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  • Episode 42: Warrior Moms Rising: Jenn Robb on Resilience, Mental Health Advocacy + Strength in Community
    Apr 10 2026

    This is your go-to Podcast, where we help parents navigate the complexities of family life. Hosted by Ali Kessler of Greyson’s Choice, we’ll cover everything from understanding domestic violence to navigating the legal system, finding the right therapists, life hacks, family law, mental health, custody battles, and how to protect children in dangerous situations.

    Host Ali Kessler interviews Jenn Robb (the “Warrior Mom Coach”) about resilience, motherhood, and rising after hardship. Jenn shares her family’s experience when her daughter began struggling at 12 with anxiety, depression, and self-harm, culminating at 15 in a near-fatal alcohol poisoning, later revealing the root trauma of a peer sexual assault. Jenn discusses prioritizing her daughter’s survival over prosecution, the lack of support for moms in crisis, and how writing her book, "Warrior Moms Rising," was both triggering and cathartic. She emphasizes self-care, positive self-talk, avoiding social-media comparison, education, and strong advocacy in medical settings, including refusing overmedication and finding better-fit providers. Jen encourages overwhelmed moms to seek community, outlines her group coaching and resources at warriormomcoach.net, and stresses that women are never alone and that purpose can be found in pain.

    About Jenn Robb:

    Known as the Warrior Mom Coach, is a mentor, speaker, and author dedicated to helping moms find strength and healing after hardship. In her new book, Warrior Moms Rising, Jenn shares her own story and the tools she uses to guide women toward resilience, self-love, and empowerment. Through her coaching and community at warriormomcoach.net, she inspires moms to rise above challenges and embrace the warrior within.

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    About Ali Kessler: Ali Kessler is a writer, marketing professional, passionate parent advocate, and founder of Greyson’s Choice, a 501(c)(3) created to raise awareness about the risk of domestic abuse on children. Greyson’s Choice was founded by Ali Kessler in memory of her sweet, vibrant, and fearless 4.5-year-old son, Greyson, who was murdered by his biological father in a murder-suicide during an unsupervised, court-approved visit in Ft. Lauderdale, FL, in 2021. This came just hours after her petition for a domestic violence injunction was denied by a Broward County judge, citing that the “petitioner has failed to allege any overt acts by the respondent which would constitute domestic violence under Florida Statute.”

    Ali’s advocacy efforts culminated in successfully passing Greyson’s Law during the 2023 legislative session. This bill now requires the court to consider threats against ex-partners or spouses when making child visitation and custody determinations in the court, expanding to include the following factors: evidence of domestic violence, whether a parent in the past or currently has reasonable cause to believe that they or a minor child is, or has been in imminent danger of becoming the victim of domestic/sexual violence by the other parent, even if no other legal action has been brought or is currently pending in court.

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  • Episode 41: Navigating Grief and Self-Love: A Journey with Jonathan Aslay
    Mar 27 2026

    This is your go-to Podcast, where we help parents navigate the complexities of family life. Hosted by Ali Kessler of Greyson’s Choice, we’ll cover everything from understanding domestic violence to navigating the legal system, finding the right therapists, life hacks, family law, mental health, custody battles, and how to protect children in dangerous situations.

    About Jonathon Aslay

    Jonathon Aslay is one of America’s leading mid-life self-love and relationship coaches, an author, speaker, and thought leader dedicated to helping men and women build healthier relationships by first cultivating a deeper relationship with themselves.

    After the devastating loss of his 19-year-old son, Connor, in 2018, Jonathon’s grief led him on a profound inner journey—one that expanded his work beyond dating and relationships into the essential practice of self-love, emotional healing, and personal empowerment. Through this experience, he became acutely aware of a common yet often overlooked issue facing many people seeking partnership: a deep lack of self-worth, self-regard, and self-love.

    Today, Jonathon is on a mission to help people heal from heartbreak, divorce, and loss by understanding how relationships serve as powerful mirrors for growth. He is the author of What the Heck Is Self-Love Anyway?, a practical and engaging guide filled with spiritual insight and personal growth practices designed to help individuals reconnect with themselves and create more conscious, fulfilling relationships.

