In this prelude episode, I introduce myself as your host and provide insight to the catalyst for creating the I Think I Love My Wife (ThinkLoveWife) podcast.

In my journey to seeking relationship advice, I realized how important it is to seek counsel from people that are currently married. It also made me realize the void there is when it comes to getting the perspectives of married men of color, especially married Black men.

My goal is to have honest, real, and authentic conversations with married men about relationships (the challenges they've faced and how they've overcome them), their journey to proposing, the pressures we put on ourselves as men, and those that come from societal norms and generational expectations. In this episode, I also explain the meaning behind the podcast's name, my intentions for this podcast, and the expected structure of it.

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In this episode (That unquantifiable feeling), I explore the feelings that stem from really loving someone. I talk to a friend, who's been recently married, and examine his journey towards marriage.

We explore what it means to shoot your shot and the persistent mindset men have to have to approach and get to know women. We talk about the general categories that men typically put women in when dating and how that may impact behavior and their interactions. We uncover some of the obstacles and concerns that hold men back from proposing, even when they are with the right woman. We also discuss the importance of intimacy and vulnerability in a relationship and its role in a successful relationship.

Help support the podcast so it can continue to give you quality content. Donations of support can be made via Zelle to thinklovewife_donations@neloeffect.com. Contributions will go towards things like equipment, studio time, and operational costs to keep this podcast going.

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In this episode (Filling in the gaps), I explore how social media and friends can impact your relationship. I continue my conversation from episode 1 with a friend, who's been recently married, and examine his journey towards marriage.

We discuss the desires in men that never go away while exploring the adjustments that are required to make a relationship work. We examine the general concept of a proposal and how men may view it different than women. We talk about how past experience influences behavior as well as how the fear of losing control impacts how men see relationships and commitment. We also highlight the different attributes found in a good wife versus a good mother and which one’s men place a higher value on. Lastly, a case is made for why your wife cannot be your best friend.

Help support the podcast so it can continue to give you quality content. Donations of support can be made via Zelle to thinklovewife_donations@neloeffect.com. Contributions will go towards things like equipment, studio time, and operational costs to keep this podcast going.

We are on all major platforms. Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, GooglePlay Music, TuneIn, Castbox, and many others. Don’t forget to subscribe and share with your friends.

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In this episode (You have to be 100% in), I talk about the role sex can have in your relationship and explore how to navigate dating without sex. I talk to the husband of a good friend, who's been recently married, and examine his journey towards marriage.

We discuss some of the mistakes men make by not closing the loop on previous relationships. We explain why it is necessary to have a good circle of people around you for advice and support. We uncover how attractive it can be to meet a woman with boundaries and standards. We examine how sex can influence perspective in relationships and take a deep dive on navigating celibacy. We also highlight ways to build intimacy with your partner beyond sex.

Help support the podcast so it can continue to give you quality content. Donations of support can be made via Zelle to thinklovewife_donations@neloeffect.com. Contributions will go towards things like equipment, studio time, and operational costs to keep this podcast going.

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In this episode (There is no playbook), I talk about the stress of navigating tough personal seasons while in a relationship and some of the personal growth required to be a good partner. I continue my conversation from episode 3 with a friend, who’s been recently married, and examine his journey towards marriage.

We discuss the importance of having support during extremely difficult personal times and struggles. We focus on what it means to really understand your partner in marriage and to be a leader of the household. We highlight the ongoing learning process that occurs and the challenges of not having proper examples growing up. We go deep on how tough situations (like losing your job) can affect your relationship. We also examine the ways pride can get in the way of asking for help and getting the support you need to move forward.

Help support the podcast so it can continue to give you quality content. Donations of support can be made via Zelle to thinklovewife_donations@neloeffect.com. Contributions will go towards things like equipment, studio time, and operational costs to keep this podcast going.

We are on all major platforms. Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, GooglePlay Music, TuneIn, Castbox, and many others. Don’t forget to subscribe, share with your friends, and leave a review.

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In this episode (She completed me), I talk about the process of managing the business of a relationship and the work it takes to sustain a good relationship. I wrap up my conversation from episode 3 and 4 with a friend, who’s been recently married, and examine his journey towards marriage.

We discuss how the strengths and weaknesses of a partner impact the business of a relationship. We highlight the growth that occurs from both sides in a serious relationship. We examine how love languages affect the way we engage and receive love from our partner. We also uncover varying sentiments that stem from staying in touch with an ex or friends of the opposite sex, while talking through how to navigate through situations when its worth keeping those friendships.

Help support the podcast so it can continue to give you quality content. Donations of support can be made via Zelle to thinklovewife_donations@neloeffect.com. Contributions will go towards things like equipment, studio time, and operational costs to keep this podcast going.

We are on all major platforms. Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, GooglePlay Music, TuneIn, Castbox, and many others. Don’t forget to subscribe, share with your friends, and leave a review.

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In this episode (Some things are just a marathon), I discuss the enduring journey of marriage, the road to get there, and the critical considerations to keep in mind when selecting your partner. I talk to a friend, who’s been married for almost 5 years, and examine his journey towards as well as in marriage.

We explore some of the mental hurdles and personal obstacles that hold men back from popping the big question. We talk about the issues that come with searching for the “perfect” partner. We examine your ability to really change someone and the importance of really listening to what your potential partner tells you when dating. We highlight the commitment that comes with marriage and the “right now” mentality that cause some people to force things when dating. We also discuss the continual work it takes to keep a marriage going.

Help support the podcast so it can continue to give you quality content. Donations of support can be made via Zelle to thinklovewife_donations@neloeffect.com. Contributions will go towards things like equipment, studio time, and operational costs to keep this podcast going.

We are on all major platforms. Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, GooglePlay Music, TuneIn, Castbox, and many others. Don’t forget to subscribe and share with your friends.

Follow @ThinkLoveWife on Instagram and send questions or topics you’d like us to discuss.

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In this episode (It’s a two way street), I discuss being a relationship with an alpha woman and how children can impact a marriage. I finish my conversation from episode 6 with a friend, who’s been married for almost 5 years, and examine his marriage thus far.

We discuss the importance of intimacy and issues that come from prioritizing sex in a relationship. We uncover the value of being vulnerable and transparent, as well as the importance of creating safe spaces for your partner. We talk about dealing with personalities that differ from yours and navigating the dynamics of being involved with an alpha woman. We also examine new relationship challenges that arise from having a child.

Help support the podcast so it can continue to give you quality content. Donations of support can be made via Zelle to thinklovewife_donations@neloeffect.com. Contributions will go towards things like equipment, studio time, and operational costs to keep this podcast going.

We are on all major platforms. Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, GooglePlay Music, TuneIn, Castbox, and many others. Don’t forget to subscribe and share with your friends.

Follow @ThinkLoveWife on Instagram and send questions or topics you’d like us to discuss.

Email us at feedback@thinklovewife.com with any feedback!