Smart women don't waste energy on self-pity; it just makes you weak. I know, I know, we’ve all been there, curled up under the covers with salted caramel ice cream, replaying everything that went wrong, convinced the world is unfair.

But, darling, here’s the truth: self-pity doesn’t make life better, it makes you stuck in one moment. That's not growth, and that's not taking your power back.

It's time to get your life together and start building that confidence back up. You've got this, baby girl x

Every classy woman needs her own set of rules. Think Blair Waldorf – she didn’t follow the crowd, she set the standard. Let’s talk about how creating your own code of class can make your life feel more magnetic, more powerful, and undeniably yours.

If you want to not only look confident, but actually feel confident and self-assured, and have it be something that comes easily and effortlessly, rather than just pretending and hoping others see you that way. Then, darling, this episode is for you.

Because what I’ve discovered is that confidence isn’t actually about how other people see you at all, but rather how you’re talking to yourself and your internal dialogue.

Once you’re not overthinking everything and constantly trying to determine how other people see you, and start to embrace yourself instead, that’s when you can truly shine.

Welcome back to the messy classy podcast, and in today's episode, we’ll be talking about how to exude confidence that looks effortless and genuine.

So grab a snack, fire up the jazz, and let’s get into it.

Spring is the perfect season for glow-ups, and darling, we’re not sitting this one out. Let’s talk about how to reset, refresh, and become the most magnetic version of ourselves this spring.

Messy Classy is back for the spring season, full of fresh new episodes ready to help you on your glow-up journey to become the most elevated classy version of yourself.

But, since we're messy classy, darling, we don't mind having a little fun along the way.

Kisses x

The classiest, most successful women understand that real power doesn’t need to be broadcast; it needs results. There is power from someone who quietly transforms their life compared to someone who constantly posts about what they plan to do.

Let’s talk about why moving in silence will help you reach your goals and help you to maintain that class and grace along the way.

After all, messy classy girls still like to win, we just let our actions speak for themselves.

Stay messy classy, darlings x

Let's analyse some of Blair Waldorf's best traits and apply them in our own lives to become unstoppable. If you want some of Queen B's power and confidence, it comes down to planning strategically and going after what you want.

And you can do it with class and grace.

So if you've ever asked yourself what Blair Waldorf would do in a situation, let's break down why she's made some of the choices she has, and how we can do the same.

And do it the messy classy way.

Let’s talk about becoming the trifecta: hot, elegant, and unbothered. And as I was in Paris recently, I’ll also sprinkle in a few of my favourite Paris moments too.

So getting hot.

This encompasses two things. One is about looking the best you’ve ever looked, and the second is your attitude, since you CAN decide that you’re hot now.

Now elegance.

This comes down to three main areas: clothing, how you carry yourself, and how you interact with others.

And finally, unbothered, before we tie them all together.

So, becoming unbothered is the ultimate cool girl power move. If you want to win, you need to practice moving from a place of intelligence rather than emotion.

Enjoy the episode, and stay messy classy darlings x

Once you start choosing yourself and your goals, and taking that focus away from needing approval or validation from someone else, that’s when your life starts to change for the better.

Your self-worth does not belong in the hands of other people. You don’t need someone else's approval or validation to become the person you want to be. Let’s talk about growing from a people pleaser to a classy queen.