The classiest, most successful women understand that real power doesn’t need to be broadcast; it needs results. There is power from someone who quietly transforms their life compared to someone who constantly posts about what they plan to do.

Let’s talk about why moving in silence will help you reach your goals and help you to maintain that class and grace along the way.

After all, messy classy girls still like to win, we just let our actions speak for themselves.

Stay messy classy, darlings x

Let's analyse some of Blair Waldorf's best traits and apply them in our own lives to become unstoppable. If you want some of Queen B's power and confidence, it comes down to planning strategically and going after what you want.

And you can do it with class and grace.

So if you've ever asked yourself what Blair Waldorf would do in a situation, let's break down why she's made some of the choices she has, and how we can do the same.

And do it the messy classy way.

Let’s talk about becoming the trifecta: hot, elegant, and unbothered. And as I was in Paris recently, I’ll also sprinkle in a few of my favourite Paris moments too.

So getting hot.

This encompasses two things. One is about looking the best you’ve ever looked, and the second is your attitude, since you CAN decide that you’re hot now.

Now elegance.

This comes down to three main areas: clothing, how you carry yourself, and how you interact with others.

And finally, unbothered, before we tie them all together.

So, becoming unbothered is the ultimate cool girl power move. If you want to win, you need to practice moving from a place of intelligence rather than emotion.

Enjoy the episode, and stay messy classy darlings x

Once you start choosing yourself and your goals, and taking that focus away from needing approval or validation from someone else, that’s when your life starts to change for the better.

Your self-worth does not belong in the hands of other people. You don’t need someone else's approval or validation to become the person you want to be. Let’s talk about growing from a people pleaser to a classy queen.

If you want to become irresistible, combining class and charm together is the key. That way, you get to be elegant and polished, but not cold. And magnetic, but not like you’re trying too hard. They intertwine and enhance each other.

So let’s talk about combining both class and charm to create that magnetic aura.

In this episode, we'll discuss body language, voice, confidence, emotional intelligence, and self-respect.

I’ll also mention some inspiring women who have nailed the charm/classy combo down. Sometimes it’s easier to have a role model to emulate when we’re trying to step into a new version of ourselves.

Enjoy the episode and stay Messy Classy darlings x

So let’s talk about one of the biggest glow-up hacks I’ve done this year. And that’s quitting alcohol.

Here are some of the benefits that I’ve discovered being alcohol-free:

You look better (glowing skin, weight loss), you save money, and these internal changes:

Mental clarity: better ideas, deeper reflection;

Confidence: real confidence, not wine-fueled;

Energy & routines: mornings feel sacred, not sluggish;

Stronger boundaries: less people-pleasing, more intentionality;

Elegance: the quiet power of being in control of yourself in social situations.

Enjoy the episode and stay Messy Classy darlings x

You want to be THAT girl. What if you could be her, but the classy version? The one who walks into a room and doesn’t need to say a word. With timeless style and magnetic habits, people will turn heads and want to know who you are.

Today, I’m not giving you another basic routine, I’m showing you how to become THAT girl -the classy edition.

You already know the ‘that girl’ aesthetic online. Usually, it consists of matcha, green juice, and pilates in matching workout sets. Which is all fine, but what if you want timeless class over TikTok trends?

The ‘that girl’ I want to be is about elegance, confidence, and building a life I love.

So, let’s go over some tips and ideas in three sections: 1. How to refine your image, 2. habits & lifestyle, 3. your mindset to embody effortless elegance and confidence

Stay Messy Classy Darlings x

Your worth isn't determined by others, you get to decide it for yourself.

We often look to others for validation or to 'choose' us. But often, people can't see you for who you are because they don't see the world the same as you do.

But when you start to build your confidence and self-worth, it no longer becomes about whether someone else can see your worth or not, because who cares what they see.

That's why you need to choose yourself. Always. Believe in you. Because soon you will find the people who also believe in your worth AND can treat you accordingly.

But it always has and always will start with you and how you see yourself.

You've got this, my darling x