    Jonathon’s work bridges grief, emotional health, and relationship wisdom—offering a compassionate, grounded approach to love that begins within.

    Contact Jonathan: https://www.jonathonaslay.com/

    About Ali Kessler

    Ali Kessler is a writer, marketing professional, passionate parent advocate, and founder of Greyson’s Choice, a 501(c)(3) created to raise awareness about the risk of domestic abuse on children. Greyson’s Choice was founded by Ali Kessler in memory of her sweet, vibrant, and fearless 4.5-year-old son, Greyson, who was murdered by his biological father in a murder-suicide during an unsupervised, court-approved visit in Ft. Lauderdale, FL, in 2021. This came just hours after her petition for a domestic violence injunction was denied by a Broward County judge, citing that the “petitioner has failed to allege any overt acts by the respondent which would constitute domestic violence under Florida Statute.”

    Ali’s advocacy efforts culminated in successfully passing Greyson’s Law during the 2023 legislative session. This bill now requires the court to consider threats against ex-partners or spouses when making child visitation and custody determinations in the court, expanding to include the following factors: evidence of domestic violence, whether a parent in the past or currently has reasonable cause to believe that they or a minor child is, or has been in imminent danger of becoming the victim of domestic/sexual violence by the other parent, even if no other legal action has been brought or is currently pending in court.

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    47 m
  • Episode 40: Listening as Lifeline: Erin Snow on What Survivors Need
    Mar 13 2026

    This is your go-to Podcast, where we help parents navigate the complexities of family life. Hosted by Ali Kessler of Greyson’s Choice, we’ll cover everything from understanding domestic violence to navigating the legal system, finding the right therapists, life hacks, family law, mental health, custody battles, and how to protect children in dangerous situations.

    In this episode of Grey Minds Think Alike, host Ali Kessler speaks with Erin Snow, founder of Seacoast Listening Lounge, about the importance of compassionate listening for survivors of trauma. Erin shares her personal journey as a survivor and her professional experiences in the legal system, highlighting the challenges faced by victims of domestic violence and the need for empathetic support. The conversation explores the role of safe spaces, the significance of community support, and the necessity of self-care for those working in trauma-related fields. Erin emphasizes that healing often begins with being truly heard and understood.

    About Erin Snow

    Erin Snow is the founder of Seacoast Listening Lounge, a compassionate, confidential space where women can share their stories without judgment, fixing, or pressure. With 16 years of experience as a legal advocate for survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and stalking, Erin worked in protective order cases, high-lethality family court situations, and custody battles where safety was on the line.

    She is trained in trauma-informed advocacy, empathetic listening, and legislative reform. Erin has worked to improve family court practices, strengthen protections for survivors, and raise awareness of the ways systems fail the very people they’re meant to protect.

    Today, through Seacoast Listening Lounge, she focuses on giving women what she’s learned they need most: someone who listens deeply, compassionately, and without agenda. Erin is also a mom, step-mom, wife, and dog-mom — grounding her work in lived experience and unwavering empathy.

    Contact: www.seacoastlisteninglounge.com

    About Ali Kessler

    Ali Kessler is a writer, marketing professional, passionate parent advocate, and founder of Greyson’s Choice, a 501(c)(3) created to raise awareness about the risk of domestic abuse on children. Greyson’s Choice was founded by Ali Kessler in memory of her sweet, vibrant, and fearless 4.5-year-old son, Greyson, who was murdered by his biological father in a murder-suicide during an unsupervised, court-approved visit in Ft. Lauderdale, FL, in 2021. This came just hours after her petition for a domestic violence injunction was denied by a Broward County judge, citing that the “petitioner has failed to allege any overt acts by the respondent which would constitute domestic violence under Florida Statute.”

