We may be adults, but a lot of us are still living in emotional childhood—blaming others for how we feel and how we act. When you give other people control over your emotions, you give away your power.

In this episode, we're breaking down what it means to take responsibility for your emotions and why it is fundamental if you want true freedom, stronger relationships, and genuine self-confidence. We’ll share personal stories of when we were stuck in emotional immaturity and how we learned to take responsibility for our emotions

We’re covering:

• The difference between emotional immaturity and emotional maturity
• Why blaming others keeps you miserable and powerless
• What it really means to own your emotions without beating yourself up
• How this skill improves your relationships, confidence, and inner peace
• How we learned the skill of emotional responsibility
• Where we still struggle and how we handle it

This isn’t about being perfect. It's about waking up, stepping up, and taking your power back.

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• Michael DiIorio
• Matt Landsiedel
• Reno Johnston

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What happens when we avoid feeling our emotions? In this episode, we explore the importance of emotional awareness: tuning in instead of checking out. We share what happens when we suppress our feelings, and how to navigate the tough ones with compassion and care.

We also explore:

• The link between emotional avoidance and things like addiction, depression, and burnout
• What blocks us from feeling our emotions
• Practical ways to process emotions that feel overwhelming or uncomfortable
• The power of self-compassion in emotional healing
• Why learning to feel your emotions leads to more empathy, connection, and confidence

Whether you’re someone who bottles it all up or someone who feels everything all at once, this conversation will give you insight and tools to better understand yourself and others.

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• Michael DiIorio
• Matt Landsiedel
• Reno Johnston

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It’s Pride Month, and with everything going on in the world right now, it feels especially important to pause and reflect.

In this special panel discussion episode, Reno Johnston is joined by three incredible guests—Mark Fleming, Keone Wales, and Jordan Layne—for a candid panel discussion on the meaning of Pride: where it began, how it’s evolved, and what it means to each of us today. Together, they explore questions like:

• What does Pride mean to you?
• What was your first Pride experience?
• How has Pride changed since then?
• What would you like Pride to become?

This conversation isn’t a history lesson or a debate. It's an open, honest sharing of lived experience. Whether you’re a seasoned activist or celebrating your first Pride, we invite you to reflect alongside us and consider what Pride means to you, not just this month, but all year round.

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In 2025, LGBTQ rights are facing renewed challenges- from the rise of far-right populism to legislative rollbacks and the rise of hate sweeping across the globe. But how serious is the threat? And if the fight is back on… are we ready?

This week, Michael is joined by author and longtime activist, Tim McCaskell, who’s been on the front lines of LGBTQ+ resistance for over five decades. From the bathhouse raids to the fight for AIDS treatment and beyond, Tim brings deep historical context and lived experience to the conversation.

Together, they explore what activism looks like in 2025, whether we’ve grown too comfortable, how activism has changed over the decades, and most importantly, what we need to do to show up and fight for our future.

Today's Guest: Tim McCaskell

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In today’s episode, we’re diving into a question many in our community have been quietly (or loudly) asking: Has Pride lost its meaning?

In this wide-ranging conversation, we reflect on how Pride has evolved from its radical roots in activism to its present-day celebratory scene shaped by media, politics, and corporate sponsorships. We talk about what’s been gained, what’s been lost, and what still needs to be reclaimed.

Some topics we explore:

• The impact of corporatization and rainbow capitalism
• How we’d reimagine Pride moving forward
• The meaning Pride has for us personally
• The importance of making Pride more inclusive for those still on the margins
• The role media plays in shaping what Pride looks and feels like
• How far our rights have come… and how fragile they still are

Whether you love Pride, feel disconnected from it, or land somewhere in between, this episode is an invitation to reflect, reimagine, and reconnect with what Pride means to you in 2025.

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• Michael DiIorio
• Matt Landsiedel
• Reno Johnston

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For many gay men, friendship is complicated, performative, and sometimes downright painful. We crave genuine connection but end up navigating cliques, comparison, and quiet loneliness.

In this episode, Michael and Pepper are doing an exposé on gay friendships to unpack what’s really going on beneath the surface and why so many gay friendships fall short of the depth and safety we actually want.

We’re breaking it down in three parts:

• The Pretty Lies: Performative friendship, superficiality, and toxic group dynamics
• The Ugly Truth: How shame, fear, and survival strategies get in the way of true friendship
• True Friendship: What fun, nourishing gay friendship looks like and how we can build it

This episode is your invitation to shift from followers to friendship, and from competition to collaboration—and start building real connection.

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• Making Friends (Introvert Edition)
• How to Make Friends with Gay Men

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