The survival strategy of fawning may have once kept you safe, but it can leave you disconnected, resentful, and exhausted.

In this powerful conversation, Dr. Ingrid Clayton, psychologist and author of Fawning: The Cost of People-Pleasing and the Courage to Break Free, joins Christine to unpack trauma and specifically the trauma response of fawning.

In this episode, Christine coaches Jessica, a multi-passionate entrepreneur who struggles to follow through on her vision. Jessica shares how she often throws herself into new ideas with enthusiasm, only to lose momentum when life shifts or self-doubt creeps in. Although she feels deeply called to help mothers raising children in challenging family systems, she wrestles with limiting beliefs about whether people actually want what she offers.

Christine helps Jessica reframe her so-called “career ADHD” as a strength—multi-passionate creativity—and uncovers the deeper fears that keep her from committing fully to her dream. They discuss the power of belief, why consistency matters more than perfection, and how to align her entrepreneurial mindset with truth, love, and service.

If you’ve ever second-guessed your calling, started projects you didn’t finish, or doubted whether your work really matters, this coaching session will inspire you to release self-sabotage and step forward with clarity and confidence.

Consider/Ask Yourself

• Do you start projects with excitement but struggle to finish them?
• Have you labeled yourself as “scattered” or “inconsistent” instead of seeing your creativity as a gift?
• Are you holding back from your dream because you fear people won’t want what you have to offer?
• How might changing your beliefs about yourself and your audience shift the results you see?

Key Insights and A-HAs

• Being multi-passionate isn’t a problem—it’s part of the entrepreneurial spirit.
• Our beliefs shape our outcomes: if we believe there’s no audience, our energy reflects that.
• Consistency in creating and sharing builds trust, especially with sensitive topics like parenting and family.
• Fear of failure often shows up as “not finishing,” but true growth comes from committing fully.
• Relief, not resistance, signals alignment with truth.

How to Deepen the Work

• Identify one limiting belief that’s draining your momentum. Write down evidence that challenges it.
• Clarify who your “ideal client” is and create content as if you’re speaking directly to them.
• Reframe social media or marketing as opportunities to build trust rather than chores.
• Normalize the ups and downs of entrepreneurship—it’s part of the journey, not proof you’re failing.

Upcoming Event

Christine’s Women’s Retreat
A transformational retreat designed to help you release old patterns, reclaim your truth, and radiate love into your life and the world.

• Date: October 17, 2025
• Location: San Diego, CA
• Register: christinehassler.com/retreat
• Scholarships available—email jill@christinehassler.com for details.

Social Media + Resources:

• Christine Hassler — Take a Coaching Assessment
• Christine Hassler Podcasts Including Coaches Corner
• Christine on Facebook
• Expectation Hangover by Christine Hassler
• @ChristineHassler on Twitter
• @ChristineHassler on Instagram
• @SacredUnionCouples on Instagram
• Email: jill@christinehassler.com — For information on any of my services!
• Get on the waitlist to be coached on the show!
• Get on the list to be notified about the upcoming certification program for coaches.

In this tender and powerful coaching session, Christine works with SJ—a single mother who has done tremendous inner work but still wonders if something is blocking her from partnership. Together, they explore the difference between apathy and protection, generational patterns, and the fear of letting someone see you at your most vulnerable.

As SJ opens up about her history, caregiving responsibilities, and longing for connection, Christine reflects back the progress she’s already made and challenges the belief that there’s “a problem” to be solved. Instead, this conversation shows how surrender, self-love, and reframing our stories can transform what we see as liabilities into pathways for deeper intimacy.

If you’ve ever felt “stuck,” compared your progress to others, or believed that your life circumstances made you unlovable, this episode will help you soften those fears and recognize the growth already alive within you.

Consider/Ask Yourself

• Do you sometimes confuse surrender with apathy?
• Have you felt so self-sufficient that there’s little room for anyone else?
• Do you carry the fear that your challenges or past make you undesirable in relationships?
• How might it feel to let someone witness you in your weakest moments and discover that you are still worthy of love?

Key Insights and A-HAs

• Not every challenge is a “problem” to be solved—sometimes there’s no problem at all.
• What looks like apathy may actually be self-protection.
• True partnership is about interdependence, not codependence.
• Intimacy often deepens when we let others see us in our hardest moments.
• Shifting your inner language and beliefs can change how others experience your life story.

Upcoming Event

Christine’s Women’s Retreat
Join Christine for a life-changing experience where you’ll release old patterns, reconnect with your truth, and step into the next level of your life.

• Date: October 17, 2025
• Location: San Diego, CA
• Register: christinehassler.com/retreat

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Social Media + Resources:

• Christine Hassler — Take a Coaching Assessment
• Christine Hassler Podcasts Including Coaches Corner
• Christine on Facebook
• Expectation Hangover by Christine Hassler
• @ChristineHassler on Twitter
• @ChristineHassler on Instagram
• @SacredUnionCouples on Instagram
• Email: jill@christinehassler.com — For information on any of my services!
• Get on the waitlist to be coached on the show!
• Get on the list to be notified about the upcoming certification program for coaches.