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  • Raising A Child With Special Needs Part 2

    Raising A Child With Special Needs Part 2
    May 5 2025

    Thanks for joining us for Part 2 of our series on Raising A Child with Special Needs.

    But first..Dave and Bethlie answer a question from a listener.

    "What do yall recommend to do for family devotions with a 2 year old, and even how often?"

    1. Make family devotions simple and easy
      1. Read to your little one
        1. This trains them to sit and listen
      2. Memorize 1 verse with your little one
        1. Say it to them over and over at specific times
          1. Before a meal
          2. Before prayer
          3. At bedtime
        2. Say it repeatedly until they begin saying it themselves
      3. Pray with them (just a short prayer . . .)
        1. Put them in bed and have dim lights and quiet music
        2. Talk quietly at that time of night
        3. Kneel beside their bed
        4. Touch them, rub their head or their back and sing to them, say a verse to them, and have a short prayer

    Now let's dive into the episode for today!

    Parenting Special Case Scenarios

    1. Recognize that “special needs” vary in scope and demand

      1. Severe autism vs. “on the spectrum”
      2. Fetal alcohol syndrome
      3. Blind
      4. Deaf
      5. ODD, ADHD, ADD

    2. Recognize that special needs are nothing new

      1. Parents have dealt with special needs throughout history
      2. You are not alone
      3. Illustration of reaching DEAF through the Bill and Cathy Rice family
      4. Illustration of Helen Keller
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    26 m
  • Raising A Child With Special Needs Part 1

    Raising A Child With Special Needs Part 1
    Apr 28 2025
    Dave and Bethlie are BACK! In today's episode Dave and Bethlie tackle a very important question from a listener about how to train a 3 year old with a big imagination to not lie. Later on in the episode Dave and Bethlie begin their series on raising a child with special needs. Thanks for joining us and enjoy this episode! Question from a listener Would you be able to share tips on how to train a 3 year old who has a beautiful imagination on lying. We do a lot of pretend/imagination play, but I want him to also understand that lying (if asked a specific question) is not good. This is something that just recently came up, and I wasn't sure how to handle it or train him on it. You have to know the difference in imagination and lying. Lying lips are an abomination to God; but they that deal in truth are his delightYou shall not bear false witness (you shall not be dishonest in any situation)Truth shall be established forever, but a lying tongue is but for a momentUsing ones imagination is fun and normal and creative; lying is refusing to face facts and/or take responsibility in a specific situation.Imagination is not wrong; lying is very wrong.Imagination is fun; lying is dangerous You have to use different words. Let’s pretendLet’s imagine Always tell the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truthThat is a LIE and That is VERY BAD Say that softly and sadlyConnect those emotions with the act of lying In imaginationIn reality You have to teach Jacob and his family He lied to his dadHis father in law lied to himHis sons lied to him The Boy Who Cried Wolf (14:40) Raising A Child With Special Needs Part 1 Defining special needs. Special needs refer to children who require additional support or services due to physical, developmental, intellectual, or emotional challenges. These needs can range from mild to severe and may affect various aspects of a child's life, including: communication, mobility, learning, behavior, and social interaction. Some children have physical challenges Blindness, deafness, etc. Some children have mental or emotional challenges Various degrees of autismFetal alcohol syndrome Some children are diagnosed with behavioral issues ADHD Attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) is a neurodevelopmental disorder characterized by persistent patterns of inattention, hyperactivity, and impulsivity. These symptoms can cause significant problems in functioning at home, school, or work. ADD Attention Deficit Disorder (ADD) is the older, more colloquial term for a specific type of Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) called "Predominantly Inattentive Type”. ODD Oppositional Defiant Disorder (ODD) is a behavioral disorder characterized by persistent negativity, defiance, and anger, often in children and adolescents. It's not a personality trait but a diagnosable condition that can impact a child's ability to learn, interact with others, and function in various settings. OCD Obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD) is a mental health condition characterized by obsessions (unwanted, persistent thoughts, images, or urges) and compulsions (repetitive behaviors or mental acts) that individuals feel driven to perform to reduce the anxiety caused by the obsessions. Conclusion
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  • [REWIND] The Challenging Seasons of Life Part 3

    [REWIND] The Challenging Seasons of Life Part 3
    Apr 20 2025

    The last few weeks Dave and Bethlie are taking an important break in order to focus on moving into their new home and also to enable them freedom to serve their community as it continues to deal with the recent tornados that negatively impacted their town of Poplar Bluff. They will resume normal programming very soon.

