What if the “disruption” we’re seeing from Gen Z in the workplace isn’t dysfunction—but a signal?

In this episode of How I Ally, Lucinda sits down with Kris Erickson, co-founder of Workforce Science Associates, to unpack what’s really happening inside today’s workforce. Drawing from a database of over 10 million employee responses, Kris shares a surprising insight: Gen Z—those newest and often most excited to begin their careers—are the least engaged generation at work right now.

Together, they explore what that means—not just for organizations, but for how we understand leadership, identity, caregiving, and connection in a post-pandemic world.

This conversation goes beyond workplace trends. It’s about what happens when people are no longer willing to separate who they are from what they do.

When I first launched How I Ally, the very first episode I recorded was with Bianca Sprague.

Re-releasing it to open Season 2 feels exactly right.

Because the conversation is just as urgent today as it was then.

Bianca is the founder of BeboMia, an international maternal health training organization operating in over 50 countries. But what makes her voice so powerful is not just her expertise—it’s her willingness to say the things many mothers are thinking but rarely feel allowed to say out loud.

In this episode, we talk about the invisible labor of motherhood, the emotional cost of unpaid care work, and how systemic forces—from capitalism to cultural expectations—shape the way women experience parenting.

And the truth is uncomfortable.

What if your trauma could become your superpower in parenting?

In this powerful conversation, I sit down with Dr. Robyn Koslowitz, clinical child psychologist and author of Post-Traumatic Parenting: Break the Cycle, Become the Parent You Always Wanted to Be. We explore how childhood trauma shapes the way we show up as parents—and how the very act of raising children can be our path to healing.

We discuss:

• The difference between the trauma of presence and the trauma of absence
• Why conflict isn’t the problem in families—mismanaged conflict is
• How to “reprogram” the trauma app in your brain
• The power of repair and modeling healthy conflict for your children
• Why parenting is the perfect moment for rewiring and growth

If you’ve ever worried that your “damage will damage your kids,” this episode offers hope, compassion, and practical tools to shift that fear into strength.

🔗 Resources & Links:

• Post-Traumatic Parenting by Dr. Robyn Koslowitz (Amazon)
• Follow Dr. Koslowitz on Instagram: @posttraumaticparenting
• Connect with me on Instagram: @lucindarogerskoza

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In this episode of How I Ally, I sit down with Kumiko Kanayama, founder of the longest-running Shiatsu center in the U.S., to explore the healing wisdom of her family tradition.

We talk about:

• How Shiatsu goes beyond massage to work with energy channels and meridians
• Simple practices that ease pain, improve digestion, and bring emotional clarity
• The transformative journey of motherhood—from exhaustion to deep connection
• Why rest, presence, and small daily rituals are essential for healing

Kumiko’s story is a reminder that healing is not just physical—it’s emotional, cultural, and communal. Whether you’re a parent, caregiver, or simply seeking balance, her insights will leave you inspired.

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It’s time to say it out loud—vagina—and stop the shame. Lucinda Koza talks with Saundra Pelletier, CEO of Evofem Biosciences, about why accurate language saves lives, the first non-hormonal, on-demand birth control, and how to raise informed, empowered daughters and sons. Plus—the surprising link between weight-loss drugs and birth control.

Listen, learn, and join the movement to reclaim women’s health and equality.

In this powerful conversation, Lucinda Koza talks with her longtime friend Melissa Gillis — caregiver, mom of twins, and therapist — about navigating life after a decade of caring for her mom with Huntington’s Disease. They share honest reflections on anticipatory grief, meeting loved ones where they are, finding your “tribe,” and letting go of toxic positivity.

With equal parts humor, raw truth, and hope, they explore how to:

• Accept your loved one’s changing abilities without forcing the past
• Hold both love and frustration in caregiving
• Rebuild your identity after your role shifts
• Prepare your kids to handle life’s messiness

Whether you’re deep in the caregiving trenches or on the other side, this episode will remind you: it’s possible to feel balanced, fulfilled, and whole again.

🎧 Listen now for real stories, laughter, and life-changing perspective.

Contact Melissa Gillis for caregiver coaching services: melissa@melissagillis.care

What does it mean to truly show up for someone? In this powerful episode, Lucinda Koza speaks with psychologist and trauma specialist Dr. Kirsten Viola Harrison about her decade-long friendship with Sean/a—an intersex woman who overcame the hardest obstacles of homelessness and schizophrenia to become a beacon of strength and joy.

Together, they explore what happens when we take a chance on one another. From daily Starbucks chats to a worldwide Pride tour, this is the story of two women who changed each other’s lives—and a whole community in the process.

Topics We Cover:

• Sean/a’s resilience and life as an intersex woman living unhoused

• The emotional and spiritual power of allyship

• Post-traumatic growth and surviving the “dark night of the soul”

• Living with schizophrenia without medication

• Finding hope, dignity, and connection in unexpected places

Guest:

Dr. Kirsten Viola Harrison is a psychologist with 35+ years of experience in trauma work. She is the co-author of I, Sean/a: The Story of a Homeless Intersex Woman Who Inspired a Community.

Resources & Mentions:

📖 I, Sean/a — Available on Amazon, Barnes & Noble, and Goodreads

🌐 Learn more about Sean/a’s story on TikTok (1M+ views!)

🗺️ Pride around the world: Sean/a’s first international journey at age 59

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Guest: Dr. Isabel Morgan, Senior Advisor of Maternal Health at the Black Women’s Health Imperative

Episode Summary:

In this powerful and necessary conversation, Dr. Isabel Morgan shares hard truths and hopeful pathways forward in the fight for Black maternal health. As an epidemiologist and anthropologist, she brings both data and deep cultural insight to the conversation—breaking down how racism, medical models, and policy choices converge to create a maternal health crisis in the United States.

Together, we discuss:

• Why the U.S. has the worst maternal mortality rates of any high-income country
• The racial disparities in cesarean section rates and postpartum outcomes
• The midwifery model vs. obstetric care—and why it matters
• How implicit bias and structural racism shape healthcare experiences
• Why storytelling, data, and advocacy are all critical tools for justice
• The importance of the “fourth trimester” and postpartum care
• What legislative changes—like the Black Maternal Health Momnibus—can actually save lives

This episode is a call to action—and a reminder that we can fix this.

📣 Resources & Mentions:

• Black Women’s Health Imperative (BWHI): https://bwhi.org
• Earth App by Kimberly Seals Allers: https://birthplacelab.org/earth-app
• Black Maternal Health Momnibus Act
• My Sister’s Keeper & BWHI’s doula training programs

💡 Quote of the Episode:

“Eighty percent of pregnancy-related deaths are preventable. This is something we can fix.” — Dr. Isabel Morgan

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