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  • 320 | Tantric Edging, Exhibitionism & Vulnerable Kink: Mark Turnipseed’s Update
    Oct 29 2025

    Tantric healing, sexuality shifts, and letting go—Mark returns after four years with updates on his sex life and how he’s helping men heal.


    📈 STATS | 38 single bisexual male, he/him pronouns, kinky, Christian, men’s life coach, based in Boca Raton, Florida, into: pilates, kundalini, tantra, primal fitness, and primal sex.


    TIME CODE

    00:00 From LGBTQ advocate to ayahuasca journeys, Kundalini, and opening to Tantra

    07:59 Hip release leading to energetic awakenings and craving connection beyond labels

    10:07 Wrestling with identity, fluid sexuality, and the limits of labels

    12:29 Sex as original creativity and living without rigid roles

    13:44 Volatile romance, exhibitionism, and confronting shame triggers

    18:32 Choosing openness and seeking inner peace

    21:05 Leaving yoga classes and embracing spiritual expression

    23:48 Tantra as vibration, wholeness, and being fully present for a partner

    27:41 Multi-day edging, non-ejaculatory orgasms, and sex for hours

    34:03 Ejaculation-free orgasms, concrete practices, and edging as spiritual training

    41:11 Orgasm-shy lovers and tantric tools for better connection

    44:16 Kink as healing—existential kink, suicidal thoughts, and self-acceptance

    49:30 First fetish parties, kink breakthroughs, and confronting shame

    53:16 Breaking taboos, releasing old traumas, and exploring erotic extremes

    55:32 Fluidity of kinks and sex as adult play

    59:35 Kink highs and conscious play

    01:00:33 Primal fitness, men’s retreats, and coaching toward embodied freedom

    01:01:36 Healing men, dismantling religious trauma, and finding purpose

    01:05:21 Confidence, enough-ness, and trusting the path forward


    🤩 TOPICS | Addiction recovery, abusive relationships, ayahuasca visions, bisexual awakening, body openness, childhood trauma healing, coming out journey, creative expression through sex, deep connection, edging practice, emotional liberation, erotic exploration, exhibitionist desires, exploring masculinity, fetish community, fluid attraction, flogger play, gay sauna encounters, golden showers, hip release, identity confusion, intimate massage, kink acceptance, kink parties, kundalini energy, letting go of labels, masculine awakening, meditation insights, non-ejaculatory orgasms, OnlyFans creativity, open relationships, orgasm control, porn photography, primal sex coaching, psychedelic healing, religious shame, rewriting personal stories, self-acceptance, self-pleasure practices, sexual chemistry, sexual healing, shadow integration, shit play, spiritual embodiment, suicidal thoughts, tantra philosophy, tantric orgasm, toxic relationships, trauma release, volatile romance, yoga practice.


    🔗 MARK LINKS | markaturnipseed.com


    Mark’s episode from May 2021 | Enjoying My Gay


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    1 h y 6 m
  • The Girlfriend Experience (GFE): How to Brothel
    Oct 22 2025

    Luna shares what a Girlfriend Experience (GFE) actually means at Sheri’s Ranch—from slow, nourishing intimacy to co-created adventures full of talk, touch, and trust. She breaks down what a GFE can include, who it’s for, and why it's her favorite kind of connection. Luna offers a detailed guide to building something real—whether it’s in a bubble bath, a kink scene, or a night of cuddling and conversation.


    00:00 What a “Girlfriend Experience” actually is (and isn’t)

