She came in convinced that body count matters. "There has to be accountability!" she said, arguing that a high body count is a red flag. She had studies, she had points—but when we really unpacked it, something shifted. By the end of our conversation, she realized that body count mentality is more about insecurity and control than actual compatibility. So… does body count really matter? Or are we just asking the wrong question? Let’s talk about it.

I had an insightful conversation with [guest's name], a guy who’s practicing my No Kissing for 3 Months rule and the Zero-Fight Relationship approach. He shared how he’s been able to set these boundaries without facing pushback from the people around him.

But here’s the interesting part—when women enforce the same boundaries, they often get questioned, criticized, or even pressured to change them. In this video, I unpack why this happens and how it reveals a deeper privilege men have in dating when it comes to setting standards.

I appreciate hearing his perspective, and I also share what this means for women who want to date with intention.

💬 Have you experienced this difference? Let me know in the comments!

What started as a simple book recommendation request on my TikTok Live turned into a coaching session.

A woman asked for a book suggestion, but when I dug deeper, she revealed she was stuck in a toxic relationship. She felt in too deep to leave, but together, we explored why she was staying, how she could break free, and what steps she could take next.

I shared my top book recommendations, including Fake Love Need Not Apply (a free book) and No More Assholes, to help her identify red flags and build a healthier future if she chooses to date again. And the best part? My online community showed up for her in the comments, offering support and encouragement.

Listen in for valuable insights on leaving toxic relationships, rebuilding self-worth, and choosing better for yourself. If you or someone you know needs this, this episode is for you. 💜

Does our biology determine our morality? In this heated debate, Diyo brings science to challenge a woman's belief that nature dictates right and wrong.

We explore how societal constructs influence our views on morality, body count, and gender norms while examining the tension between logic, emotion, and cultural indoctrination

Discover why so many men today feel disconnected and how it affects their well-being.

Our guest, Beau Pinto, shares observations from talking with countless single men in bars, noting how they seek companionship, face stigma around intimacy, and struggle to form genuine friendships.

Learn how men can build stronger bonds, find confidence in relationships, and overcome loneliness in a culture that often leaves them isolated.

Diyo returns to the panel to share thoughts on how fear can be used as a control tactic and why exploring different viewpoints matters. We discuss body count myths, the impact of manifestation, and insights from psychology and anthropology. Diyo also compares human self-awareness with animal behavior, challenging the idea that only humans experience reflective thinking.

Throughout the conversation, he encourages curiosity, questions fear-driven narratives, and highlights the mind’s role in shaping personal growth.

In this segment of my Ask Chantal live on TikTok, I’m joined by Therese, Diane, and Diyo (a psychologist expert) to dive into a discussion about the historical roles of women as leaders, hunters, and community builders. We debunk the long-standing myth of male dominance in hunting and leadership, explore how women have always been more than just their bodies or domestic roles, and address modern issues like the fixation on 'body count'—unpacking how it often ties to insecurity and self-esteem.

Tune in for an empowering and insightful conversation!

In this episode, I invited Kristen Thomas, a Clinical Sex Therapist and Relationship Coach, to discuss the recent cheating scandal involving David Grohl, the frontman of Foo Fighters, who was considered a faithful husband for 20 years until revelations surfaced about him having a child with another woman.

We dive into the statistics surrounding boredom and cheating in long-term relationships, exploring how men and women experience these issues differently. Christine shares insights on how intimacy plays a crucial role in maintaining a healthy relationship over time and preventing disconnection.

Tune in as we unpack the complexities of infidelity, the dynamics of long-term relationships, and practical ways to keep intimacy alive.