HEALING RELIGIOUS TRAUMA for Christian Women | Inner Peace, Trust God, Spiritual Healing, God’s Love, True Connection, Generational Trauma Podcast Por Debra Shafer | Spiritual Healing Coach for Christian Women | Founder Healing Religious Trauma Circle | Walking Women Home to a Safe Loving God | Voice of Gentle Clarity Healing and Truth arte de portada

HEALING RELIGIOUS TRAUMA for Christian Women | Inner Peace, Trust God, Spiritual Healing, God’s Love, True Connection, Generational Trauma

HEALING RELIGIOUS TRAUMA for Christian Women | Inner Peace, Trust God, Spiritual Healing, God’s Love, True Connection, Generational Trauma

De: Debra Shafer | Spiritual Healing Coach for Christian Women | Founder Healing Religious Trauma Circle | Walking Women Home to a Safe Loving God | Voice of Gentle Clarity Healing and Truth
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Do you love God—but feel like you’re slowly drifting away from Him, and you don’t know why? Are you scared that questioning your church—or your faith—might mean losing everything you love? Do you constantly second-guess your emotions, your voice, even your own intuition—wondering if you’re the problem? Are you exhausted from trying to be good enough, faithful enough, spiritual enough… and still feeling like you fall short? Do you feel spiritually homeless—longing for a safe space where you can be honest, messy, and still welcomed with open arms?If that all sounds a little too familiar, take a deep breath. You’ve found a place to land.Healing Religious Trauma is a podcast designed to help you:1. Rebuild your relationship with a safe, loving God.2. Feel emotionally and spiritually safe enough to ask honest questions.3. Hear God’s voice for yourself—without fear, shame, or outside filters.4. Let go of guilt and reclaim your voice, your worth, and your inner peace.5. Find a gentle, supportive space where spiritual transformation and healing are real and faith still matters.Hi, I’m Debra.A lifelong woman of faith who spent decades trying to earn God’s love by doing everything “right.” I was the helper, the volunteer, the spiritual overachiever. But underneath all the striving, I felt disconnected—from God, from myself, and from the woman I longed to be.Like so many of the women I now serve, I kept trying to pray harder, serve more, and fix myself—hoping the fog would lift, the guilt would fade, and I’d finally feel close to God’s love again. But none of it worked.What changed?I finally realized that it wasn’t my faith that was failing—it was the version of it I’d been handed. The one rooted in fear, control, and silence. So I started to untangle the lies, listen for God’s true voice, and walk in the kind of healing that leads to spiritual freedom—not fear.And the outcome?I created the kind of compassionate, honest, Spirit-led healing journey I couldn’t find anywhere else. One that doesn’t ask you to throw everything away—just to lay down what was never yours to carry. And that’s exactly why this podcast was born.If you’re ready to untangle what’s been keeping you stuck—and find real, spiritual healing that doesn’t ask you to lose your faith in the process—this podcast is for you.Each episode will help you rebuild your trust in God, rest from spiritual performance, and rediscover the voice you were never meant to silence.You’ll hear real stories, soul-grounded teaching, and healing truths rooted in compassion, clarity, and true connection.And when you’re ready to go deeper:Take the Quiz – Discover how religious trauma may have shaped your story and where your healing can begin.👉 ReligiousTraumaQuiz.comRead my Book + Mini-Course – Start He Is Enough and the companion Truth Over Tradition mini-course—your gentle first step into clarity, emotional well-being, and true healing.👉 HeIsEnoughBook.comJoin the Coming Home Journey – A six-month path to unravel the trauma, instill the truth, and create a new story for your life.👉TheComingHomeJourney.comOr simply ask me a question at debra@healingreligioustrauma.org—I’d love to hear your story.No perfection required. Just bring your questions and your favorite tea, and settle in. This space was made to feel like home.ABOUTDebra Shafer is a spiritual healing coach for Christian women and the creator of the Coming Home Journey—a gentle, soul-level pathway to help women untangle religious trauma, rebuild trust in God, and find peace without walking away from their faith. As the founder of the Healing Religious Trauma Circle, Debra brings together decades of experience in personal ministry, Biblical psychology, and trauma-informed mentoring. She knows what it’s like to love God deeply while wrestling with fear, shame, and silence. Known for her voice of gentle clarity, healing, and truth, she now walks women home to the God they always hoped was real. Around here, the tea is hot, the wisdom is hard-won, and no question is off limits.Copyright 2025 All Rights Reserved. Debra Shafer | 🌱 Seed of Potential - A Benevolent Organization Ciencias Sociales Cristianismo Desarrollo Personal Espiritualidad Ministerio y Evangelismo Éxito Personal
