Smart women don't waste energy on self-pity; it just makes you weak. I know, I know, we’ve all been there, curled up under the covers with salted caramel ice cream, replaying everything that went wrong, convinced the world is unfair.

But, darling, here’s the truth: self-pity doesn’t make life better, it makes you stuck in one moment. That's not growth, and that's not taking your power back.

It's time to get your life together and start building that confidence back up. You've got this, baby girl x

Every classy woman needs her own set of rules. Think Blair Waldorf – she didn’t follow the crowd, she set the standard. Let’s talk about how creating your own code of class can make your life feel more magnetic, more powerful, and undeniably yours.

If you want to not only look confident, but actually feel confident and self-assured, and have it be something that comes easily and effortlessly, rather than just pretending and hoping others see you that way. Then, darling, this episode is for you.

Because what I’ve discovered is that confidence isn’t actually about how other people see you at all, but rather how you’re talking to yourself and your internal dialogue.

Once you’re not overthinking everything and constantly trying to determine how other people see you, and start to embrace yourself instead, that’s when you can truly shine.

Welcome back to the messy classy podcast, and in today's episode, we’ll be talking about how to exude confidence that looks effortless and genuine.

So grab a snack, fire up the jazz, and let’s get into it.