You've had the breakthrough. You've glimpsed who you really are. But now what? How do you actually LIVE as this new woman — especially when life gets hard and the old patterns try to pull you back?

Episode Description

In this final episode of The Path Home series, Debra reveals why breakthroughs don't always stick — and what it actually takes to make transformation permanent. This is Phase Five: Growing Your Wings. The caterpillar has dissolved, but the butterfly's wings are still wet. It's time to develop the capacity to fly. If you've ever had a powerful moment of healing and then slipped back into old patterns, this episode will show you why — and how to finally break free for good.

In this episode, you'll discover:

→ Why breakthrough isn't the end — it's just the beginning

→ The difference between feeling different and actually living different

→ What "growth codes" are and why they make transformation permanent

→ How to navigate the uncomfortable liminal space between old and new

→ The promise of Philippians 1:6 — He who began a good work WILL complete it

Healing Truth

Transformation isn't a moment — it's a process. And you don't have to do it alone. The God who started this work in you is faithful to finish it. Your wings are growing. And one day soon, you're going to fly.

Scripture: Philippians 1:6 — "He who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion."

Ready to go deeper?

Discover your personal healing path: Take our free Religious Trauma Assessment at ReligiousTraumaQuiz.com and uncover which of the 12 hidden barriers might be shaping your relationship with God, yourself, and others. You'll receive a personalized report plus my complete Essentials Starter Kit—including my book He Is Enough, Truth Over Tradition mini-course, live reading circles, and access to our supportive community—all completely FREE.

Transform your story completely: Join the Coming Home Journey at TheComingHomeJourney.com—a six-month guided experience to unravel religious trauma, instill God's truth, and create your new story alongside women who truly understand. 50% Off Founder Pricing ends January 1st—this is your last month to join at half the investment. Prices double next year.

About Debra

Debra Shafer is a spiritual healing coach for Christian women and the creator of the Coming Home Journey—a gentle, soul-level pathway to help women untangle religious trauma, rebuild trust in God, and find peace without walking away from their faith. As the founder of the Healing Religious Trauma Circle, Debra brings together decades of experience in personal ministry, Biblical psychology, and trauma-informed mentoring. She knows what it's like to love God deeply while wrestling with fear, shame, and silence. Known for her voice of gentle clarity, healing, and truth, she now walks women home to the God they always hoped was real.

Listener Love

If The Path Home series has meant something to you, would you share it with a friend who needs this hope? And a quick review on Apple Podcasts helps more women discover that transformation is possible — not just as a moment, but as a way of life.

This isn't surface-level faith advice. It's soul-level restoration for Christian women healing from religious trauma who long for inner peace, spiritual healing, and true connection with God. Through addressing generational trauma and cultivating growth that lasts, we help you trust God completely and finally learn to fly.

Have you ever had a breakthrough that didn't stick? Tried affirmations, prayer, even counseling — and felt better for a while, but then ended up right back where you started? What if the problem isn't you... it's that real transformation happens at a level most approaches never reach?

Episode Description

In Phase Four of The Path Home series, Debra reveals why breakthroughs don't always last — and what actually creates permanent, irreversible transformation. This isn't about trying harder or having more faith. It's about the deeper, more accurate truth meeting the lie at the seed level and dissolving it with love. If you've been stuck in the same patterns no matter what you've tried, this episode will show you why — and what's actually possible when transformation happens at the root.

In this episode, you'll discover:

→ The difference between feeling better and actually being different — and why it matters

→ Why affirmations and "trying harder" don't create lasting change

→ How barriers actually dissolve — gently, not through force

→ The "deeper, more accurate truth" that's been waiting underneath the lies

→ What's actually true about you — according to God's original design, not religious trauma

Healing Truth

You're not broken. You've been brilliantly adaptive. The barriers you carry aren't proof that something is wrong with you — they're proof that you survived something difficult. And the deeper, more accurate truth about who you are? It's been waiting for you all along.

Scripture: Romans 12:2 — "Be transformed by the renewing of your mind."

Ready to go deeper?

Discover your personal healing path: Take our free Religious Trauma Assessment at ReligiousTraumaQuiz.com and uncover which of the 12 hidden barriers might be shaping your relationship with God, yourself, and others. You'll receive a personalized report plus my complete Essentials Starter Kit—including my book He Is Enough, Truth Over Tradition mini-course, live reading circles, and access to our supportive community—all completely FREE.

