How do Australian clients differ from European ones? Why does the DACH region have such a thing for "amateurs"? And what does cultural attitude toward kink reveal about deeper societal patterns? Sienna Carlisle – trans escort, domme, and someone who actually lives between Berlin, London, Melbourne and Sydney - joins me for a conversation that decodes international sex work from the inside. Smart, layered, and unapologetically honest.

What happens when the things that terrify you are also the things that turn you on the most? In this episode, I take you from my vanilla beginnings into the world of power play, rope, and psychological domination - and why sometimes the best sex happens when you stop trying to be in control

This week, Lyra Bergmann is here to talk about something most people spend their whole lives avoiding: the moment you realize sex work didn't just change your job - it fundamentally rewired how you see every relationship you'll ever have. From dating to friendships to the uncomfortable truth about what financial freedom actually unlocks, Lyra's not holding back. And whether escorts can still have "real" connections after this work? Well, settle in because the answer might surprise you more than you'd like to admit.

Everyone's heard of the girlfriend experience. But what most people think it means? That's not even close. It's not about kissing during a booking or being sweet between the sheets. It's not a menu item you tick off alongside other services. And it's definitely not what I thought it was when I first tried to offer it years ago - back when I had absolutely no idea what I was getting myself into. This week, we're unpacking one of the most misunderstood services in the entire industry. What it actually takes to deliver. Why men pay hundreds, sometimes thousands, for it. And where the line between performance and reality becomes so blurred that even I can't always tell the difference anymore.

Because here's the thing nobody talks about: girlfriend experience isn't just a service. It's a mirror. It reflects back something most people don't want to admit about what they actually want from intimacy - paid or otherwise. And once you see it, you can't unsee it. So if you've ever wondered what's really being bought and sold when someone books GFE, or what it costs the person providing it, this episode will give you answers you weren't expecting. Welcome back to the pleasure dome, Sherlocks. Let's dive in.

Two escorts walk into a conversation about male desire. No, this isn't a joke - it's an autopsy. Elisa Carbo teams up with Eve Allegra, a red-headed Frankfurt accountant who moonlights in an industry where men's masks slip faster than their pants. Together, they dissect years of patterns, contradictions, and the things clients whisper in the dark but would never say at dinner parties.

Turns out, most bookings aren't about sex. They're about technical museum dates, strawberry picking, and the rare luxury of not having to perform strength. But here's where it gets interesting: what men say they want and what makes them come back are two entirely different animals.