In this insightful episode of Mod Club, Keaton and Lucah delve into the nuanced experiences of transguys in relationships. They share their personal stories and insights on how transitioning has impacted their romantic and social connections. The hosts discuss the often overlooked challenges trans men face in the dating world, from navigating past relationships to the complexities of forming new ones with a diverse spectrum of partners. They also offer thoughtful advice on maintaining authenticity and fostering meaningful connections amidst the unique pressures of transman identity. Tune in for an in-depth exploration of love, identity, and resilience in the trans community.

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In this episode of Mod Club, Keaton is joined by Evan, who shares his recent experience of getting a phalloplasty tattoo—a unique procedure enhancing the aesthetic of transgender surgical outcomes. Evan recounts his visit to Shane Wallen in San Diego, chosen for his proximity to family and positive reputation within the transguy community for respectful and knowledgeable service in phalloplasty tattooing. The discussion opens up about the procedure details, the emotional significance of the tattoo in connecting with one’s surgical results, and practical aspects like pain management, cost, and healing process. Evan’s story is not just about getting inked; it’s about the journey towards bodily autonomy and self-recognition, shedding light on a rarely discussed but deeply personal aspect of transgender healthcare and recovery. Join us to explore how medical tattoos can transform more than just skin, they can redefine a person's connection to their body.

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In this episode of Mod Club, Lucah and Keaton delve into the intricate feelings surrounding past and future relationships through the lens of transguy experiences. They discuss the emotional complexities transguys face when contemplating the gender and orientation of their partner's past and future relationships.

With a blend of personal anecdotes and broader insights, the conversation explores themes of feeling like a stepping stone, the fear of being an experiment, and the struggle with not feeling chosen. The hosts also touch on the dynamics within the trans community, addressing the mixed feelings about exes dating other trans men, which can sometimes feel too close to home.

This episode provides a candid look at the unique challenges and perspectives that shape trans relationships, offering both solace and understanding to anyone navigating similar paths.

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In this compelling episode, Keaton and Lucah navigate the nuanced terrain of grace in relationships and its surprising scarcity in today's society. They ponder the role of grace against the backdrop of their transitions, revealing how it unearthed unexpected social anxieties and questioning whether the tendency to see potential in others stems from trauma. As the conversation meanders through the impacts of social media gaslighting to the challenges of mismatched partnership dynamics, they explore when grace is sufficient to bridge differences and when it's simply not enough. This episode is a rich tapestry of personal insights, touching on empathy, forgiveness, and the complex dance between independence and interdependence, all through the lens of their experiences as trans men.

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Keaton and Lucah engage in a frank and wide-ranging discussion on porn, its complexities, and personal experiences with it, especially from a trans perspective. They explore how pornography's accessibility has influenced perceptions and behaviors, touching upon the nuances of porn consumption pre- and post-transition. Delving into the NoFap movement, they critically assess its resurgence and the one-size-fits-all message propagated by influencers, advocating for a more nuanced understanding of sexuality and masturbation. Highlighting the importance of exploring one's desires and boundaries, they share insights into how porn can serve as a tool for self-discovery and understanding one's sexual identity. The conversation also covers topics like the impact of family attitudes towards sex, the exploration of kink, and the balance between personal pleasure and partner intimacy. Ending with an invitation to continue the conversation on ModClub, this episode offers a thoughtful examination of the role of porn in our lives, emphasizing the need for individualized approaches to sexuality and pleasure.

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Keaton and Lucah tackle the tough terrain of dating red flags in this episode of Mod Club, zeroing in on relationship challenges unique to trans men. From navigating self-worth issues to dissecting the impact of complicated family dynamics on partnerships, they delve into personal experiences and broader insights. The duo debates the significance of compatibility versus love, underscoring the journey towards healthier, more fulfilling relationships. Tune in for a candid exploration of building connections that truly enrich, rather than deplete, your life.

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A quickie episode to re-introduce ourselves, the pod, what you can expect from the show and how we've changed up the Mod Club at ClubFTM.com!

I'm going to post a follow-up to this soon because this ended up being quite the journey! But here I am all chipper and young, only 2 days after this 'easy' little surgery. Don't get me wrong, compared to other lower surgeries, this probably is the easiest of them all and probably by a long shot, but at the same time, it wasn't quite the cakewalk I expected.

**Note: I say in here that the graft was a split-thickness and I WAS told that, but I was subsequently told it was full-thickness and I believe it actually is full-thickness.

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