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Welcome to season 4 of THE IADGAF podcast (formally known as The Love Atiya Experience & The Love Atiya Pleasure Podcast) I am sooooooo excited for this newly revamped and rebranded version of my podcast. We made it to year 4 baby! This is a big F you to anyone who says I have a problem with commitment LOL

THIS EPISODE IS DEDICATED TO MY FUR DAUGHTER TAM WHO IS THE CATALYST IN TEACHING ME HOW TO SET BOUNDARIES & TAKE UP SPACE (AND ALSO HOW TO REMOVE MY ENERGY WHEN THE VIBES ARE OFF)

Today mantra: I actually don’t care

Topics we’re hitting in today’s episode are:

a welcome into season 4

seeking the good in people (and how that’s f*cking us up)

a storytime about how I thought I made a friend but now she’s lowkey blocked (featuring the actual voicenote I sent to her to end the connection)

how daughters feel like they have to protect their dads reputation

how to be less accessible

f*ck my ex and his waves

you have limited fucks use them wisely (the 5 fuck rule)

featuring: questions you can ask yourself when contemplating if your need to revoke or minimize your access to people

TAKEAWAY: people are going to feel a way, so the f*ck what?!

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Hey! So my laptop started glitching while I was trying to fix the sound (peep my pristine intro with my NEW mic) anyways in honor of not giving a fuck i'm posting it as it because I refuse to let my glitching laptop stop me from releasing this LMAO so just turn it down when I start doing the breathing otherwise it may blow your eardrums out jk jk lmao enjoy babes

I can't wait for ya'll to enjoy my OFFICIAL first episode dropping in MARCH!

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HEY BEAUTIFUL SOULS! This episode was WAAAAAY too juicy for the main feed so I decided to upload it onto Patreon instead. Wanna hear the rest of the episode? Become a Butterfly (Patron) TODAY! https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperience

This episode is all about:

Soooooo many damn lessons

My amazing ass flower, fruit, water, moldy soup analogy (somebody write this down for me please!)

I need more “acknowledgers” in my world (be gone with non acknowledgement)

Having a transactional relationship with a parent and it’s impacts

Family can be the opps (learnt through pattern recognition)

That one time I lowkey thought my mom was tryna kill me (she literally was trying to HELP me lmao)

Learning how to differentiate when my ancestors send me signs (are they blessings, offering assistance or are they protecting me)

The light skin spiders (no spider racism I promise)

Accidentally thinking a friendship was real (LMAO awkward af girl I thought we were friends 🤣)

But we’re all going through it

Why I’m not adding mf’s on social media anymore (para social relationships are a drag)

The guy I met up with from hinge back in November

How much I love my twin sister friend

“Minimadality” LMAO

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Sometimes You Just Don’t Got It To Give… and That’s OKAY

“I was the loudest one clapping in the room, eventually I learned how to start clapping for myself”

Question of the day: are we (humans) a little too sentient? or maybe we’re not sentient enough?! Idfk

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Te Amo!

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Friendship archetypes and feeling more pleasure with friends (Part 2)

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Affirmation: “I accept myself”

This episode is all about:

How I woke up to a scream from my higher self

Visualizing me and my mom being on tv together

The fleeting need for validation

Doing what I want to do instead of what I should do

My back to back interactions with narcissists

How I call myself “Seal girl” cause I just be clapping or everyone

How I’m no longer being the audience for people

Shoutouts to my mom for putting me onto the friendship archetypes theory

My list of friendship types

& different kinds of friendship archetypes

Doing wtf I want to do

My 47 day challenge

P.s. I promise I’m setting up my mic this week lol

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TRIGGER WARNING

Hey beautiful souls, this episode of The Love Atiya Pleasure Podcast includes discussion and mention of sexual assault.

These conversations may be activating or emotionally challenging for some listeners.

Please listen with care, honor your boundaries, and pause or step away at any time if needed.

i love you.

In this episode we talk all about:

Stories of Me and my 1st lesbian lover’s second go round & the time she fell asleep when we were sexting

Why wasn’t I always horny?

Tips for after care (even after sexting)

The time my aunt joked about my sexual assault

What happens when I don’t listen to my gut

Doing what I want to do

Conscious sex and intentionality

Solo date ideas and suggestions

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Heyyyyy beautiful souls! So happy to have you here.

This episode is all about:

Me flying in fake first class on JetBlue

My failed attempts trying to connect with men

How New York tried to steal my soul

I just don’t have it to give to the men in my life anymore (a tough pill to swallow)

Being naturally enthusiastic (perfect for energy vampires)

Men are who they are (and they’re ok with that)

Holding out hope for men (no)

What do men even talk about?

I don’t think I was ever meant to connect with men

Making excuses for the men in my life

I wanna stop wanting men to see or recognize my pain

Are men narcissists by default?

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Hey beautiful souls!

Welcome to yet another dope ass episode where I talk all about:

• Not being a normal human
• Faux healers & energy leeches
• Having friends I’m excited to listen to
• Charging money to people I’m not excited to listen to
• My thoughts on reciprocity
• Listening to my friends talk about men & the dumb sh*t they do
• Turning 31 and giving less fucks
• Calling out abusive sh*t (to your friend who’s in a relationship with a horrid man)
• Why do I keep giving strangers my time (no more 4 hour meet ups/hang outs!!!!)

+ My 3 simple core values

1. If I have to say no more than once it’s a problem!
2. Is this bringing me pleasure or can it bring me pleasure in the future?
3. Showing up honestly (reflecting on it & dealing with what comes in hopes I shed the dishonest people from around me)

& so much more!

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