    01:39 Nourishing, slow, co-created intimacy

    03:15 My personal definition of GFE: emotional investment, connection, and care

    05:34 Why I love GFE sessions and how they turn into growth partnerships

    07:39 Classic Date vibes: food, cuddles, massage, flirtation, and fun

    10:09 Talking & Touching: multiple rounds, curiosity, and playful flow

    12:38 Extra Wet: hot tubs, bubble baths, and water-based intimacy

    13:31 Kink, Fetish & Role Play: building fantasies with time and trust

    14:44 Double Girlfriends & Poly Possibilities: more hands, more joy

    16:17 Who GFE is for: connection-seekers, healers, and curious souls

    17:58 Not faux romanticism—just real connection, joy, and care


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    19 m
  • 319 | Couples Whisperer, Non-Monogamy Guide & Sex Therapist: Dr Emma Smith’s Sex Stories
    Oct 15 2025
    Catholic confessional sex stories, military consent training, and the differences between inclusionary and exclusionary consent—Dr. Emma Smith shares her journey from shame to sex therapy, radical honesty in relationships, and helping couples open up with care and curiosity.📈 STATS | 42 bisexual pansexual cis-presenting agender femme, she/her and any/all pronouns, in a monogamish relationship, raised Catholic, sexual assault survivor, AASECT certified sex therapist in private practice, writer, intimacy philosopher, advocate for sexual trauma survivors to enjoy sex, from New Jersey, based in Nashville, into: infusing eroticism into daily life, sharing truths and curiosities about sex with partners in playful ways, extended foreplay to build anticipation long before touch is initiated, unlocking shame stories, building sensory awareness and self-trust through solo touch exploration.⏰ TIME CODE00:00 From Catholic schoolgirl to sex therapist and intimacy philosopher06:19 Coming out in her 30s, a Marine husband’s reaction, and her mom’s allyship13:04 Defining sexy as authenticity and what her 42-year-old sex life looks like16:17 Radical honesty, trauma work, and positive sentiment override24:04 Timeouts, nervous system regulation, and timing back in27:18 Monogamy, expansive love, and health practices around testing34:10 Sex therapy: trauma recovery, couples work, and sex as the canary in the coalmine38:16 Helping couples open up with relationship agreement intensives42:15 Virgin Mary statues, masturbation shame, and “transactional” sex58:11 Confession booth stories and Catholic guilt through college59:29 Teaching Marines consent by valuing their own bodies1:13:12 From trauma counseling to sex therapy and post-traumatic growth1:16:36 Responsive vs. spontaneous desire and the myth of “spontaneity”1:19:04 Releasing inherited shame stories1:21:35 Believing people when they tell you who they are and allowing evolution1:22:57 Spreading ripples of love by celebrating small creative acts as miraculous🤩 TOPICS | AASECT certified sex therapist, allyship and coming out stories, authenticity in relationships, awareness through masturbation and solo touch, betrayal trauma therapy, bisexual femme perspective, body trust and self-awareness, Catholic guilt and purity culture, Catholic upbringing and Virgin Mary statue, charcuterie board therapy intensives, communication skills in couples, consent training for Marines, couples counseling and sex therapy, creative acts as love and miracles, daily eroticism practices, erotic embodiment and pleasure, extended foreplay for anticipation, fluid bonding conversations, health and STI testing practices, infidelity recovery and healing, intimacy philosophy and writing, masturbation shame and guilt, military sex education programs, nervous system regulation in relationships, non-monogamy frameworks and polyamory, orgasmic embodiment and desire, polyamorous relationship dynamics, post-traumatic growth and sexuality, power of curiosity and playfulness, purity ring and chastity culture, radical transparency and honesty, relationship agreements for opening up, responsive versus spontaneous desire, self-trust building through touch, sexual assault prevention training, sexual trauma recovery and healing, shame release exercises, soft yes consent framework, spontaneous desire myths and realities, survivor advocacy for sex positivity, therapy for betrayal and infidelity, trauma-informed counseling practices, valuing men’s consent and bodies, writing and intimacy philosophy.🔗 DR EMMA LINKS | @emmasmithphd / @emmasmithphd.bsky.social / facebook / substackSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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    1 h y 25 m
  • Are You A Kindsexual? How to Brothel
    Oct 8 2025

    Luna introduces the term “kindsexual”, a label she coined to describe being aroused by kindness and connection. She explores the joys and challenges of being turned on by care through personal stories, patterns, and upgrades in discernment—and why working as a legal courtesan offers the ideal setting for her kindsexuality to thrive. This episode is a love letter to co-creating sexy, safe, mutually appreciative relationships.


