In this episode, Vee shares her transformational ISTA experience— what is ISTA like (International School of Temple Arts)? What can you expect going to an ISTA retreat? The ladies dive into how Vee FINALLY found the tools to get out of her head and into her body, how to communicate boundaries lovingly, and awakening eros AKA life force. Get ready to hear about emotional release, using tantric exercises to let go of an ex, and the conversation to have before hooking up with a new person.

What is ISTA? Deep dive into self. What drew Vee to go to ISTA?

Breath. Sound. Movement: tool for moving through emotions.

Intentions going into ISTA.

Being your own anchor and not seeking outside validation.

Aha Moments: tuning into the 4 energy centers to make decisions.

Engaging with the world from a place of fullness.

Communicating your NO and learning how to speak your boundaries.

The Body Keeps the Score: “if it’s hysterical, it’s historical.”

Using rituals and symbolism to let go of an ex.

Dancing without judgement as a tool for getting into your body and awakening your sensuality.

Approaching situations and ENM with curiosity. Working through triggers and wounds by “surrendering” to situations that are out of your control.

Celibacy and back-of-the-bus hookups.

Boundaries are awesome.

RDBSM *TA: Relationship Desires Boundaries STI Health Meaning *Trauma *Aftercare.

Top Tips for going to ISTA.

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In this meandering conversation, Elle and Vee blend kink, parenting, and intimacy into one candid, sex-positive chat. They dive into everything from pregnancy porn and the risks of recording intimate videos to the awkwardness of moms finding sexy photos. They explore sex-positive parenting, New Relationship Energy (NRE), and the intensity of Dominant/submissive dynamics—discussing what makes a good Dom, what subs and tops truly get out of play, and why negotiation is key.

Seasons of life: Have Vee and Elle switched places sexually?! (00:35)

Pregnancy gang bang video. (3:19)

Dangers of recording videos. Repercussions of having home porn. (5:24)

Sexy photos discovered by mom. (10:06)

Sex-positive parenting: Speaking about sex with your mother as an adult, and having the sex talk with your kids. (14:47)

NRE: New Relationship Energy. How Dominant/Submissive dynamics can create an intense connection and attachment quickly. (23:39)

“Sub space feels like love and care.” (30:04)

Characteristics of a good dom. Unbound by Kasia Urbaniak. (31:56)

What do doms get out of topping? (34:05)

What do subs get out of bottoming? (37:16)

Negotiations before a D/S scene. (40:40)

Ice bath vs Impact Play. (44:16)

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Disclaimer: This podcast is intended for informational and educational purposes only. The content shared here should not be taken as medical or mental health advice. Discussions may include topics related to sexual health and practices, but they are not a substitute for guidance from a qualified healthcare provider. Please consult with a licensed professional regarding any personal questions or concerns about your health, relationships, or sexual well-being, especially when it involves excrement.

You asked, we provided! After Priestess Francesca's first episode with us on taboo kinks, we got so many questions about the scat scene, we had to have her back!

Priestess Francesca is back to talk all things toilet play — from golden showers to scat, blood play, and beyond. We cover the turn-ons, the taboos, the safety must-knows, and how to start the conversation with your partner.

What is Toilet Play? Water Sports vs Hard Sports. Golden, Ruby, Brown and Roman Showers. (5:40)

HOW to do Toilet Play: populating the menu of options/intentions behind toilet play. What are some ideas for scenes depending on the feeling you want to achieve? (praise, humiliation, degradation, age play, gender bending, etc.) (7:30)

Aftercare in a humiliation or degradation scene. How do you figure out what the right aftercare is for the person and the situation? (12:28)

Shower pee play scenes and waterboarding. (18:20)

Sacred context of ingesting urine: uses of urine throughout history and in sacred ritual contexts in Tantra, Buddhism, Hinduism, etc. (20:37)

Ruby showers and blood play, and urine's medicinal benefits? (25:57)

WHY Toilet Play? Liberating yourself through opening yourself to taboo kinks. (32:58)

Black Hole Wisdom: you’ll never be the same again after you’ve done certain things even once. You are forever transformed. (36:49)

Safety precautions when doing piss play. (44:28)

Safety precautions for scat and blood play. (49:01)

How to play with scat and pee even when you're not excreting in the scene. (54:24)

How to start the conversation with your partner if you’re interested in toilet play. (59:09)

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