

There is this idea of a "gap" between our lofty goals and the subconscious beliefs that may hold us back. This gap can manifest as self-doubt, procrastination, or a fear of visibility. Our subconscious mind plays a crucial role in shaping our results, and if our thoughts do not align with our aspirations, we may inadvertently sabotage our progress. In the episode, I share a series of reflective prompts to help listeners identify the stories they tell themselves, the emotions tied to their goals, and the identities they reinforce through their self-talk. By bringing awareness to these patterns, we can begin to rewire our beliefs and align our thoughts with our desired outcomes.

HIGHLIGHTS
00:00:01 - Introduction to NLP and Goal Reflection
00:01:26 - Life's Unexpected Turns
00:02:49 - Shifting Perspectives on Goals
00:04:58 - Identifying Gaps in Thoughts and Vision
00:06:55 - Understanding Subconscious Patterns
00:08:41 - Cleaning Up Energy Leaks
00:09:52 - Conducting an Audit of Thoughts
00:10:39 - Reinforcing Identity and Self-Talk
00:11:54 - Rewiring Beliefs and Anchoring New Identity
00:13:29 - Future Pacing and Training the Subconscious
00:14:54 - Reframing Old Thoughts
00:15:54 - Aligning Inner and Outer Worlds
00:17:41 - The Work of NLP and Personal Leadership

Marsha Vanwynsberghe — NLP Storytelling Trainer, OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification, Author, Speaker, and Podcaster

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In this episode, I share some insight on how I shift myself through indecision. The real issue isn't the decision itself but the time and energy we spend in the indecisive state. Prolonged indecision can lead to an energy leak, as we worry about disappointing others or making the wrong choice.

I share the concept of training our brains to make aligned decisions more quickly and confidently. Our subconscious mind plays a significant role in our decision-making patterns, often leading us to avoid discomfort and fear associated with making choices. I encourage listeners to recognize that indecision is often rooted in outdated beliefs and fears, which can create a gap that keeps us stuck. I share a simple technique, future pacing, to help move out of indecision more quickly.

HIGHLIGHTS
00:00:00 - The Struggle of Indecision
00:02:30 - Understanding the Root of Indecision
00:05:00 - Future Pacing Technique
00:08:00 - Rehearsing Future Outcomes
00:10:30 - Living Without Regrets
00:12:00 - Training Your Decision-Making

Marsha Vanwynsberghe — NLP Storytelling Trainer, OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification, Author, Speaker, and Podcaster

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In this episode, I am speaking with Jen, the Founder and Editor-in-Chief of Becoming Iconic, a full-service brand that helps entrepreneurs scale and grow their businesses. Her twenty years of experience and unparalleled leadership have resulted in over nine figures in client sales. Jen is also the Founder and editor-in-chief of Iconic Magazine. As part of a 360-degree media approach for visibility and reach, the magazine and podcast have collectively reached over five million people globally. The magazine is often described as Forbes meets Vogue, infusing business and lifestyle for women. Away from her businesses, Jen is also a mom of four children and has successfully and passionately taught others how to blend family and entrepreneurship for the last twenty years.

HIGHLIGHTS
00:00:22 - The Essence of Becoming Iconic
00:01:30 - The Shift from Beauty to Broader Impact
00:02:45 - The Revelation of 'Becoming'
00:04:00 - The Continuous Journey of Becoming
00:06:52 - The Realization of True Fulfillment
00:08:05 - Supporting Women in Their Journey
00:10:47 - The Importance of Asking for Help
00:12:38 - Balancing Masculine and Feminine Energies
00:15:28 - Practicing Self-Care and Reflection
00:19:54 - The Impact of Losing Social Media
00:22:28 - Launching a Magazine
00:24:24 - The Power of Podcasting
00:27:02 - The Audacity to Pursue Your Best Self
00:30:36 - The Person Behind the Brand
00:32:53 - The Importance of Authentic Representation
00:39:09 - Encouragement for Women in Business

Connect with Jen
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/becomingiconic
Email: Jen@becomingiconic.co
Website: www.becomingiconic.co

What services, products or items do you offer?
Mentorship, agency services, and media relations through the magazine and podcast.

Marsha Vanwynsberghe — NLP Storytelling Trainer, OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification, Author, Speaker, and Podcaster

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