In this episode of Ladies of Sosa, we respond directly to podcaster Myron Gaines after he reacted to a clip from our show. What followed was not dialogue or critique—but the use of racist language and a familiar claim of “calling out the Black community.” We take a step back to unpack what’s really happening in moments like these.

Together, we break down the red pill manosphere, its contradictions, its obsession with control, and how it often disguises disrespect and dehumanization as accountability and “truth.” We discuss why these spaces thrive on outrage, how they fuel gender wars, and why attacking Black women is repeatedly framed as community service.

This episode isn’t about trading insults or chasing clout. It’s about naming patterns, challenging harmful narratives, and asking real questions: Who is actually being helped? Who is being harmed? And why is accountability so often demanded from everyone except the loudest voices in the room?

If you’re tired of bad-faith arguments, recycled talking points, and conversations that punch down instead of build up—this one’s for you.

Hosts:
Sahra - @SoSahra
Christine - @ChristinaLado

Panel:
Tariq - @Arnabi20
Vaida - @VaidaJoe
KK- @TruckingWithKK
Cynthia - @magnyfi_cynt


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In this episode of Ladies of Sosa, we sit down with a panel to unpack the powerful film Goodbye Julia and the uncomfortable truths it brings to the surface. Through honest conversation, we explore the deeply rooted racism, colorism, and discrimination portrayed in the film, especially between North and South Sudanese communities, and how silence often allows harm to continue unchecked.

Our panel reflects on guilt, complicity, and the emotional weight carried by women in systems built on inequality. We also connect the film’s themes to real-life experiences in the diaspora, examining how these same dynamics show up today and why addressing them openly is necessary for healing and accountability.

This episode isn’t about blame, it’s about truth, reflection, and starting conversations many of us were taught to avoid.

Hosts:
Sahra - @SoSahra
Christine - @ChristinaLado

Panel:
Tariq - @Arnabi20
Vaida - @VaidaJoe
KK- @TruckingWithKK
Cynthia - @magnyfi_cynt


#Podcast #SouthSudan #Diaspora #eastafrica #SOSAConvos #AfricanExcellence #DiasporaDialogues #LadiesOfSOSA #AfricaRising #ProudlyAfrican #netflix #seancombs #thereckoning #50cent #documentary

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Why does it feel like Black men and Black women are constantly at odds online? And why do those loud internet battles rarely reflect real life?

In this episode of Ladies of Sosa, we unpack how misinformation and disinformation are intentionally fueling gender wars across the Black diaspora. From viral relationship takes and cherry-picked statistics to rage-bait podcasts and social media algorithms, we explore how false and exaggerated narratives are shaping how we see each other—and ourselves.

We break down the difference between misinformation and disinformation in plain language, trace how historical trauma and media manipulation make our communities especially vulnerable, and examine who actually benefits when Black men and women are divided. Most importantly, we talk about the real-life impact: dating mistrust, internalized misogynoir and misandry, cultural shame, and growing generational gaps.

This conversation isn’t about silencing real issues or avoiding accountability. It’s about learning how to spot manipulation, reclaim our stories, and move toward healthier, more honest conversations rooted in truth, context, and community healing.

If you’ve ever felt confused, frustrated, or exhausted by online gender discourse, this episode is for you.

Because division didn’t happen by accident—and healing won’t either.

Hosts:
Sahra - @SoSahra
Christine - @ChristinaLado

Panel:
Janet - ⁨@janetakorikin⁩
Vaida - @VaidaJoe
Amanual - @Amanual_Comedy
Cynthia - @magnyfi_cynt


#Podcast #SouthSudan #Diaspora #eastafrica #SOSAConvos #AfricanExcellence #DiasporaDialogues #LadiesOfSOSA #AfricaRising #ProudlyAfrican #netflix #seancombs #thereckoning #50cent #documentary

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