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From Betrayal To Breakthrough

From Betrayal To Breakthrough

De: Dr. Debi Silber
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The betrayal of a family member, partner, friend, etc. can create physical, mental and emotional challenges. If left unhealed, it impacts us personally and professionally. The From Betrayal to Breakthrough podcast shares insights from the best therapists, coaches, healers, thought leaders and everyday people, combined with the findings of a recent Ph.D. study on betrayal to help you move forward and heal...once and for all.Debi Silber ©2025 Desarrollo Personal Higiene y Vida Saludable Psicología Psicología y Salud Mental Éxito Personal
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  • 452: Letting Go and Moving Into Your Next Best Chapter

    452: Letting Go and Moving Into Your Next Best Chapter
    Dec 15 2025
    Guest Dr. Rosenna Bakari - Psychologist, Entrepreneur, and Transformational Guide Episode Overview In this powerful conversation, Dr. Rosina BaKari shares her wisdom on letting go of what no longer serves us and stepping into our next best chapters. As a psychologist and entrepreneur, Dr. BaKari brings both professional expertise and personal experience to guide listeners through the challenging but essential process of transformation after betrayal and life's hardest moments. Key Topics Discussed The Journey to Entrepreneurship How becoming an entrepreneur forced Dr. BaKari to stop hiding The challenge of working alone and the fear that kept her isolated Recognizing when "personality traits" are actually fear-based responses Understanding and Navigating Fear Why action is the only way through fear How fear gnaws at us when we avoid what needs to be done Taking baby steps instead of giant leaps The Art of Letting Go Why "just let it go" doesn't work The 7X Framework: Seven areas that prevent us from moving forward Betrayal and silence Emotional dependency Stagnant relationships Complacency Indoctrination Loss of passion and purpose Ego and identity Forgiveness vs. Acceptance Why you shouldn't rush to forgive Letting forgiveness arise naturally from healing Striving for acceptance before forgiveness Meeting yourself where you are instead of where you think you should be Radical Self-Centeredness What it really means to be radically self-centered Why serving from an empty cup doesn't work Centering yourself in your own healing journey The importance of self-preservation over people-pleasing Seeds of Disempowerment How childhood conditioning shapes our adult responses The concept of "disempowerment by 1,000 cuts" Recognizing subtle experiences of emotional disempowerment Why we acquiesce in adulthood based on childhood patterns The Morning Practice Starting your day with five minutes of intentional self-reflection Deciding who you want to be before your day begins Creating self-awareness throughout the day Noticing when you drift from your intentions Rebuilding After the Crash Why betrayal can be a catalyst for transformation The opportunity to create something radically different Not wasting trauma by just trying to get back to "normal" Building a life that's bigger and more beautiful than before Key Quotes & Insights "If it were that easy, we'd all do it right? It's the processes that matter." "Don't rush forgiveness. Let forgiveness arise from the healing." "Be where you are. So often we don't allow ourselves to just be in the present moment." "You can't pour from an empty cup. The more full you are, the better for everybody." "Why would you rebuild what you had? Give it everything the old house didn't have." "There's a gap between what we want and what we really want. Spend time digging into what really brings you joy." Actionable Takeaways Practice the Morning Five Minutes: Before getting out of bed, spend five minutes deciding who you want to be that day Identify Your X Factor: Determine which of the seven areas is blocking your progress Take Baby Steps: Don't try to transform overnight; take the next closest step in the right direction
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  • 451: Helping Clients Through Betrayal During the Holidays

