This episode continues to be our most listened-to conversation, so we're bringing it back for those who missed it, and those who need a refresh.

What do you do when you're not attracted to your spouse anymore?

If the attraction isn't there, does it mean it's over?

In this episode, we’re unmasking what’s really underneath the loss of attraction in marriage and why it’s not just about physical appearance or effort. We explore how rebuilding attraction is less about trying harder and more about healing what's underneath and we give some practical ways to start getting that attraction back again.

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Marriage isn't just to "make you holy." It's also designed for pleasure. Too often, marriage becomes about responsibilities, routines, and keeping peace rather than cultivating joy. We learn to manage pain but when do we intentionally pursue pleasure?

In this episode, discover why pursuing pleasure isn’t optional; it’s a vital ingredient in building a marriage that lasts.

If your marriage feels more like a partnership than a passion, or if you’ve ever wondered where the spark went, this episode will change how you see it all.

So lean in, because pursuing pleasure might just be the most transformative thing you do for your marriage.

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Sign up for our 3 Day Attraction Reset Workshop Coming up January 13-15, 2026! Only $47 per couple!

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Get Adam's Core Strength Mini Course for men on getting back to your identity, grounding yourself, regaining self-worth and confidence as a man.

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What happens when physical closeness no longer feels natural or even welcome? When hugs feel forced. Kisses fade. And the space between you grows quieter and heavier than either of you ever expected?

In this episode, we talk honestly about what it’s like when a couple drifts out of physical connection, not with shame or blame, but with compassion for both hearts involved.

For wives, it may feel like pressure, overwhelm, or exhaustion have slowly stolen affection.

For husbands, it may feel like rejection, loneliness, or confusion about why things changed.

And often both of you are hurting in silence.

This conversation is about healing the space between you — learning to understand each other’s hearts, restoring trust, and rediscovering what it means to enjoy being close again.

Grab free marriage resources: thewayforlove.com

Sign up for our 3 Day Attraction Reset Workshop Coming up January 13-15, 2026! Early bird pricing at only $27 until January 5th, after that price goes up to $47.

Join Cara's Restored membership for wives

Join Refined Adam's online men's membership.

Get Adam's Core Strength Mini Course for men on getting back to your identity, grounding yourself, regaining self-worth and confidence as a man.

Ready for more connection and healing in your marriage? Start our Healing Your Marriage Course

Connect with us on Instagram:
@cara.nitz
@faith.full.masculinity

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