Ladies, let’s talk about the performance of perfection. You know... when a man responds instantly, says “Grand Rising, beautiful” every day like it’s part of his job description, and seems like he’s straight out of the boyfriend handbook. But then — poof — that version of him mysteriously vanishes once he’s “got” you.

In this episode, we’re breaking down conquest mode vs. genuine connection, how to spot the difference, and why so many women mistake charm for character. Expect laughter, sarcasm, a few facts that’ll make you go “wait, what?”, and some brutally honest truths about modern dating. Because over here — we stay woke, hydrated, and emotionally unavailable for nonsense. 💅🏽

Alright, emotionally intelligent baddies and conscious kings — lean in for a second. Because if this episode had you side-eyeing your text thread like “hmm, is he in conquest mode or connection mode?”— then it’s time to level up your emotional game for real.

Join me at the next live session this Thursday at 7pm for Tea Time as we discuss:

“The Conquest Detox: Decoding Lust, Logic & Love.”

This isn’t your average love talk either; it’s spiritual science meets emotional strategy. We’re unpacking why your heart falls faster than your brain can fact-check, how dopamine and oxytocin trick you into mistaking attention for affection, and how to stop being the main character in someone else’s temporary storyline.

Because, baby, you’re not here to be conquered boo, you’re here to be chosen.

You deserve a connection that’s consistent even after the chase ends.

So bring your journal, your intuition, and maybe your last situationship as a case study. (We won’t judge, but we will diagnose.)

Let’s turn emotional confusion into clarity, and that heartbreak into higher standards.

Because we don’t chase...we attract, reflect, and protect our peace. Period.

🧠✨ No! But Seriously… Let’s Evolve.

🔗 Supporting Resources

• Getting The Love You Want: A Guide for Couples
• Wire for Love (What happens when someone shifts from “in pursuit” to “comfortable”)
• Find A Man, Keep A Man: Professional Advice and Real-Life Stories to Help You Understand Your Partner

Welcome to another episode of No! But Seriously: Let Me Explain…the podcast that serves up the truth with a side of sass and a sprinkle of sarcasm. I’m your host, La La DàVie, and today, we’re diving into the scandalous world of hormones and love with an episode that’s hotter than your ex’s new girlfriend’s Instagram feed. Buckle up, because this is “Hormones, Hustle & Heartstrings: The Vasopressin Effect Explained!”

You know the drill: we’re not here for a typical love chat. Forget the roses and candlelit dinners; let’s talk about the sneaky brain chemicals that actually make men fall in love. Spoiler alert: it’s not just the heartfelt texts or the romantic gestures, but good old vasopressin also known as the hormone that’s more crucial than your morning coffee when it comes to male bonding.

What’s On the Agenda?

• Are you unknowingly stressing him out the wrong way? 🤔

• Can “being his peace” actually make you boring? Oh, honey, let’s unpack this.

Mastering Your Oxytocin:

1. Delay Physical Intimacy.

• Wait for vasopressin to kick in before getting too close.

2. Don’t Overshare Early.

• Keep it light and mysterious.

3. Protect Your Routine.

• Maintain your self-care routines to stay grounded.

Listener Challenge:

This week, every time you crave his attention, pause and ask: “Is this love or oxytocin withdrawal?

Join me for some sharp truths, sticky hormones, and a sprinkle of sass that’ll switch up your love life from a mundane sitcom to a gripping thriller. Because, in this episode, we’re not just discussing love—we’re decoding the Vasopressin Effect for you emotionally intelligent femme fatales ready to up your relationship game!

Let’s turn those situationships into serious connections, so grab a notepad (or just your favorite snack) and let’s make sense of this hormonal chaos together. It’s time to shake things up a bit, learn the balance, and embrace the beauty of a powerful connection.

🔗 Supporting Resources

• Love Tester - Crush Test Quiz
• Unhealthy Attachments: Are you in relationship with attchments that make you feel secure?
• Find A Man, Keep A Man: Professional Advice and Real-Life Stories to Help You Understand Your Partner

Hey, cosmic family! It’s your girl La La DàVie, and today we’re diving deep into a topic that’ll have your mind doing backflips. Forget the bars and chains, because the real prison is made of paperwork, birth certificates, and a whole lot of red tape. Ever thought about how your birth certificate is basically your first booking sheet into a life of corporate servitude? Or how your Social Security Number isn’t just a number, but your first bank account that you never even got to open? We’ll unravel the truth behind these so-called “systems” that have you locked in without you even realizing it.

Get ready to laugh, cringe, and maybe spill your tea as we dissect the word spells that keep us in check. You’ll learn that the same pen that writes your paycheck is also writing your sentence. By the end of this episode, not only will you be wide awake, but you’ll also be armed with knowledge to reclaim your narrative. No fluff, no fear, no filter. Let’s get into it! 🎤✨

🔗 Supporting Resources

• Monopoly Money
• Meet Your Strawman: And Whatever You Want To Know
• The Etymologicon: A Circular Stroll Through the Hidden Connections of the English Language