    Ali’s advocacy efforts culminated in the successful passage of Greyson’s Law during the 2023 legislative session. This bill now requires the court to consider threats against ex-partners or spouses when making child visitation and custody determinations in the court, expanding to include the following factors: evidence of domestic violence, whether a parent in the past or currently has reasonable cause to believe that they or a minor child is, or has been in imminent danger of becoming the victim of domestic/sexual violence by the other parent, even if no other legal action has been brought or is currently pending in court.

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    34 m
  • Episode 38: Surviving Post-Separation Abuse with Courtney Gilmartin
    Feb 27 2026

    This is your go-to Podcast, where we help parents navigate the complexities of family life. Hosted by Ali Kessler of Greyson’s Choice, we’ll cover everything from understanding domestic violence to navigating the legal system, finding the right therapists, life hacks, family law, mental health, custody battles, and how to protect children in dangerous situations.

    In this compelling episode of 'Grey Minds Think Alike,' we speak with Courtney Gilmartin, a protective mother who spent nearly a decade fighting post-separation abuse and high-conflict custody battles. As the founder of Monarch Consulting Group and the New Jersey Protective Moms, Courtney shares her deeply personal journey through the family court system. She discusses the emotional and financial toll, the tactics of coercive control used by abusive ex-partners, and how she empowers other protective parents through her trauma-informed coaching. Learn about her innovative strategies and tools for navigating custody disputes, and get inspired by her fierce advocacy for victims of domestic abuse in custody cases. Courtney also offers valuable tips on documenting evidence and staying resilient through the challenging process.

    About Courtney Gilmartin

    Courtney Gilmartin is a protective mother of two whose mission was forged by nearly a decade of personal experience with post-separation abuse and protracted custody battles. Through her firm, Monarch Consulting Group, she works as a Family Court Strategist, applying her unique skill set as a project manager to the complexities of family court.

    In addition to her consulting, she is the founder of the non-profit New Jersey Protective Moms. As a certified Trauma-Informed Coach trained by Dr. Christine Cocchiola, Courtney offers a unique synthesis of lived experience and professional expertise, dedicating herself to helping other mothers feel educated, empowered, and effective.

    About Ali Kessler: Ali Kessler is a writer, marketing professional, passionate parent advocate, and founder of Greyson’s Choice, a 501(c)(3) created to raise awareness about the risk of domestic abuse on children. Greyson’s Choice was founded by Ali Kessler in memory of her sweet, vibrant, and fearless 4.5-year-old son, Greyson, who was murdered by his biological father in a murder-suicide during an unsupervised, court-approved visit in Ft. Lauderdale, FL, in 2021. This came just hours after her petition for a domestic violence injunction was denied by a Broward County judge, citing that the “petitioner has failed to allege any overt acts by the respondent which would constitute domestic violence under Florida Statute.”

    Ali’s advocacy efforts culminated in successfully passing Greyson’s Law during the 2023 legislative session. This bill now requires the court to consider threats against ex-partners or spouses when making child visitation and custody determinations in the court, expanding to include the following factors: evidence of domestic violence, whether a parent in the past or currently has reasonable cause to believe that they or a minor child is, or has been in imminent danger of becoming the victim of domestic/sexual violence by the other parent, even if no other legal action has been brought or is currently pending in court.

