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We walk through the hard reality of choosing divorce, and what happens after choosing divorce.

From safety and legal steps to grief, co‑parenting, church dynamics, and how to cling to God when you feel abandoned. The aim is simple and honest: protect your life, tell the truth about pain, and rebuild with hope.

• why we address divorce during holidays
• safety first in abusive situations
• legal process basics and costs
• identity rebuilding and new routines
• breakup buddies, therapy, church care
• co‑parenting without using kids as messengers
• grief stages and what to expect over a year
• Kintsugi as a model for faithful repair
• trusting God when you are angry and tired
• practical resources and community support

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Merry Christmas! We pause the heavy topics to share warmth, joy, and a blessing for Christmas while keeping Jesus at the center and love by faith at the forefront. We also invite couples to a simple one‑hour, on‑demand workshop, The Relationship Renovation Workshop, with a 33‑page blueprint to strengthen marriage for the new year.

• holiday chaos named and kept light
• Puerto Rican traditions through Three Kings Day
• reminders to keep Jesus central
• encouragement to love by faith amid stress
• like, share, subscribe, and review requests
• a practical on‑demand marriage workshop
• 33‑page blueprint for shared growth
• enter the new year with a clear plan

If you want to give us a Christmas gift, maybe, you know, and you're watching on YouTube, you can go ahead and like, share, and subscribe!

If you're listening to us on Spotify or Apple or Podbean or Amazon Music, wherever you're listening to, you can go ahead and give us a review, right?

We have an amazing online workshop. It is on demand. It comes with a 33-page blueprint workbook... This would be a great Christmas gift to help fortify and strengthen your marriage... get some renovation going on in your life!

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When you're on the brink of divorce, we pray this message will encourage and uplift you to reconsider.

We share a frank, hope-filled plan for couples on the brink of divorce, from transforming prayer and inviting real community to humble conversations and non‑negotiable counseling. Faith frames the fight while practical steps make repair possible and safe.

• Why changing prayer from “fix them” to “change me” unlocks progress
• When safety and biblical grounds mean you step away
• How the community holds vows and prevents isolation
• A humble script to start the hard talk
• What to do when emotions are too high to hear
• How to discern abandonment and set counseling as the next step
• Why kids, legacy, and faith raise the stakes
• Resources to start an at‑home marriage reset

If you're on the brink of divorce and your relationship is in need of a renovation, grab our NEW ONLINE WORKSHOP, "The Relationship Renovation Workshop"! This is an on-demand online workshop and workbook that you and your partner can use to pinpoint what areas of your relationship are in need of a renovation and create the blueprint required to establish change and restoration.

Purchase the Relationship Renovation Workshop Today!

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In this episode, we discuss the Biblical grounds for divorce.

We open Scripture to explore when divorce is biblically permitted and how God’s heart aims to protect people, not trap them in harm. We unpack adultery, abandonment, and abuse with care, then point to humility, repentance, and real-world steps toward safety, healing, and peace.

• scriptural grounds for divorce: adultery, abandonment, abuse
• Jesus’ correction of casual divorce in Matthew 19
• heart-level adultery and emotional affairs
• trust, identity, and the cost of betrayal
• modern abandonment: addiction, apathy, hardened refusal to repent
• naming abuse across physical, verbal, emotional, spiritual, and financial forms
• humility as a pathway to repair or release
• hope for restoration and the call to pursue peace
• prayer for strong, faithful, Christ-centered marriages


Biblical Scriptures mentioned in this episode:

Matthew 19:9

Matthew 5:28

1 Corinthians 7:15

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In our new series, "Defeating Divorce," we start off by asking WHY Christian couples get divorced?

We open the season’s toughest theme with honesty and hope, asking why Christian couples still end up divorced and how to push back with faith, rhythm, and practical tools. We share our no “D-word” rule, our hardest years, and a path to rebuild identity, intimacy, and unity.

• loss of connection through selfish focus and unacknowledged effort
• boredom and busyness replacing curiosity, play and purpose
• missing spiritual foundation and misaligned expectations of leadership
• identity loss after marriage and parenting reducing clarity of needs
• practical rhythms of rest, Sabbath and boundaries during holidays
• fruit of the Spirit as lived practice, not slogan
• two perspectives—child of divorce and child of reconciliation—forming one toolkit
• encouragement, prayer and resources for couples on the brink

Order Selina’s new Christmas devotional, “Journey to the Heart of Christmas,” today!

Kev On Stage's | Safe Space | Shady Prayers Clip

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In our final episode of the Temptations series, we talk about how to guard our marriage against temptation. We unpack how temptation seeds itself in thoughts and desires, grows through secrecy and isolation, and fractures trust when left in the dark. We offer practical ways to confess early, involve church community, use Scripture as sword and shield, and remember the real enemy isn’t your spouse.

• guarding mind and heart from early temptation
• moving from look to secret and how it escalates
• revenge, temptation, and the boomerang harm
• shame and pride as engines of secrecy
• confessing early and inviting accountability
• using sword and shield verses to fight back
• church community as protection against isolation
• choosing obedience to Christ over reflexive anger
• reframing covenant marriage and shared purpose
• practical steps to rebuild trust and unity

📖 Every Man's Battle: Winning the War on Sexual Temptation One Victory at a Time*

For those living in the US, we wish you a very Happy Thanksgiving! And for everyone everywhere, we are thankful and blessed that you decided to share your time and hearts with us. Love By Faith, y'all!

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We confront the real reasons why couples are tempted to skip church and offer honest, practical ways to rebuild trust, rhythm, and community without pretending church is perfect. From burnout and offense to pride and preference, we point back to grace, ownership, and shared responsibility.

• why church exists as a body, not an event
• healthy vs emotionally unhealthy church cultures
• who leads the family to church and why it’s shared
• seasons of weakness and how to cover a spouse
• offense, burnout, and serving from an empty cup
• the limits of Sunday-only relationships
• petty but real preferences about worship and teaching
• discernment vs cynicism when judging hypocrisy
• how to show up ready to serve and connect
• simple questions that spark real community
• building weekly practices that make Sunday overflow

If skipping church is something that you (or your partner, or both!) are struggling with, we encourage you to take advantage of our latest FREE download within the LOVE BY FAITH COUPLE'S PLAYBOOK!

Asking how to spiritually connect and how to lovingly serve can both become a catalyst for the return of a church setting in your relationship or the start of one.

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We explore the temptation to keep secrets in marriage, the difference between confidentiality and secrecy, and why even “small” omissions can damage trust. We share practical ways to disclose hard truths with grace, plus boundaries that protect privacy without hiding from your spouse.

• defining secrecy versus withholding versus confidentiality
• holiday surprises and why patterns matter
• common hidden areas like spending, drinking, and private chats
• how secrecy triggers insecurity, past trauma, and mistrust
• faith-based framing for unity and oneness
• practical steps to disclose hard truths safely
• guardrails for surprises without raising alarm
• using routines, questions, and shared boundaries
• the Love by Faith Playbook for anti-temptation strategies

Grab your Love by Faith Playbook today using the link in the description below. Partner with us to sow a seed so that Love by Faith can continue to grow and reach the masses. Please like, share, subscribe, and tap those five stars to help other couples learn how to LOVE BY FAITH.

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