Most people don’t “fail” at goals because they’re lazy or undisciplined—they fail because the goal is built on the wrong foundation. In this episode, we break down why goals fall apart (sometimes in a week), how to tell if your “vision” is actually your ego talking, and how to set a vision that’s rooted in your real values so your actions become natural—not forced. Health, success, money, the body… it’s all integrated. When you stop isolating your life into separate buckets and start building from alignment, you stop burning out and start compounding.

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3 Key Takeaways:

1. Your goals only stick when they’re rooted in true values (not fear, ego, or “what you think you should want”). If the goal is built on proving something, it’ll collapse—or you’ll hate the process.
2. Health isn’t the end goal for most people—it’s the tool. When health supports what you actually value (family, impact, leadership, freedom), you stop needing motivation and start moving with consistency.
3. You need a vision beyond the vision + honesty about where you are (A) to map a real path to where you’re going (B). If you’re not honest about A—or your B is borrowed—you’ll burn out.

Quotes:

1. “What is your goal rooted in? Because ‘I want to be healthier’ and ‘I want to be thinner’ are two very different things.”
2. “Health is just a tool—it’s the tool that helps you get what you actually value.”

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Integrative You Radio is hosted by husband-and-wife duo, Dr. Nicole Rivera and Dr. Nick Carruthers. With their voracious curiosity for Integrative Medicine, the Human Mind, Aligned Parenting, and Entrepreneurship, they bring a fresh perspective to the table. They aim to debunk the BS that is holding you back in your health, your relationships, and your life.

Each episode is designed to challenge your thinking, push boundaries, and inspire you to see your life through a new lens. Dr. Nicole and Dr. Nick share transformative insights that have revolutionized their lives and the lives of their clients at Integrative You.

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In this episode, we go straight at the question everyone’s thinking but nobody wants to say out loud: Are people just assholes? And our answer is… usually, no. Most people aren’t out here trying to ruin your life—they’re operating with zero interpersonal skills, low self-awareness, and a whole lot of unhealed triggers.

We break down why labeling someone as “an asshole” is lazy (and honestly, it keeps you stuck), how conflict avoidance quietly destroys relationships and businesses, and why the real flex is learning to pause, collect data, and take radical responsibility—even when your ego wants to make someone else the villain.

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3 Key Takeaways:

1. Labels kill nuance (and keep you suffering). When you slap “asshole” on someone, your brain starts hunting for proof—and suddenly you can’t see anything else about them (or the situation).
2. Most “asshole behavior” is unskilled behavior. People avoid hard conversations, don’t know how to communicate compassionately, and don’t understand their own needs—so they act out, explode, ghost, betray, or sabotage.
3. The way out is radical responsibility + objective “data.” Don’t try to fix people while you’re triggered. Pause. Ask better questions. Create space for real check-ins (like a business would). That’s how you stop repeating the same painful patterns.

Quotes:

• “Conflict avoided is conflict multiplied.”

• “You’re not the villain in their story—you represent the parts of them that are unhealed.”

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2 Doctors Committed to Innovating the Healthcare Experience.

Integrative You Radio is hosted by husband-and-wife duo, Dr. Nicole Rivera and Dr. Nick Carruthers. With their voracious curiosity for Integrative Medicine, the Human Mind, Aligned Parenting, and Entrepreneurship, they bring a fresh perspective to the table. They aim to debunk the BS that is holding you back in your health, your relationships, and your life.

Each episode is designed to challenge your thinking, push boundaries, and inspire you to see your life through a new lens. Dr. Nicole and Dr. Nick share transformative insights that have revolutionized their lives and the lives of their clients at Integrative You.

This is raw. This is real. This is Integrative You Radio— where we blow shit up for the sake of human innovation.

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This episode is a short, spicy reframe on food allergies / sensitivities / intolerances—especially the ones that don’t “make a sense” (yes, we said it like that). We’re talking about those weird, random reactions that don’t match the whole “food family” (ex: you can’t drink milk but you can eat ice cream… what?).

Nicole shares a real-life example from Italy: a friend with postpartum gallbladder symptoms and a long-standing “milk issue.” The punchline? Sometimes the body links a food to a high-emotion moment that happened while you were eating/drinking it—especially in childhood—so the reaction isn’t just about the food… it’s about the stored stress pattern attached to it. We’re not dismissing gut/immune issues (those are real), but we are inviting you to ask a better question: When did this start, and what was happening in my life at that exact time?

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3 Key Takeaways:

1. If the allergy is random and inconsistent, look at the mind—not just the molecule. If you react to one specific food but not the whole category, there may be a stored emotional association driving the response.
2. Your body stores what your mind couldn’t process. Even if you don’t remember the event, it can still run in the background as anxiety, triggers, fight-or-flight, and “threat” responses—including around food.
3. The goal isn’t an elimination diet forever—it’s resolving the root. Instead of endlessly testing, restricting, and managing, this is an invitation to trace the onset and neutralize the original charge (sometimes with support like guided work, meditation, or hypnosis).

Quotes:

1. “If you have a couple of miscellaneous food allergies that do not make sense… this is your opportunity to really think about when did it start.”
2. “When it doesn't make sense. Look at the mind, don't look at the body, look at the mind.”

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2 Doctors Committed to Innovating the Healthcare Experience.

Integrative You Radio is hosted by husband-and-wife duo, Dr. Nicole Rivera and Dr. Nick Carruthers. With their voracious curiosity for Integrative Medicine, the Human Mind, Aligned Parenting, and Entrepreneurship, they bring a fresh perspective to the table. They aim to debunk the BS that is holding you back in your health, your relationships, and your life.

Each episode is designed to challenge your thinking, push boundaries, and inspire you to see your life through a new lens. Dr. Nicole and Dr. Nick share transformative insights that have revolutionized their lives and the lives of their clients at Integrative You.

This is raw. This is real. This is Integrative You Radio— where we blow shit up for the sake of human innovation.

Links:

• Website: Integrative You
• Instagram: Dr. Nicole Rivera & Integrative You

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Questions? Call or text 732-810-1084.