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    42 m
  • Episode 38: Inside Look into FRAMED with Dr. Cocchiola & Amy Polacko
    Feb 13 2026
    This is your go-to Podcast, where we help parents navigate the complexities of family life. Hosted by Ali Kessler of Greyson’s Choice, we’ll cover everything from understanding domestic violence to navigating the legal system, finding the right therapists, life hacks, family law, mental health, custody battles, and how to protect children in dangerous situations. The Hidden Epidemic of Coercive Control in Family Courts:Get an inside look into the new must-read book, “FRAMED.” Host Ali Kessler welcomes Dr. Christine Cocchiola, an expert on coercive control, and Amy Polacko, founder and CEO of Freedom Warrior Divorce Coaching, to discuss their new book 'Framed'. The guests share their experiences and insights on the dangers of coercive control in abusive relationships and the family court system. They highlight the need for better legislation and judicial training to protect children and supportive parents from abusive dynamics. The conversation also touches on various forms of abuse, including financial and emotional abuse, and emphasizes the importance of awareness and systemic change.Get her new book, “FRAMED” at: www.narcfreepress.comBarnes & Noble: https://lnkd.in/dmTjiHhY?Amazon: https://lnkd.in/dydtjtiAAbout Dr. Christine Cocchiola:Dr. Christine Marie Cocchiola, DSW, LCSW, is a Coercive Control Educator, Researcher, and survivor. She has been a tenured college professor teaching social work for the last twenty years and has been a social justice advocate since the age of 19, volunteering for a local domestic violence/sexual assault agency.She supports protective parents in strategizing how best to navigate the family court system, including divorce proceedings and custody arrangements. Our family court system is often set up to harm further and betray adult victims-survivors and their children, unacknowledged child abuse victims.Most importantly, Dr. Cocchiola is a protective parent. Through her own clinical expertise, research, and personal experiences, she understands the impact that coercive control has on children. She coaches victims and survivors as they navigate parenting their harmed children. She has created programming to educate Allies, including protective parents, clinicians, coaches, and court professionals, on the experiences of children victims of the coercive controller.Dr. Cocchiola is a Founding Member of the International Coercive Control Conference and a National Coalition Against Domestic Violence Board Member. She has actively supported codifying coercive control, writing numerous policy briefs supporting these efforts.Contact: https://www.coercivecontrolconsulting.com/Instagram: @dr.cocchiola_coercivecontrolAbout Amy Polacko:Amy Polacko is a Freedom Warrior committed to helping women live on their own terms during/after a toxic relationship or divorce. As a divorced single mom, she is passionate about coaching women one-on-one and founded the empowerment group Strong Savvy Women to support, inspire, and guide single women. Amy is an award-winning journalist who sheds light on women's issues, including divorce, domestic abuse, coercive control, and singlehood. She also works as a public relations consultant for small to medium-sized companies, helping to create PR strategies, maximize branding, leverage media relations, and improve social media.Her recent journalistic work has appeared in The Washington Post, HuffPost, Ms. Magazine, Newsweek, NBC News THINK, and Observer. After graduating from Columbia University's Graduate School of Journalism, Amy was a newspaper reporter for Newsday and was part of the Pulitzer Prize-winning team covering the TWA Flight 800 crash. She then transitioned to television journalism as a writer and producer in New York City. Amy was an award-winning on-air reporter in Fargo, ND, where she traveled to Kosovo for a series on the North Dakota National Guard, and in Philadelphia, where she covered the national D.C. Sniper story. She also headed up an investigative reporting unit in Albany, NY, where she uncovered consumer scams, crime, and government corruption as part of her I-Team Investigations -- one of which exposed a loophole in the state's sex offender registry.LinkedInAbout Ali KesslerAli Kessler is a writer, marketing professional, passionate parent advocate, and founder of Greyson’s Choice, a 501(c)(3) created to raise awareness about the risk of domestic abuse on children. Greyson’s Choice was founded by Ali Kessler in memory of her sweet, vibrant, and fearless 4.5-year-old son, Greyson, who was murdered by his biological father in a murder-suicide during an unsupervised, court-approved visit in Ft. Lauderdale, FL, in 2021. This came just hours after her petition for a domestic violence injunction was denied by a Broward County judge, citing that the “petitioner has failed to allege any overt acts by the respondent which would constitute domestic violence under Florida Statute.”Ali’s advocacy efforts culminated in ...
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  • Episode 37: Navigating Complex Systems for Neurodivergent Kids with Michelle Choairy
    Jan 30 2026

    This is your go-to Podcast, where we help parents navigate the complexities of family life. Hosted by Ali Kessler of Greyson’s Choice, we’ll cover everything from understanding domestic violence to navigating the legal system, finding the right therapists, life hacks, family law, mental health, custody battles, and how to protect children in dangerous situations.