    00:00 What is a kindsexual? Luna defines her attraction to kindness

    01:28 Fantasizing about rewarding good behavior with generous mouth acts

    03:13 Bi, pan, omni... and why “kindsexual” captures something deeper

    05:05 Flirty or friendly? The thrill of kindness from strangers

    08:13 Casual dating confusion, booty call burnout, and craving connection

    10:03 Stories that reshaped Luna’s definition of kindness

    12:15 Upgrading standards: clarity, care, mutual turn-on

    14:24 From 14 dates to one deeper desire: intentional intimacy

    16:57 Sugar dating, money kink, and realizing she was built for this

    19:19 Why the ranch is the perfect place for her kindsexuality to run wild

    22:07 Safety, structure, and how clear exchanges make sexy co-creation possible

    25:18 Sweet sessions, mutual nurturance, and feeling deeply valued

    27:07 Go forth and kind: making care the norm in erotic connection


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    29 m
  • 318 | Transmasc Hottie With a Strap: Zoo’s Update
    Oct 1 2025
    Hotel hallway handjobs, pegging with praise, and playful spank counts—Zoo returns to share how their sex anxiety, shifting gender journey, and queer connections are shaping a search for intimacy, pleasure, and community. 📈 STATS | 28 queer trans non-binary human, they/he pronouns, polyamorous, currently partnered, bartender, Shakespearean actor, based in Los Angeles. ⏰ TIME CODE00:00 Updates since 2022 and meeting their now-husband at a bartender conference 02:00 Hallway makeouts, secret storage rooms, and hotel hookups in New Orleans 07:00 First sparks of connection and navigating sexual anxiety with dance 11:30 Rule-breaking thrills, security cameras, and conference restrictions 13:00 Transitioning to transmasc identity and shifts in dating dynamics 17:00 Comparing Vermont’s queer scene to LA and New York 23:00 Long-distance desires, casual partners, and balancing intimacy 25:00 Shifting attractions toward masculinity and butch presentation 31:00 Anxiety around gender perception 33:00 Noodling questions and focusing on desire over perception 35:00 Condom mishaps, filming discomfort, and an unwanted yeast infection 41:00 Spanking tally game and discovering a new Dom dynamic 43:00 Pegging, praise kink, and playful anal explorations with their partner 45:00 Rediscovering libido through sexy Stardew Valley fanfiction 49:00 Polyamory as essential and struggles with long-distance sex 53:00 Trigger loops, sexual anxiety, and finding new routes to connection 59:00 Exploring kink through pressure, praise, and non-traditional dynamics 01:01:00 The messiness of butt sex and embracing new practices 01:01:20 Photo book project on lesbian bars and queer archival work 01:07:15 Dreaming of queer community spaces and creative hubs 01:12:00 Finding their first porn film online and their kink origins 01:19:00 Future hopes: consistent, connected orgasms and true friends-with-benefits 🤩 TOPICS | Alcove makeouts, anxiety loops, bartender conference romance, bisexual queer identity, body confidence, butch attraction, casual encounters, chest dysphoria, chosen family community, connected orgasms, creative queer bar visions, dancing through anxiety, deep intimacy, disassociation during sex, edgy hotel hookups, ethical porn favorites, evolving gender presentation, fanfiction arousal, first porn memories, friends-with-benefits dreams, high production porn, hotel edging, identity shifts, intimacy struggles, kink discovery, latex allergy mishap, lesbian bar archive, libido revival, long-distance love, masturbation inspiration, motorcycle threesome fantasy, naked dancing, non-latex condoms, non-monogamous orientation, OnlyFans filming regret, pegging with praise, polyamorous identity, pressure play, queer nightlife spaces, relationship anarchist vibes, rule-breaking thrill, security camera exhibitionism, sensuality in vintage porn, sexual anxiety triggers, spanking tally game, Stardew Valley smut, strap-on sex, threesomes with multiple penises, vintage porn aesthetics, wingman support. 🔗 ZOO LINKS | @zooholmstrom / thelongroadtolesbos.comZoo’s episode from April 2019 | The Fantasy ChamberZoo’s update from September 2022 | Phantom Dick Orgasms and The Long Road to LesbosAsk a question, share a story or be a guest: howtowoo.fyiExplore Luna's rabbit hole: @lunarwoohooSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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    1 h y 25 m
  • Couples Threesomes: How to Brothel
    Sep 24 2025

    Luna explores the fantasy, pleasure, and logistics of couples threesomes at Sheri’s Ranch—sharing her personal definitions, play-by-play configurations, and stories from real-life parties. She offers guidance for curious partners, including how to navigate jealousy, negotiation, and boundaries, and reflects on what makes a shared experience hot, safe, and unforgettable. A sexy, thoughtful, and comprehensive guide for anyone dreaming of a third.