    In the meantime, please enjoy this rewind episode which is part 3 of a series entitled The Challenging Seasons of Life.
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    28 m
  • [REWIND] The Challenging Seasons of Life Part 2

    [REWIND] The Challenging Seasons of Life Part 2
    Apr 13 2025

    For the next few weeks Dave and Bethlie are taking an important break in order to focus on moving into their new home and also to enable them freedom to serve their community as it continues to deal with the recent tornados that negatively impacted their town of Poplar Bluff. They will resume normal programming very soon.

    In the meantime, please enjoy this rewind episode which is part 2 of a series entitled The Challenging Seasons of Life.
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    29 m
  • [REWIND] The Challenging Seasons of Life Part 1

    [REWIND] The Challenging Seasons of Life Part 1
    Apr 6 2025

    For the next few weeks Dave and Bethlie are taking an important break in order to focus on moving into their new home and also to enable them freedom to serve their community as it continues to deal with the recent tornados that negatively impacted their town of Poplar Bluff. They will resume normal programming very soon.

    In the meantime, please enjoy this rewind episode which is part 1 of a series entitled The Challenging Seasons of Life.
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    27 m
  • Your Child Has Been Caught Watching Porn

    Your Child Has Been Caught Watching Porn
    Mar 30 2025

    Join Dave and Bethlie as the discuss a sensitive yet prevalent issue in our culture today.

    What do you do when your child has been caught viewing porn?

    1. Be thankful for the "caught"
    2. Be matter of fact
    3. Begin the conversation
    1. What happened?
    2. How long has this been happening?
    3. What have you been viewing?
    4. How did you access it?

    Be willing to disciple for the long haul

    1. Psalm 119:9-11

    1. God's Word cleanses us
    2. God'w Word strengthens us to victory

    5. Take time to evaluate

    1. Is there a failure in the home?
    2. Is there a fault that can be corrected?
    3. Is there a failure in your teaching?
    1. Have you had conversations about sexuality?
    2. About porn?
    3. About what to do when you see porn?

    6. Take time to grow the relationship

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    28 m
  • Thoughts for Singles about Finding a Spouse Part 3

    Thoughts for Singles about Finding a Spouse Part 3
    Mar 23 2025

    Part 3:

    3. Be wise in your approach

      1. Questions that should be asked before a relationship becomes serious
        1. Not all of these are deal breakers, but they need wise examination and counsel
        2. Your spiritual testimony
          1. No Unequal yoke with someone who is not a believer
        3. Virginity
        4. Porn
        5. Drugs/alcohol
        6. Debt
      2. Your friends saw the red flags. Your family voiced their concerns. But you were so caught up in the excitement of new love that you missed all the warning signs. Now you’re stuck in a relationship that’s making you absolutely miserable.
      3. Why does this happen? According to researchers at University College London, “feelings of love lead to a suppression of activity in the areas of the brain controlling critical thought.” In other words, love can not only make you blind, but stupid.
      4. So, how can you keep your brain switched on while dating and dodge potential bullets in the realm of romance? According to relationship expert Dr. John Van Epp, author of How to Avoid Falling in Love With a Jerk, it’s about using both your head and your heart by taking the time to understand your partner’s F.A.C.E.S.
        1. There are areas you should examine
          1. Family Dynamics and Background
          2. Attitudes and Actions of a Mature Conscience
          3. Compatibility Potential
          4. Examples of Previous Friendship or Relationship Patterns
          5. Skills for Relationships
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  • Thoughts for Singles About Finding a Spouse Part 2

    Thoughts for Singles About Finding a Spouse Part 2
    Mar 19 2025

    Join Dave and Bethlie for part 2 of this series on Thoughts for Singles About Finding A Spouse.

    Here is the book Dave and Bethlie recommends Get Married by Brad Wilcox

    2. Be Practical In Your Approach

    1. Be open to dating
    2. Be friendly
    3. Be where other singles are
    4. Be preparing
    5. Be more Biblical than cultural
      1. Focus on Character (more than image)
      2. Focus on prepared
    6. Be willing to ask for help
    7. Allow others to set up dates
    8. Ask trusted mentors if they have anyone who would be a potential spouse
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