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  • 13 | Is Your Honest Emotion Too Much for God? What Lament Teaches Christian Women About True Connection

    13 | Is Your Honest Emotion Too Much for God? What Lament Teaches Christian Women About True Connection
    Oct 8 2025
    Have you ever cried... and then felt ashamed for crying? Maybe you poured out your heart to someone you trusted - a spiritual leader, a friend, even God - and instead of being held in your pain, you were told to have more faith, pray harder, or just get over it. Or maybe you've learned to hide your struggles altogether because somewhere along the way, you started believing that your pain was proof something was fundamentally wrong with you. If you've ever felt like expressing honest emotion meant you were spiritually weak, or if you've been waiting for others to notice you're hurting while never actually telling them you need help - this episode is for you. Episode Description If you've been hiding your heart because you thought your pain made you unlovable, you're not alone - and you're not damaged goods. Today we're exploring one of the most devastating hidden barriers of religious trauma: the belief "I'm Unlovable." Through Debra's deeply personal story - from being told her grief was spiritual adultery to discovering God's inexpressible love in sacred sorrow - we'll uncover how religious environments can silence women's pain and teach them that honest expression equals weak faith. You'll discover an ancient language of worship that was stolen from you but has always been yours - the practice of lament - and learn why your pain doesn't repel God but actually moves His heart toward you. This isn't about becoming less emotional - it's about discovering that nothing you feel is too much for God, and that your wounds don't make you damaged, they make you beautifully, achingly human. In this episode, you'll discover: → Why hiding your pain and minimizing your needs keeps you disconnected from authentic love - and how to recognize when you're doing it → The ancient practice of lament - bringing your unfiltered heart directly to God without cleaning it up first → How God's ḥesed (loyal, covenant love) meets you in your deepest places, not because your pain disappeared but because you've encountered His presence in the middle of it → The difference between being unloved and being under-nurtured - and why this reframe changes everything → One simple practice to start bringing honest emotion to God each day and watch for the moment when His inexpressible love breaks through Healing Truth Your pain doesn't make you unlovable. It makes you human. And God's ḥesed - His loyal, covenant love - is specifically for humans in all their beautiful brokenness. You don't have to be healed to be loved by Him. You don't have to have it all together. The woman who brings her whole, broken, furious, grieving heart directly to God - she's not someone you have to become. She's who you've always been, waiting to be remembered beneath all the hiding. Ready to go deeper? Discover your personal healing path: Take our free Religious Trauma Assessment at ReligiousTraumaQuiz.com and uncover which of the 12 hidden barriers might be shaping your relationship with God, yourself, and others. You'll receive a personalized report plus my complete Essentials Starter Kit - including my book He Is Enough, Truth Over Tradition mini-course, live reading circles, and access to our supportive community - all completely FREE as my thank you for taking this brave step. Transform your story completely: Join the Coming Home Journey at TheComingHomeJourney.com - a six-month guided experience to unravel religious trauma, instill God's truth, and create your new story alongside women who truly understand. Learn the language of lament, discover God's divine principles, and step into the freedom you've been longing for. Get all the details at TheComingHomeJourney.com. About Debra I'm Debra Schafer, spiritual healing coach for Christian women and founder of the Healing Religious Trauma Circle. For over seven years, I've walked alongside women who love God deeply but feel exhausted by religious performance and pressure. I know this path personally - I've lived the devastating loss of being told my grief was spiritual failure - and I've seen what happens when women finally bring their unfiltered hearts to God: they discover they were always lovable. Listener Love If this episode helped you feel permission to bring your whole heart to God, would you share it with someone who needs this gentle truth? And a quick review on Apple Podcasts helps more women find their way to healing religious trauma and discover that their pain doesn't make them unlovable. This isn't surface-level faith advice. It's soul-level restoration for Christian women healing from religious trauma who long for inner peace, spiritual healing, and the ability to trust God completely. Through addressing generational trauma and nurturing true connection, we help you experience God's love in the deepest way. Strengthen your relationship with a safe, loving God.