    451: Helping Clients Through Betrayal During the Holidays
    Dec 8 2025
    The holiday season can be especially challenging for those who've experienced betrayal. This episode explores how coaches and practitioners can help clients navigate the pain that surfaces during this time and introduces the strategic framework of the five stages from betrayal to breakthrough. Key Topics Covered The Holiday Challenge The holidays bring up complex emotions for those who've been betrayed: Memories of past celebrations become painful Questions arise about what the betrayer was thinking during previous happy moments The season amplifies unresolved trauma How Unhealed Betrayal Shows Up Betrayal affects clients across all coaching specialties: Health Coaches: Clients may struggle with emotional eating, binging, or sabotaging healthy protocols due to underlying betrayal trauma. Digestive Health Practitioners: 45% of betrayed individuals develop gut issues (Crohn's, IBS, diverticulitis, constipation, diarrhea). Even excellent protocols may fail without addressing the root betrayal. Business Coaches: Clients may sabotage success, struggle with confidence, avoid promoting themselves, or have difficulty delegating due to shattered trust. Life Coaches: Clients appear stuck, unable to find clarity or purpose because they're trapped in betrayal trauma. The Five Stages Framework Understanding where clients are stuck is crucial: Stage 2: Nervous system dysregulation prevents clients from hearing suggestions Stage 3: The most common stuck point where clients settle for "solid ground" rather than pursuing growth Stages 4 & 5: Where transformation happens—new health levels, passion projects, businesses, and relationships become possible Signs Your Protocols Aren't Working Client demonstrates patterns of self-sabotage Excellent strategies fail to produce results Client seems unable to move forward despite wanting to Symptoms persist despite proper treatment The Transformation Process When betrayal is addressed: Health protocols begin working effectively Confidence returns for business pursuits Trust rebuilds systematically Physical symptoms of Post Betrayal Syndrome disappear Clients look years younger as chronic stress reduces Common Pitfalls to Avoid Therapy Without Betrayal Expertise: Well-meaning therapists may keep clients feeling heard but stuck in Stage 3 Couples Counseling Issues: Often minimizes betrayal, lacks accountability, and frustrates the betrayed partner Support Groups: Can inadvertently encourage people to sabotage healing to maintain their community Numbing Behaviors: Medication, substances, work, or scrolling prevent actual healing Why People Stay Stuck Fear of outgrowing their support system Fear of outgrowing their betrayer Settling seems safer than risking more pain Not knowing there's a roadmap forward The Power of PBT Coaching Certified coaches use the five-stage roadmap while bringing their unique strengths: Some work with couples, others with individuals Specializations include military families, faith-based approaches, empaths, men, women All share the strategic framework while applying personal gifts Results of Moving Through the Stages New levels of physical health and vitality Transformed or new relationships Passion projects and new businesses Access to opportunities not visible while stuck Deep sense of fulfillment and purpose Upcoming Opportunity Free Masterclass: Becoming a Certified PBT Coach or Practitioner Date: December 11 at 11am Pacific For: Coaches, practitioners, HR professionals, therapists, doctors, counselors Special Offer: Holiday bonus gifts available (details revealed in masterclass) Register: ThePBTinstitute.com/certification-masterclass Note: Replay available to all registrants Key Takeaway Whether you're struggling with betrayal during the holidays or you're a professional who wants to help others heal, there's a proven roadmap that shortens years of pain. The goal isn't just to return to the old life—it's to create something richer, healthier, and more fulfilling. "The more coaches certified with their own spin, talents, and strengths, the more people get the help they need to move through something they never saw coming."
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  • 450: Your Betrayal Story Is Affecting Your Immune System

    450: Your Betrayal Story Is Affecting Your Immune System
    Dec 1 2025
    In this transformative episode, I sit down with my own teacher and mentor, Dr. Karen Parker, to explore the fascinating world of Quantum Human Design and how our stories literally shape our biology. Dr. Parker is a pioneer who studied with the founder of traditional Human Design and has taken the system to its next evolution—helping people not just understand who they're not, but consciously create who they want to become. What You'll Discover Understanding Quantum Human Design The difference between traditional Human Design and Quantum Human Design How Human Design synthesizes Eastern and Western astrology, the Chinese I Ching, Hindu chakra system, and Judaic Kabbalah Why getting back into your body is essential for authentic decision-making The evolution from learning "who you're not" to consciously creating "who you choose to become" The Biology of Our Stories How victim-based narratives actually lower immune response (IgA levels) The physiological changes that occur when you reframe your story Why optimists live longer and have longer telomeres The connection between storytelling and post-traumatic growth Moving Beyond Survival Why defining ourselves as "survivors" keeps us stuck at a minimal baseline The danger of stopping your story at the cliffhanger How to move from surviving to thriving through the redemption arc The Stage 3 trap: how repeating our betrayal story keeps us stuck The Story Lab Process A creative, fun approach to rewriting your narrative (yes, it can be enjoyable!) Using creative writing to bypass logic and reasoning patterns Why taking your story "out of time" creates powerful shifts Real-life example: How one woman transformed from victim to empowered protector Key Takeaways Your story creates your identity, and your identity calls in experiences that validate it. Breaking this cycle requires conscious narrative reframing. Healing doesn't have to be a crisis. The Story Lab process proves that transformation can actually be creative, playful, and fun. Check in with your body. After sharing your betrayal story, does your body feel light, open, and expansive? Or heavy and contracted? Your body knows the truth. The power of the redemption arc. Your story doesn't end at the betrayal—that's just the catalyst. The real story is what happens next and who you become. Powerful Exercise to Try Draw a horizontal line across a piece of paper. The left represents your birth, the right represents where you are now. Mark all the significant experiences in your life along this timeline. Then ask yourself: "Did I stop my story at the cliffhanger, or have I defined myself by what happened next?" If you're still hanging at the cliffhanger, you deserve better than that. About Dr. Karen Parker Dr. Karen Parker holds a PhD in transpersonal psychology and is the creator of Quantum Human Design. She studied directly with the founder of traditional Human Design and spent three years in a Sound Lab testing the frequency of vocabulary to create an entirely new system that helps people consciously write their sovereign story. She's also the author of multiple books, including Quantum Wellness, which walks readers through the Story Lab process. Connect with Dr. Karen Parker Website: QuantumHumanDesign.com Instagram & Facebook: @DrKarenParker22 Book: Quantum Wellness (available at major online retailers) Stay in Touch The PBT Institute: https://thepbtinstitute.com My Personal Connection As a 4/6 Manifesting Generator (Time Bender) myself, studying with Dr. Karen was life-changing. Learning about the triphasic life cycle of the 4/6 profile helped me understand why my life crashed and burned at exactly age 50—and why that was actually the beginning of my true purpose work. The concept of "finding shortcuts" as a Manifesting Generator perfectly explains why the five stages of Post Betrayal Transformation showed up in my research—it was THE shortcut to healing!
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