Transform your story completely: Join the Coming Home Journey at TheComingHomeJourney.com—a six-month guided experience to unravel religious trauma, instill God's truth, and create your new story alongside women who truly understand.

About Debra

Debra Shafer is a spiritual healing coach for Christian women and the creator of the Coming Home Journey—a gentle, soul-level pathway to help women untangle religious trauma, rebuild trust in God, and find peace without walking away from their faith. As the founder of the Healing Religious Trauma Circle, Debra brings together decades of experience in personal ministry, Biblical psychology, and trauma-informed mentoring. She knows what it's like to love God deeply while wrestling with fear, shame, and silence. Known for her voice of gentle clarity, healing, and truth, she now walks women home to the God they always hoped was real.

Listener Love

If this episode helped you understand why nothing has worked before — and what real transformation looks like — would you share it with someone who's been stuck in that same cycle? A quick review on Apple Podcasts helps more women discover that lasting change is possible.

This isn't surface-level faith advice. It's soul-level restoration for Christian women healing from religious trauma who long for inner peace, spiritual healing, and the ability to trust God completely. Through addressing generational trauma and cultivating the deeper truth, we help you experience God's love and transform your identity from the inside out.

Have you ever felt like something invisible was blocking you — like no matter how hard you tried, you kept hitting the same wall? What if the problem isn't your faith... it's something you've never been able to name?

Episode Description

In Phase Three of The Path Home series, Debra reveals the 12 Hidden Barriers that might be quietly running the show in your life — and why you can't heal what you can't name. These aren't character flaws. They're survival strategies that once protected you but are now blocking your growth. And religious trauma amplifies every single one. This episode will help you finally see what's been invisible — and that's where freedom begins.

In this episode, you'll discover:

→ What hidden barriers actually are and why they feel like truth instead of beliefs

→ The 12 Hidden Barriers and which ones might be operating in your life

→ How religious trauma adds layers of spiritual shame, fear, and guilt to these patterns

→ Why naming the barrier is the first step to freedom — and how seeing it "operationalized" changes everything

→ What it means when you can't unsee something — and why that's actually good news

Healing Truth

You can't heal what you can't name. But once you name it — once you see how it's been running the show — it loses its invisible power. You're not broken. You've been brilliantly adaptive. And now you're ready to let go of what no longer serves you.

Scripture: John 8:32 — "You will know the truth, and the truth will set you free."

Ready to go deeper?

Discover your personal healing path: Take our free Religious Trauma Assessment at ReligiousTraumaQuiz.com and uncover which of the 12 hidden barriers might be shaping your relationship with God, yourself, and others. You'll receive a personalized report plus my complete Essentials Starter Kit—including my book He Is Enough, Truth Over Tradition mini-course, live reading circles, and access to our supportive community—all completely FREE.

Transform your story completely: Join the Coming Home Journey at TheComingHomeJourney.com—a six-month guided experience to unravel religious trauma, instill God's truth, and create your new story alongside women who truly understand. 50% Off Founder Pricing ends January 1st—this is your last month to join at half the investment. Prices double next year.

About Debra

Debra Shafer is a spiritual healing coach for Christian women and the creator of the Coming Home Journey—a gentle, soul-level pathway to help women untangle religious trauma, rebuild trust in God, and find peace without walking away from their faith. As the founder of the Healing Religious Trauma Circle, Debra brings together decades of experience in personal ministry, Biblical psychology, and trauma-informed mentoring. She knows what it's like to love God deeply while wrestling with fear, shame, and silence. Known for her voice of gentle clarity, healing, and truth, she now walks women home to the God they always hoped was real.

Listener Love

If this episode helped you finally name what's been blocking you, would you share it with a friend who's been feeling stuck? A quick review on Apple Podcasts helps more women discover that they're not broken — they've just been bumping against something they couldn't see.

This isn't surface-level faith advice. It's soul-level restoration for Christian women healing from religious trauma who long for inner peace, spiritual healing, and true connection with a safe, loving God. Through addressing generational trauma and naming the hidden barriers, we help you trust God completely and step into the freedom He's always had for you.