    In this episode of Grey Minds Think Alike, we delve into the inspiring journey of Michelle Choairy, an advocate, speaker, and founder of the Thrive framework. Michelle shares her personal story as a mother navigating the challenges of raising a neurodivergent and medically complex child. She discusses the importance of building a supportive medical team, understanding complex systems like schools and insurance, and maintaining self-care. Learn about the Thrive framework and how it has empowered over 100 families, transforming chaos into peace and possibility. Michelle also offers practical advice for parents, emphasizing the importance of trusting your intuition and celebrating small wins. Whether you’re a parent facing similar challenges or simply seeking to understand, this discussion brings invaluable insights and inspiration.

    About Michelle Choairy

    Michelle Choairy is an advocate, speaker, and founder of the THRIVE Framework, dedicated to empowering parents of neurodivergent and medically complex children. Inspired by her own journey raising a child with unique needs, she helps families navigate IEPs, therapies, and medical systems with clarity and confidence. Through coaching, workshops, and advocacy, Michelle has supported over 100 families, transforming overwhelm into peace, purpose, and empowered parentingmichellechoairy.com

    About Ali Kessler

    Ali Kessler is a writer, marketing professional, passionate parent advocate, and founder of Greyson’s Choice, a 501(c)(3) created to raise awareness about the risk of domestic abuse on children. Greyson’s Choice was founded by Ali Kessler in memory of her sweet, vibrant, and fearless 4.5-year-old son, Greyson, who was murdered by his biological father in a murder-suicide during an unsupervised, court-approved visit in Ft. Lauderdale, FL, in 2021. This came just hours after her petition for a domestic violence injunction was denied by a Broward County judge, citing that the “petitioner has failed to allege any overt acts by the respondent which would constitute domestic violence under Florida Statute.”

    Ali’s advocacy efforts culminated in the successful passage of Greyson’s Law during the 2023 legislative session. This bill now requires the court to consider threats against ex-partners or spouses when making child visitation and custody determinations in the court, expanding to include the following factors: evidence of domestic violence, whether a parent in the past or currently has reasonable cause to believe that they or a minor child is, or has been in imminent danger of becoming the victim of domestic/sexual violence by the other parent, even if no other legal action has been brought or is currently pending in court.

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    34 m
  • Episode 36: Exploring Men's Mental Health to Build Healthy Families with Jason Lange
    Jan 16 2026

    This is your go-to Podcast, where we help parents navigate the complexities of family life. Hosted by Ali Kessler of Greyson’s Choice, we’ll cover everything from understanding domestic violence to navigating the legal system, finding the right therapists, life hacks, family law, mental health, custody battles, and how to protect children in dangerous situations.

    In this episode, we delve into the often-overlooked topic of men's mental and emotional health with expert Jason Lange. As a men's embodiment coach and certified 'No More Mr. Nice Guy' coach, Jason shares his insights on the critical importance of emotional awareness and connection for men. We discuss the loneliness epidemic, the costs of emotional suppression, and the transformative power of men's groups. Learn how men can rebuild strength through vulnerability, create safer relationships, and foster healthier families. This conversation is a must-listen for anyone interested in the profound impact of men's well-being on family dynamics and future generations.

    About Jason Lange

    Jason Lange is a men’s embodiment coach, group facilitator, certified No More Mr. Nice Guy coach, and evolutionary guide who helps men reconnect to their emotional core and lead with authenticity and integrity.