    00:00 Why partnered threesomes are such a common (and complicated) fantasy

    02:19 How professional courtesans create safety, clarity, and fun for curious couples

    04:10 Luna’s definition of a couples threesome and why she loves being the guest star

    06:36 The wide range of couples who show up—hetero, queer, besties, and voyeur-friendly pairs

    08:17 What “no boundaries” really means

    10:05 Navigating jealousy, feeling left out, and staying connected through communication

    12:41 Real-life configurations and favorite positions: face-sitting, spit roasts, lap play, and more

    19:49 Creative three-way play with internal condoms, shared stimulation, and the Pussy Stack

    21:49 Scissoring, oral circles, and group dynamics that build heat and joy

    23:50 Who couples threesomes are best for—and what to know before visiting a legal brothel

    26:42 Brothel vs. DIY dating: how to choose the right path for your threesome desires

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    27 m
  • 317 | Sapiosexual Submissive: Dr Tiffany Chan's Sex Stories
    Sep 17 2025

    Spanking, exhibitionism, threesomes, and dungeons—Dr. Tiffany Chan shares how she embraced submission, built a 24/7 power exchange, and turned her passion for sex into a thriving career.

    📈 STATS | 37 pansexual female, she/her pronouns, monogamish, kink affirming sex educator, board-certified sexologist, model, content creator, designer of wearable art, published author and writer of smut, from Los Angeles, into: MF three-ways, play parties, BDSM, sex toys, kink, and connection.

    TIME CODE

    00:00 From shame to shameless: early crushes, queer awakenings, and supportive-but-surprising parents

    06:00 Discovering pleasure through Cinemax and Real Sex

    11:00 Defining sexy as confidence, comfort, and self-love

    13:00 Losing herself as a parent, reclaiming pleasure, and choosing supportive relationships

    16:00 Cosmo magazine discoveries, early blowjobs, and formative sexual explorations

    19:00 Bartending, Magic Wand revelations, and the road to becoming a sexologist

    23:00 Balancing pleasure, work, parenting, and creative ventures

    38:00 Wedding night flogging, public intimacy, and dungeon rituals

    42:00 From Anne Rice fantasies to FetLife contracts and 24/7 dynamics

    47:00 Check-ins, accountability, and building a 24/7 partnership

    52:00 Hands, sensation play, and the allure of strong touch

    56:00 Friends-with-benefits threesomes and navigating boundaries

    1:02:00 Parallel play, dungeon nights, and intimate energy exchange

    1:05:00 Health and safety practices for comfort and consent

    1:17:00 Rope scenes, corsets, and finding serenity in restraint

    1:23:00 Switching roles, online platforms, and erotic creativity

    1:31:00 Goals: more joy, more freedom, and spreading love through pleasure

    🤩 TOPICS | Anal curiosity, anxiety in relationships, audio porn, body image struggles, collars and honorifics, content creation, creative writing, cum swallowing boundaries, daddy dom dynamics, divorce transitions, dungeon furniture, edging orgasms, erotic audio, exhibitionist desires, fantasy balls, female empowerment, fisting curiosity, fluid bonding, floggers, friends with benefits, group sex etiquette, HIV awareness, humiliation triggers, kink education, learning management systems, lingerie fetishes, masturbation practices, mental health and ADHD, nude beaches, online censorship, orgasmic meditation, parallel play, pegging interests, poly upbringing, public sex stories, rope bondage, self-acceptance, sex education in homeschooling, shame resilience, shibari, slut reclaiming, spanking fantasies, squirting, swinger parties, threesomes, toxic relationships, university teaching, watersports content, wearable art design, writing erotica.

    🔗 DR TIFFANY LINKS | tiffanychanofficial.com / @kipani


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    1 h y 40 m
  • My First Time With Mistress Luna
    Sep 12 2025

    Luna reads a submissive’s detailed account of their first night together—an intimate journey of nerves, desire, and surrender. From breathwork and boundary-setting to leather, harnesses, and power exchange, this story explores submission, Dominance, pleasure, trust, and the freedom of letting go. A candid, erotic glimpse into kink, intimacy, and the transformative connection between Domme and sub.


    🤩 TOPICS | Adrenaline rush, ass worship, begging for pleasure, body calibration, bondage bench, breathwork techniques, catsuit gift, collar ritual, control exchange, crying out in waves, dominant care, double orgasm, erotic laughter, face sitting, feather teasing, flogger play, giggling release, harnessed curves, intense submission, leather dress, malevolent giggle, mouth worship, mutual pleasure, naked skin contact, nervous submissive, nipple harness, oxytocin release, paddle impact, pegging session, perineum pressure, prostate stimulation, safe words, sensual kissing, service and surrender, shivering excitement, skin-to-skin touch, spanking wheel, spiky wheel, submission freedom, submissive shaking, thigh squeezing, tongue worship, trust in domination, worshiping her body.


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    18 m