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  • 12 | Why Christian Women Still Feel Unsafe (Even In Their Own Faith)

    12 | Why Christian Women Still Feel Unsafe (Even In Their Own Faith)
    Oct 1 2025
    Do you ever catch yourself walking on spiritual eggshells—even in spaces that should feel safe? Maybe you find yourself scanning the room before you speak, wondering if your question will be received well, or if your honesty might be labeled as having "the wrong spirit." Maybe you've learned to adapt, to become whoever the room needs you to be, because authenticity feels dangerous. If you're a Christian woman who loves God deeply but still feels like you're constantly braced for correction or rejection, this episode will help you understand why—and show you the path to the spiritual safety you're longing for. Today we're exploring the profound truth that could heal one of religious trauma's most painful barriers: your hypervigilance wasn't paranoia - it was wisdom protecting you from real spiritual danger. Episode Description If you've been living in spiritual hypervigilance, constantly adapting to survive instead of standing in your truth, this episode will revolutionize how you understand safety in your faith. Today we're healing the devastating "I'm Not Safe" barrier by discovering how to distinguish between God's safe love and the harmful dynamics that taught you to live on guard. Through a personal story of spiritual manipulation disguised as loving guidance, we'll explore how religious trauma teaches us that safety comes from human approval rather than God's unchanging love. You'll learn why your constant vigilance wasn't paranoia—it was wisdom responding to real spiritual danger. Most importantly, you'll discover how to separate God from the people who misrepresented Him, and find the courage to trust your own God-given discernment. This isn't about avoiding all spiritual guidance, but about learning to hear God's voice directly instead of through human interpretation. You'll walk away understanding that questioning isn't rebellion—it's relationship, and that God delights in your authentic heart, not your spiritual performance. Safety isn't found in avoiding all risk, but in the arms of a God who has prepared a future for you with hope. In this episode, you'll discover: → Why your spiritual hypervigilance was actually brilliant wisdom protecting you from real manipulation → The difference between healthy spiritual guidance and controlling authority that uses Christian concepts for manipulation → How to separate God's character from the people who misrepresented Him through fear-based teaching → Practical steps to practice authenticity with God first, then with safe people in your life → The revolutionary truth that questioning deepens relationship with God rather than threatening it Healing Truth You are safe in God's love, and that safety isn't dependent on anyone else's approval or interpretation of His will for your life. God delights in your authentic heart—questions, emotions, and all. You were never meant to live in spiritual fear. You were meant to rest in His perfect love that casts out all fear. 🎧 Ready to go deeper? Discover your personal healing path: Take our free Religious Trauma Assessment at ReligiousTraumaQuiz.com and uncover which of the 12 hidden barriers might be shaping your relationship with God, yourself, and others. You'll receive a personalized report plus my complete Essentials Starter Kit - including my book He Is Enough, Truth Over Tradition mini-course, live reading circles, and access to our supportive community - all completely FREE as my thank you for taking this brave step. Transform your story completely: Join the Coming Home Journey - a six-month guided experience to learn the difference between God's safe love and harmful spiritual dynamics. Discover how to trust your own God-given discernment while staying deeply connected to your faith. This isn't about losing your relationship with God - it's about finding the safety to be authentic with Him. Details here: TheComingHomeJourney.com About Debra I'm Debra Shafer, spiritual healing coach for Christian women and founder of the Healing Religious Trauma Circle. For over seven years, I've walked alongside women who've been taught that spiritual safety comes from human approval rather than God's love. I know this transformation personally - I've learned to distinguish between God's voice and human interpretation - and I've witnessed what happens when women discover they're safe to be authentic: they finally experience the freedom Christ died to give them. Listener Love If this episode helped you understand that your vigilance was wisdom rather than weakness, would you share it with someone who needs this truth? And a quick review on Apple Podcasts helps more women discover they're safe to question, feel, and heal in God's love. This isn't surface-level faith advice. It's soul-level restoration for Christian women healing from religious trauma who long for inner peace, spiritual healing, and the ability to trust God completely. Through addressing generational trauma and ...
