What do you do when you’re hanging out with someone… and suddenly realize you have no idea if you’re on a date?
Welcome to queer dating culture—where vibes are strong, signals are subtle, and sometimes you accidentally start dating someone without either of you realizing.

In this hilarious, heartfelt episode, Goddess Brittney King and Lisset King unpack a listener question about “How do I know if this is a date?”—especially when dating women, femmes, and gender-expansive cuties.

We explore everything from the confusion of mixed signals, to the art of curiosity, to the single greatest dating tool adults rarely use: clear communication.

If you’ve ever wondered…

“Are we flirting?”
“Are they into me?”
“Is this romantic or just queer friendship intimacy?”
…this episode is basically your new survival guide.

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Honest Feedback was created by Brittney King and Lisset King.

Note: Honest Feedback Podcast aims to provide insights and provoke thoughtful reflection. The opinions expressed in this episode are for informational purposes only and should not replace professional advice.

Please send us your questions by leaving a voicemail at 971-895-4111, DM us on instagram @honestfeedbackpodcast or email us at thekings@honestfeedbackpodcast.com

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What do you do when your big, vibrant, joy-filled life bumps up against someone else’s “I could never”? In this episode, we break down how to stay rooted in your truth when people react to your sequins, pink walls, late-night dancing, solo travel, or personal expansion with disbelief and limitation. This conversation was inspired by a listener voicemail asking for kind, empowering responses when people shrink themselves in front of her — and we delivered.

Using NLP principles like respecting someone’s map of the world and clean pattern interrupts like a grounded “Okay,” we show you exactly how to avoid taking on other people’s stories, projections, or scarcity. You’ll learn the difference between preference and fear, how to identify the subtle ways people try to enroll you in their smallness, and how to respond without collapsing or defending.

We also offer compassionate, possibility-inviting lines and a handful of savage Sagittarius burns for when the universe demands a boundary with glitter on it.

You’ll walk away with:

• Energy-protecting scripts
• Mindset reframes to stop taking things personally
• Clear ways to stay off duty when people want coaching you didn’t offer
• What it means to live big in a world conditioned for small
• How to become narcissist-proof, mediocrity-proof, and projection-proof in your daily life

This episode is for anyone who’s ever been judged, side-eyed, or energetically tugged downward for wanting more, dreaming bigger, or simply choosing joy. Your desires are holy. Your bigness is a blessing. And your example can inspire without over-explaining.

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Honest Feedback was created by Brittney King and Lisset King.

Note: Honest Feedback Podcast aims to provide insights and provoke thoughtful reflection. The opinions expressed in this episode are for informational purposes only and should not replace professional advice.

Please send us your questions by leaving a voicemail at 971-895-4111, DM us on instagram @honestfeedbackpodcast or email us at thekings@honestfeedbackpodcast.com

Keep up with the podcast by following us @HonestFeedbackPodcast on YouTube

The word narcissist gets tossed around online, but the lived pattern is painfully consistent—a rush of praise, a sudden chill of devaluation, the shock of discard, and the too-familiar pull of hoovering.

In this deeply validating episode, we sit down with licensed therapist Lauren Flowers, author of Becoming Narcissist-Proof, to map the entire cycle of narcissistic abuse with clinical clarity and embodied compassion. This isn’t armchair diagnosis, it’s a roadmap for healing trauma, reclaiming your power, and rebuilding your nervous system after manipulation.

Lauren unpacks how love bombing, gaslighting, and emotional control operate beneath charming exteriors and what makes certain people especially vulnerable to the pattern. You’ll hear riveting real-life stories from her book (including her own) and learn how to recognize the red flags in romantic, family, and workplace relationships.

We break down manipulation as a simple equation and explore how it hides behind kindness, guilt, and ever-shifting rules. You’ll also learn to spot “proof of choice” moments and how the drama Triangle traps empathetic, high-responsibility people in toxic loops.

If you’ve ever felt the gut twist, fog, or whiplash of a narcissistic dynamic, this conversation is your map out.

Recognize the pattern. Release what was never yours to hold. Reclaim who you were before the adaptations.

🪞In This Episode

• What it really means to be “narcissist-proof”
• How to recognize the signs of manipulation and gaslighting in real time
• Why your body always knows first—and how to listen to it
• The forgiveness framework that changes everything
• How to stop attracting narcissistic dynamics and reclaim your wholeness
• A surprisingly healing perspective on why narcissists behave the way they do

📘 About the Book: Becoming Narcissist-Proof

Lauren’s book is a transformational guide that blends neuroscience, psychology, and spiritual wisdom into practical, life-changing frameworks. Through seven real-life stories and powerful somatic tools, she helps readers move through the three pillars: Recognize. Release. Reclaim.

✨ Get your copy (and the companion workbook + meditations) at narcissistproofbook.com

Use code HONEST10 for $10 off your bundle.

Lisset’s Huna Introduction

During this episode, Lisset shares how her deep forgiveness work through the Hawaiian spiritual practice of Huna and Ho‘oponopono has been one of the most powerful medicines in her life and her work.

If you’ve been curious about forgiveness on a cellular level, one that liberates you from old emotional contracts and clears the path for your next level of freedom. Lisset has a few spots left in her upcoming Huna Intro Class. Feb 21 & 22 2026

✨ Join her at LissetKing.com/Huna

Honest Feedback was created by Brittney King and Lisset King.

Note: Honest Feedback Podcast aims to provide insights and provoke thoughtful reflection. The opinions expressed in this episode are for informational purposes only and should not replace professional advice.

Please send us your questions by leaving a voicemail at 971-895-4111, DM us on instagram @honestfeedbackpodcast or email us at thekings@honestfeedbackpodcast.com

Keep up with the podcast by following us @HonestFeedbackPodcast on YouTube