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  • Mama Fua: The Work That Raised Me Became My Business | Legally Clueless Ep 373

    Mama Fua: The Work That Raised Me Became My Business | Legally Clueless Ep 373
    Apr 12 2026
    In this episode of the Legally Clueless podcast, Loise Njeri shares her journey of becoming a mama fua, and how what started as survival slowly turned into a business. Raised in Nyandarua by a single mother who did everything she could to provide, Loise grew up watching firsthand what it means to work hard, adapt, and show up for your family, even when resources are limited. From navigating culture shock in a national high school, to hustling through campus, to landing her first job in Nairobi… Loise opens up about the quiet pressure of trying to “make it” and the moment she realized she needed to choose a different path. This is a story about dignity in work, redefining what success looks like, and finding opportunity in places most people overlook.

    In Part 1, Loise shares:
    • Growing up in Nyandarua and being raised by a single mother
    • How her mum’s work shaped her relationship with labor and survival
    • The culture shock of transitioning from village life to a national school
    • Her early hustles, from teaching to photography to campus gigs
    • Moving to Nairobi and working a call centre job
    • The moment she started doing laundry for money and saw potential
    Part 2 drops next week, where Loise takes us deeper into building her laundry business and what it took to bet on herself.

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    33 m
  • I Did The Most Trying To Be Loved Then I Had To Face Myself | For Mannerless Women

    I Did The Most Trying To Be Loved Then I Had To Face Myself | For Mannerless Women
    Apr 10 2026
    This week on For Mannerless Women, Adelle sits down with Sarah Mukabana (Plus Wanga Princess) for a raw, honest, and deeply relatable conversation about self-worth, validation, and what it really takes to come back to yourself. From losing herself in a relationship where she constantly sought to be chosen, to navigating the messy aftermath of a breakup, Sarah opens up about the moments many women experience, but rarely say out loud. This episode explores:
    • The pressure to perform in relationships to feel loved
    • The “pick-me” phase and how it shows up in real life
    • What happens after a breakup, the chaos, the overdoing, and the crash
    • Rebuilding your self-worth from within
    • Simple daily practices that help you genuinely like yourself
    At its core, this episode asks one powerful question:
    Do you actually like yourself, when no one else is watching? If you’ve ever felt like you had to overgive, overperform, or become someone else to be loved, this conversation will meet you exactly where you are.

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    57 m
  • What Healing Will Cost You | Mid Week Tease

    What Healing Will Cost You | Mid Week Tease
    Apr 8 2026
    Healing is beautiful but it’s not always soft. In this episode of The Mid Week Tease, Adelle Onyango unpacks the side of healing no one really talks about, the part where growth costs you relationships, comfort, certainty, and even the version of yourself you once needed to survive. If you’ve been feeling lonely, confused, or like your life is shifting in uncomfortable ways, this episode will help you understand why. Because what if nothing is going wrong?
    What if this is exactly what healing looks like? In this episode, Adelle explores:
    • Why healing can lead to losing friendships and relationships
    • The loneliness that comes with outgrowing old patterns
    • How your nervous system reacts to peace after chaos
    • Why you start questioning your career, relationships, and identity
    • The grief that comes with becoming a new version of yourself
    • How to navigate the discomfort of choosing yourself
    This episode is rooted in psychology-backed insights including attachment patterns, cognitive dissonance, and identity reconstruction, broken down in a way that’s easy to understand and apply to your life. If you’ve been doing the inner work and wondering why it feels harder before it feels better… this one is for you.

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    18 m
  • She Lost 2 Years Of Her Life Then Did The Impossible PART 2 | Legally Clueless Ep 372

    She Lost 2 Years Of Her Life Then Did The Impossible PART 2 | Legally Clueless Ep 372
    Apr 5 2026
    After spending 2 years at home recovering, Patricia is told it’s time to go back to school. But how do you return to life when you’re not sure you can keep up? In Part 2 of this powerful story on the Legally Clueless Podcast, Patricia shares what it looked like to rebuild her confidence, her identity, and her future, step by step. From doubting her ability…
    to being questioned by teachers,
    to rising through the ranks,
    to eventually earning her place at the University of Oxford. This is a story about resilience, self-belief, and choosing to try, even when you don’t feel ready.

    IN THIS EPISODE, YOU’LL HEAR:
    • What it feels like to return to school after a 2-year gap
    • Navigating doubt, both internal and from others
    • The moment she realized she was still capable
    • Rising from No. 20 to top of her class
    • Overcoming barriers in education systems
    • Her journey to Oxford and what it took to get there
    • Why representation matters for women and persons with disabilities
    KEY TAKEAWAY:
    You don’t have to feel ready to begin again.
    You just have to be willing to try.

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    We’re hosting a powerful wellness experience: “Becoming The Woman You Want To Be” with accredited psychologist Faith Guchu. We’ll be unpacking:
    • Childhood patterns and how they shape your relationships
    • Self-worth and how it influences your choices
    • Breaking limiting beliefs and cycles
    • How to start showing up differently in your life
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    PREVIOUS EPISODE
    Missed Part 1 of Patricia’s story? Listen to how her life changed in an instant and the 2 years that followed.