    Jason applies an integral, trauma-informed approach that blends mindfulness, psychology, shadow work, and relational awareness. He’s trained with experts like John Wineland, Dr. Robert Glover, Jun Po Roshi, Tripp Lanier, and Ken Wilber, among others, and is a Stages International Certified Debriefer. Jason lives this work daily alongside his wife, Violet, a women’s love and femininity coach. Together, they lead Evolutionary Couples, guiding partners toward conscious connection and communication. They are also proud parents of two children. Learn more at evolutionary.men

    About Ali Kessler: Ali Kessler is a writer, marketing professional, passionate parent advocate, and founder of Greyson’s Choice, a 501(c)(3) created to raise awareness about the risk of domestic abuse on children. Greyson’s Choice was founded by Ali Kessler in memory of her sweet, vibrant, and fearless 4.5-year-old son, Greyson, who was murdered by his biological father in a murder-suicide during an unsupervised, court-approved visit in Ft. Lauderdale, FL, in 2021. This came just hours after her petition for a domestic violence injunction was denied by a Broward County judge, citing that the “petitioner has failed to allege any overt acts by the respondent which would constitute domestic violence under Florida Statute.”

    Ali’s advocacy efforts culminated in successfully passing Greyson’s Law during the 2023 legislative session. This bill now requires the court to consider threats against ex-partners or spouses when making child visitation and custody determinations in the court, expanding to include the following factors: evidence of domestic violence, whether a parent in the past or currently has reasonable cause to believe that they or a minor child is, or has been in imminent danger of becoming the victim of domestic/sexual violence by the other parent, even if no other legal action has been brought or is currently pending in court.

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    48 m
  • Episode 35: Empowering Survivors: Aimee Says & The Digital Binder System with Anne Wintemute
    Jan 2 2026

    This is your go-to Podcast, where we help parents navigate the complexities of family life. Hosted by Ali Kessler of Greyson’s Choice, we’ll cover everything from understanding domestic violence to navigating the legal system, finding the right therapists, life hacks, family law, mental health, custody battles, and how to protect children in dangerous situations.

    In this episode of Grey Minds Think Alike, host Ali Kessler is joined by Anne Wintemute, the creator of Aimee Says, an innovative AI platform designed to support survivors of domestic violence. Anne introduces Aimee's new digital binder system that helps organize and present survivors' stories in a clear, powerful, and secure way. They discuss the impact of technology on survivor advocacy, the importance of documentation, and how Aimee's tools empower users at various stages of recovery. Tune in to learn how Aimee’s solutions bridge the gap between lived experiences and the systems meant to protect survivors.

    About Anne Wintemute

    Anne Wintemute is Co-Founder and CEO of AimeeSays, a companion app that uses the power of AI to support survivors of domestic violence in their fight for safety and justice. Anne is a dedicated and visionary leader and is also the founder of A Garden Grows, a consultancy offering vital support services to women experiencing post-separation abuse. Anne is passionate about transforming the discourse around intimate partner violence and advocating for a narrative that holds perpetrators accountable. While working as the Head of School at an elementary school, she began supporting women navigating especially difficult divorces. She is passionate about helping women re-envision and reclaim control of their lives and protecting children from the adverse impacts of parental conflict. When she’s not with her clients or three children, you can find her tending her urban farm. In both plants and humans, it is the skillful attendance to the needs of a living thing that allows it to flourish!

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    About Ali Kessler

    Ali Kessler is a writer, marketing professional, passionate parent advocate, and founder of Greyson’s Choice, a 501(c)(3) created to raise awareness about the risk of domestic abuse on children. Greyson’s Choice was founded by Ali Kessler in memory of her sweet, vibrant, and fearless 4.5-year-old son, Greyson, who was murdered by his biological father in a murder-suicide during an unsupervised, court-approved visit in Ft. Lauderdale, FL, in 2021. This came just hours after her petition for a domestic violence injunction was denied by a Broward County judge, citing that the “petitioner has failed to allege any overt acts by the respondent which would constitute domestic violence under Florida Statute.”

    Ali’s advocacy efforts culminated in successfully passing Greyson’s Law during the 2023 legislative session. This bill now requires the court to consider threats against ex-partners or spouses when making child visitation and custody determinations in the court, expanding to include the following factors: evidence of domestic violence, whether a parent in the past or currently has reasonable cause to believe that they or a minor child is, or has been in imminent danger of becoming the victim of domestic/sexual violence by the other parent, even if no other legal action has been brought or is currently pending in court.

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