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  • 11 | The Hidden Shame Keeping Christian Women from God's Love

    11 | The Hidden Shame Keeping Christian Women from God's Love
    Sep 24 2025
    What if your "character flaws" were actually brilliant survival strategies? Maybe you've been looking at your people-pleasing, perfectionism, or emotional sensitivity and thinking, "Something is really wrong with me." Maybe you carry quiet shame about the ways you learned to cope, believing they prove you're selfish, manipulative, or fundamentally flawed. But what if you weren't bad - you were surviving? And what if you were brilliant at it? Today we're exploring the truth that could heal one of religious trauma's deepest wounds: your survival patterns aren't evidence of your badness - they're evidence of your brilliance. Episode Description If you've been carrying shame about your survival patterns, believing they prove something is fundamentally wrong with you, this episode will revolutionize how you see your story. Today we're healing the devastating "I'm Bad" barrier by discovering the truth that changes everything: you weren't bad - you were a brilliant survivor. Through Tekyia's powerful story of transformation from shame-driven faith to love-driven relationship with God, we'll explore how God-given gifts like sensitivity, intelligence, and compassion get repurposed as survival tools when trauma occurs. You'll learn the difference between the "shame lens" that sees character flaws and the "wisdom lens" that recognizes brilliant adaptation. Most importantly, you'll discover how to reclaim your gifts from survival mode and use them for their original purpose - not just surviving, but thriving. This isn't about excusing harmful patterns, but about recognizing the wisdom in your survival so you can transform it into authentic living. You'll walk away understanding that your sensitivity is a superpower, your intelligence is a gift, and your compassion is exactly what the world needs - not despite your survival patterns, but because of the brilliance that created them. In this episode, you'll discover: → The revolutionary difference between the "shame lens" and "wisdom lens" - and how it transforms your entire self-perception → Why your people-pleasing, perfectionism, and hypervigilance were actually God-given gifts being used brilliantly for survival → How religious trauma teaches us to see our natural gifts as dangerous, forcing them into survival mode → The "survival pattern appreciation" practice that helps you recognize your brilliance instead of your brokenness → Practical steps to reclaim your gifts for thriving instead of just surviving - moving from defensive to authentic living Healing Truth You are not a collection of character flaws that need fixing. You are a brilliant survivor with God-given gifts that got repurposed for survival when life wasn't safe. Those gifts - your sensitivity, your intelligence, your compassion - they were never the problem. They're your superpowers waiting to be reclaimed. You weren't bad. You were surviving. And you were brilliant at it. 🎧 Ready to go deeper? Discover your personal healing path: Take our free Religious Trauma Assessment at ReligiousTraumaQuiz.com and uncover which of the 12 hidden barriers might be shaping your relationship with God, yourself, and others. You'll receive a personalized report plus my complete Essentials Starter Kit - including my book He Is Enough, Truth Over Tradition mini-course, live reading circles, and access to our supportive community - all completely FREE as my thank you for taking this brave step. Transform your story completely: Join the Coming Home Journey at TheComingHomeJourney.com - a six-month guided experience to reclaim your God-given gifts from survival mode and learn to use them for thriving. Discover that what you've been calling brokenness was actually brilliance. About Debra I'm Debra Shafer, spiritual healing coach for Christian women and founder of the Healing Religious Trauma Circle. For over seven years, I've walked alongside women who've been taught to see their God-given gifts as character flaws. I know this transformation personally - I've learned to see my own survival patterns as brilliant adaptations - and I've witnessed what happens when women discover they were never the problem: they finally see themselves as God sees them. Listener Love If this episode helped you see your survival patterns as brilliant rather than broken, would you share it with someone who needs this reframe? And a quick review on Apple Podcasts helps more women discover they were never as bad as they believed - they were brilliant survivors whose gifts are waiting to be reclaimed. This isn't surface-level faith advice. It's soul-level restoration for Christian women healing from religious trauma who long for inner peace, spiritual healing, and the ability to trust God completely. Through addressing generational trauma and nurturing true connection, we help you experience God's love in the deepest way. Strengthen your relationship with a safe, loving God.
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