Rewriting your personal narrative is a transformative process of self-discovery and empowerment, especially during and after a divorce. In this episode, Doreen and Jeff explore the importance of stepping back from the stories you've either created or those imposed upon you by others. They encourage you to reconsider your experiences through a fresh lens.

Your perceptions of past events may often stem from limited or biased viewpoints. Embracing the act of rewriting your story allows you to revisit these moments with the wisdom and perspective that comes with maturity. This episode promises to unveil endless possibilities and new perspectives on your life post-divorce.

In this podcast episode, Doreen and Jeff delve into the complex emotions surrounding divorce, specifically the challenge of distinguishing between the emotional pain (the hurt) and the inherent difficulty (how hard it is).

Perhaps you’re feeling lost, overwhelmed, angry, or even numb. You might be questioning why it hurts so deeply and why it feels so incredibly challenging.

Here’s the key insight: the “hurt” and the “hard” are not the same. Hurt encompasses the heartbreak, the grief, and the sting of broken trust or unfulfilled dreams. On the other hand, hard refers to everything else — the paperwork, the learning curve of co-parenting, the challenges of identity shifts, and the daily challenges that come with transition .

It’s completely normal to experience both emotions. You’re not alone; you’re human. This podcast aims to create a space for all of these feelings, offering clarity, perspective, and a path forward.

What if you could step into the version of yourself who’s already healed, empowered, and thriving after divorce—right now? In this episode, Doreen and Jeff explore how to embody your future self today to navigate the emotional storm of separation with clarity, self-respect, and purpose. Whether you're in the middle of legal battles or quietly grieving the end of a chapter, this conversation will help you reconnect with your inner strength, rewrite your identity, and start making choices from a place of who you want to become. Divorce isn't just an ending—it's the beginning of a powerful reinvention.

Considering divorce or coping with a spouse’s decision to end your marriage? This episode explores the complex emotional landscape and practical realities of divorce, unpacking both its potential benefits and challenges. We delve into how divorce can bring freedom, personal growth, and relief from unhealthy relationships, while also addressing common struggles like financial difficulties, emotional stress, and the impact on children.

We discuss the pros of divorce such as gaining independence, escaping toxic relationships, and creating a healthier environment for children, alongside personal growth opportunities. At the same time, we examine the cons including loneliness, financial strain, emotional turmoil, social stigma, and the complexities of the legal process. Understanding these factors can help you prepare for the transition ahead.

Whether you're contemplating divorce or have already begun the process, this episode offers thoughtful insights and compassionate guidance. Remember, seeking professional support—through therapists, divorce coaches, or mediators—can make a significant difference in managing the challenges and rebuilding a fulfilling life after divorce.

In this heartfelt episode, we dive into those overwhelming days when getting out of bed feels impossible—especially during the emotional storm of divorce. Hosts Doreen and Jeff explore the delicate balance between honoring your feelings and taking small steps forward. They share practical strategies like gentle movement, self-compassion, and mindful separation of facts from fears to help navigate the emotional weight that divorce brings.

Jeff offers insights from his personal experience, highlighting the importance of distinguishing between physical and mental struggles and responding with kindness rather than judgment. Together, they emphasize how reaching out for support and breaking down challenges into manageable actions can prevent the spiral of isolation and anxiety. With relatable tips like organizing your space, planning ahead, and adopting flexible self-care routines, they remind listeners that healing is a process—and it’s okay to have “off” days.

Tune in for a supportive conversation filled with empathy and actionable advice designed to help anyone facing difficult transitions. Whether you’re in the thick of divorce or just battling a tough day, this episode encourages you to acknowledge your emotions, practice patience with yourself, and keep moving forward one small step at a time. You’re not alone, and strength grows from the moments you show up for yourself.

In this episode 182, Jeff and Doreen discuss a powerful tool that has been invaluable in everyone’s own life, exercise. It might seem like a simple solution to complex problems, but trust me, the benefits of regular physical activity during challenging times, including divorce, are profound and far-reaching. So, let's dive into why I call divorce and exercise "the perfect marriage".

In this episode Doreen and Jeff discuss the Fresh Start Effect. It’s that Intrinsic power of starting over and fresh. There are moments that promote this like a birthday, the New year and even a divorce. This is why so many people experience this start fresh mind set throughout even other milestones and other times, like a new semester in school, a new sports season (elaborate on…) , a new job, the birth of a child, a wedding, or even a death. These are all times when something ends and something new begins. Well divorce can also, and research shows does have this same intrinsic power to ignite this power inside that comes with something ending and something new beginning. The Fresh Start Effect is very alive and available to you from your divorce.