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    53 m
  • You’re Too Valuable To Be This Undervalued | For Mannerless Women

    You’re Too Valuable To Be This Undervalued | For Mannerless Women
    Apr 2 2026
    This week on For Mannerless Women, Adelle Onyango is joined by Mandi Sarro for an honest, empowering conversation about value, money, and the mindset shifts every woman needs to make when it comes to charging what she’s worth. From the concept of “b*tch tax”, charging more for difficult clients, to unlearning the need for external validation, this episode dives into the real reasons so many women underprice themselves. Mandi shares how being in the right rooms, surrounded by people who affirm your value, can completely shift how you see yourself and how you show up in business. This conversation explores:
    • why you may be undercharging or over-delivering
    • how validation-seeking shows up in your work
    • the difference between clients who understand value and those who don’t
    • how to start recognizing yourself as an asset
    If you’ve ever struggled to ask for more, negotiate your worth, or fully own your value, this episode is for you.

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    36 m
  • This Is Why You Keep Playing Small | Mid Week Tease

    This Is Why You Keep Playing Small | Mid Week Tease
    Mar 31 2026
    This week on The Mid Week Tease, Adelle Onyango unpacks the limiting beliefs that quietly shape how you see yourself, your work, your money, and your life. A lot of what we call self-doubt, fear, or “not feeling ready” isn’t random. It’s learned. Formed in childhood. Reinforced over time. And often… never questioned. In this episode, Adelle explores how early experiences shape core beliefs like:
    • “I’m not good enough”
    • “I have to prove my worth”
    • “Success isn’t for me”
    And how these beliefs show up in adulthood:
    • playing small at work
    • struggling with visibility
    • undercharging in business
    • constantly seeking validation
    Drawing from psychology frameworks like Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Schema Theory, and learned helplessness, this episode helps you understand why you keep repeating certain patterns and how to begin shifting them. If you’ve ever felt like you’re holding yourself back, this episode will help you see why. And more importantly what you can start doing about it.

    Join Us: Becoming The Woman You Want To Be
    Adelle Onyango is hosting an upcoming wellness talk with accredited psychologist Faith Guchu on April 11th. Together, they’ll guide you through:
    • understanding your childhood patterns
    • unpacking limiting beliefs
    • breaking cycles that no longer serve you
    • and becoming the woman you know you’re meant to be
    The event is already 50% sold out. If this episode resonated with you, this is your invitation to go deeper. Get your ticket here: https://legallycluelessafrica.hustlesasa.shop/products/69c004151d6e078f7e884f1d

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    16 m
  • She Lost 2 Years Of Her Life Then Did The Impossible PART 1 | Legally Clueless Ep 371

    She Lost 2 Years Of Her Life Then Did The Impossible PART 1 | Legally Clueless Ep 371
    Mar 29 2026
    In this powerful episode of the Legally Clueless Podcast, Patricia shares how her life completely paused and how she slowly, courageously rebuilt it. From learning how to walk again, to returning to school filled with fear and self-doubt, to rising through the ranks and rediscovering her brilliance. This is a story about resilience, identity, and what it really means to start over. And if you’ve ever felt like life delayed you, paused you, or set you back this episode will remind you:
    • You are not behind.
    • You are not done.
    • You are still becoming.

    IN THIS EPISODE, YOU’LL HEAR:
    • What it feels like to be away from life for 2 years
    • The fear of starting again after a major life interruption
    • Navigating school, identity, and disability
    • How she rebuilt her confidence step by step
    • The moment she realized she was still capable and more
    UPCOMING WELLNESS TALK
    We’re hosting a powerful wellness experience: “Becoming The Woman You Want To Be” with accredited psychologist Faith Guchu. We’ll be unpacking:
    • Childhood patterns and how they shape your relationships
    • Attachment styles and emotional triggers
    • Rebuilding self-worth
    • Breaking generational cycles
    ✨ We’re already 50% sold out. Secure your spot now:
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    NEXT EPISODE Part 2 of Patricia’s story drops next week and it only gets deeper.
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    44 m
  • She Was Called “Useless”… So She Chose Herself | For Mannerless Women

    She Was Called “Useless”… So She Chose Herself | For Mannerless Women
    Mar 26 2026
    She was told she was “useless.” In that moment, everything shifted. In this episode of the Legally Clueless Podcast, Terry Muikamba-Gitonga shares her journey from shrinking in toxic work environments to choosing herself and building something of her own. From navigating self-doubt and people-pleasing to doing the inner work and trusting her intuition, Terry opens up about what it really takes to walk away from spaces that diminish you and create a life that feels true. This is a conversation about:
    • Self-worth and trusting yourself
    • Recognising toxic work environments
    • The courage it takes to leave
    • Healing and doing the inner work
    • Building something aligned with who you are
    This episode is your reminder: the validation you’re looking for… you already have it.

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    51 m