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From Betrayal To Breakthrough

From Betrayal To Breakthrough

De: Dr. Debi Silber
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The betrayal of a family member, partner, friend, etc. can create physical, mental and emotional challenges. If left unhealed, it impacts us personally and professionally. The From Betrayal to Breakthrough podcast shares insights from the best therapists, coaches, healers, thought leaders and everyday people, combined with the findings of a recent Ph.D. study on betrayal to help you move forward and heal...once and for all.Debi Silber ©2025 Desarrollo Personal Higiene y Vida Saludable Psicología Psicología y Salud Mental Éxito Personal
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  • 442: Men, Moral Injury, and Betrayal

    442: Men, Moral Injury, and Betrayal
    Oct 6 2025
    In this episode, Dr. Debi sits down with Tim Wienecke, Air Force veteran, licensed clinician, and host of American Masculinity. Tim brings a rare and necessary perspective on the often-overlooked intersection of men, betrayal, and moral injury—a form of trauma that arises when individuals are forced to act against their own values, often within systems they once trusted. Together, we explore: What moral injury is and how it differs from (yet intertwines with) betrayal trauma. How men process betrayal differently from women, often turning to control or isolation instead of vulnerability. The heavy repercussions of military service, including drone operations, systemic failures, and the lifelong burden of collateral consequences. The side-by-side bonding style of men and why creating safe, non-confrontational spaces is critical for healing. The difference between boundaries and control—and why confusing the two can lead to unhealthy, even abusive, dynamics. How shame operates as a silencer for men and why true healing requires trusted groups who can reflect compassion and accountability. Practical tools for supporting men through betrayal, including reflective listening, meeting them in their own language (emotional, kinetic, or thought-based), and recognizing control behaviors early. Tim also shares deeply personal insights from his own service, how he came to understand moral injury in his work with veterans and first responders, and why America’s conversation around masculinity needs far more nuance than the oversimplified narratives we often hear. Whether you’re a clinician, a partner, or someone healing from betrayal yourself, this conversation opens up vital new ways of understanding how men carry trauma, how it shows up, and what can truly help them heal. Learn More About Tim Wienecke Visit americanmasculinity.com for his counseling services, podcast, and tools designed for men navigating betrayal, moral injury, and masculinity in today’s world. More Resources The PBT Institute: Break free from the pain of betrayal and find safety, love, and trust again. For the betrayed – Reclaim: Heal from your betrayal and take your life back. For the betrayer – Rebuild: Heal yourself and help heal the heart you broke. Take the Post Betrayal Syndrome Quiz – Post-Betrayal Syndrome Quiz
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    29 m
  • 441: Transforming Betrayal into Breakthrough

    441: Transforming Betrayal into Breakthrough
    Sep 29 2025
    From gang life and juvenile detention to martial arts mastery and life coaching - Sensei Dave Armstrong's journey is a testament to human resilience. After facing prostate cancer at 50 and experiencing profound betrayal when his wife of 11 years left during his darkest hour, Dave shares the powerful tools that helped him rebuild and find hope again. Living retired in Greece with an ocean view, he now dedicates his life to helping others transform their trauma into strength. Sensei Dave Armstrong is a resilience coach, martial arts instructor, author, and motivational speaker. Having overcome gang involvement, foster care, juvenile detention, and illiteracy, Dave now lives in Greece and helps others navigate life's most challenging moments. He's the author of "Why Me, My Fight for Life" and holds a degree in psychology. Key Takeaways The Power of Perspective "Why not you?" - We're not exempt from life's challenges, and that's okay Trauma can either define you negatively or fuel your growth - you choose Building internal strength is like developing a muscle - it requires consistent practice Boundaries as Non-Negotiables Clear boundaries prevent neediness from driving poor decisions Some boundaries have no margin for compromise Weak boundaries create unnecessary chaos in your life The Healing Process Don't rush to fill voids with new relationships during healing Allow yourself to feel difficult emotions without forcing solutions Have multiple "tools" ready for different emotional scenarios Building Resilience Through Mentorship Quality mentors can change the trajectory of your entire life Hope is the foundation for all positive change Self-confidence develops through successfully navigating challenges Notable Quotes "I was never hopeless. I was always hopeful. And that's what I try to instill - because even if you don't have the skill sets, there's hope to acquire and change." "We have agency over our response to trauma. Why not choose the positive impact rather than the negative?" "I see the God in everyone. Unfortunately, life will start to hit us and we'll harden our shell. But you can't get out of what you've built to protect yourself." Timestamps [00:00] Introduction to Sensei Dave Armstrong [05:30] Cancer diagnosis and betrayal story [12:15] Childhood trauma and gang involvement [18:45] The mentors who saved his life [25:20] Developing resilience as a skill [32:10] Setting and maintaining boundaries [38:45] The healing journey after betrayal [44:30] Current life philosophy and message Resources Book: "Why Me, My Fight for Life" by Dave Armstrong Website: www.senseidave.com One-on-one coaching: upna.net Instagram: @MrMotivation ThePBTInstitute.com The PBT Institute Certification Program
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    32 m
  • 440: Divorce, Betrayal & Financial Infidelity: How to Protect Your Money and Future After Trust is Broken

    440: Divorce, Betrayal & Financial Infidelity: How to Protect Your Money and Future After Trust is Broken
    Sep 22 2025
    When betrayal and divorce collide, the emotional toll is staggering—but the financial consequences can be just as devastating. In this candid and deeply informative episode, Dr. Debi sits down with financial strategist and divorce expert Gabriella Martinelli to unpack one of the most overlooked yet critical aspects of betrayal recovery: understanding and managing your money when trust has been shattered. With over 20 years of experience in the legal and financial world, Gabriella has guided countless clients through high-stakes divorces—many complicated by hidden spending, concealed accounts, and the gut-punch of financial infidelity. She explains why divorce is not just a legal process, but also a financial untangling that demands clarity, documentation, and strategic thinking—especially when betrayal is part of the story. You’ll learn: The double impact of betrayal and divorce — how emotional pain clouds financial decisions, and why clarity is your most valuable asset. What financial infidelity really looks like — from hidden credit cards and drained savings to funds spent on an affair partner. Why anger-driven decisions can sabotage your future — and how to shift your focus from revenge to building a secure next chapter. The role of mistrust in decision-making — and why even hard data can feel impossible to believe after betrayal. Steps to take immediately — including how to gather financial records, understand your credit report, and identify accounts you didn’t know existed. The importance of a multidisciplinary “divorce team” — legal, financial, and emotional support working together to protect your best interests. Gabriella shares powerful real-life stories—from clients paralyzed by suspicion, to those who risked their future on proving a point, to those who found the strength to pivot toward empowerment instead. She also dismantles the Hollywood myth of “getting your day in court” and the cathartic speech that makes the betrayer pay—revealing the practical reality of how courts actually operate. If you’ve been blindsided by betrayal, are navigating divorce, or suspect financial infidelity, this conversation offers both hard truths and hope. Gabriella and Dr. Debi walk you through the mindset shifts, tactical steps, and strategic support you need to move forward—not just financially stable, but emotionally stronger and in control of your next chapter. Resources: Gabriella’s site: https://www.everafterwealth.com Gabriella’s email: gabriella@everafterwealth.com The 5 Stages from Betrayal to Breakthrough: https://thepbtinstitute.com/reclaim The Rebuild Program (For those who betrayed and want to heal): https://thepbtinstitute.com/rebuild/  The PBT Institute Community (Join the healing conversation): https://thepbtinstitute.com  
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    35 m
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