Is This a Date?! How to Stop Second-Guessing and Actually Enjoy Queer Dating

What do you do when you’re hanging out with someone… and suddenly realize you have no idea if you’re on a date?
Welcome to queer dating culture—where vibes are strong, signals are subtle, and sometimes you accidentally start dating someone without either of you realizing.

In this hilarious, heartfelt episode, Goddess Brittney King and Lisset King unpack a listener question about “How do I know if this is a date?”—especially when dating women, femmes, and gender-expansive cuties.

We explore everything from the confusion of mixed signals, to the art of curiosity, to the single greatest dating tool adults rarely use: clear communication.

If you’ve ever wondered…

“Are we flirting?”
“Are they into me?”
“Is this romantic or just queer friendship intimacy?”
…this episode is basically your new survival guide.

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