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  • The hardiness effect: How stress makes us stronger

    The hardiness effect: How stress makes us stronger
    Nov 6 2025
    Dr. Paul Taylor is a former Royal Navy air crew officer turned neuroscientist, psychologist, and exercise physiologist, to break down the concept of ‘Death by Comfort’, Dr. Taylor’s new book, The Hardiness Effect, explores how embracing a little stress and discomfort can make us stronger, sharper, and healthier. Dr Taylor dives into the science behind resilience, the dangers of modern convenience, and practical strategies for building mental and physical toughness—like cold showers, purposeful challenges, and reframing stress as an opportunity for growth. Whether you’re a small business owner wrestling with burnout or simply feeling stuck in a rut, this conversation offers actionable advice and fresh perspective for building a life with more energy, meaning, and resilience. Key topics 1. The Hardiness Effect: Foundations and Background Dr Paul Taylor’s diverse expertise (military, neuroscience, psychology, exercise physiology). Modern comfort is disconnecting us from ancestral stressors needed for resilience. Hardiness combines mind and body for optimal health. Dr Taylor’s motivation for writing and research comes from both lived experience and scientific evidence. 2. Stress, Adaptation, and Practical Resilience Exposure to intermittent stress (exercise, cold, psychological challenge) strengthens body and mind. Simple habits like cold showers and breath control can build resilience. Psychological orientation: viewing stressors as challenges boosts recovery and growth. Deliberate discomfort and self-reflection reinforce confidence and adaptability. 3. The Role of Lifestyle and Technology Sedentary lifestyles and processed diets are misaligned with our genetic needs. Tech habits and excessive screen time drain attention, mood, and engagement in life. Healthy routines—exercise, nutrition, sleep, hobbies (Ikigai)—empower resilience. Balance is crucial: active participation trumps passive consumption for well-being. 4. Burnout, Mental Health, and Applying Hardiness Entrepreneurs are especially susceptible to burnout due to chronic stress. Recovery means engaging in energising, restorative activities—not just relaxation. Major signs of bad stress include low energy, motivation, and social withdrawal. Building hardiness: set boundaries, cultivate gratitude, and embrace life’s challenges. Timestamped overview 00:00 "Hardiness: Strength Through Discomfort" 03:48 "Modern Life Mismatches Our Genome" 06:50 "Stress Builds Cellular Resilience" 12:13 Stress Inoculation and Growth 15:38 "Building Resilience Through Challenges" 18:05 Embrace Adversity, Build Confidence 20:14 "Finding Purpose and Setting Boundaries" 23:52 Life Beyond Screen Time 26:29 Preventing Burnout Early 30:34 "1 in 400 Trillion Life" Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    33 m
  • Breaking up with busy: How doing less can boost your productivity

    Breaking up with busy: How doing less can boost your productivity
    Oct 24 2025
    Donna McGeorge is a productivity expert and bestselling author. In her latest book, Red Brick Thinking’ Donna shares why our instinct to always add more—tasks, meetings, apps—might be holding us back, and how strategic subtraction can help us achieve more with less stress. In this chat, we dive into practical ways to break up with the busy, how to set healthy boundaries (without guilt!), and why younger generations are leading the charge in prioritising health over hustle. If you’re a business owner or freelancer looking to lighten your workload, make smarter decisions, and rethink what you “have” to do, this conversation will leave you inspired to red brick your day and build a happier, more productive life. Key topics 1. Red Brick Thinking and Productivity Philosophy Donna McGeorge’s concept: focus on what can be removed rather than added (“strategic subtraction” vs. “addition bias”) Encourages breaking away from hustle culture and overwork Red Brick Thinking promotes achieving more by doing less 2. Mindset Shifts for Small Business Owners The tendency to feel obligated to do everything, especially for soloists who “are the business” Importance of questioning self-imposed rules and what tasks truly add value Cultivating boundaries and saying “no” without guilt 3. Practical Subtraction Strategies Audit meetings, clients, and daily activities to identify what can be stopped Reduce time-wasting meetings by focusing on purpose and outcome (e.g., 25-minute meetings) Use technology mindfully—eliminate unnecessary apps/tools and leverage AI only for clear business problems 4. Shaping the Future of Work and Wellbeing Trends toward four-day workweeks and slower, balanced work lives Post-pandemic increased focus on health and work-life boundaries The value of downtime and boredom for creativity and better decision making Timestamped overview 00:00 "Red Brick Thinking Explained" 05:25 "Questioning the Value of Busyness" 07:27 "Rethinking Unnoticed Efforts" 11:53 "Clear Goals for Meetings" 13:30 "AI: Solving Problems, Not Clutter" 18:04 "Respecting Boundaries Builds Understanding" 21:46 "Will It Make the Boat Faster?" 25:49 "The Danger of Constant On" 27:50 AI, Productivity, and Four-Day Week 30:20 Reducing the Weight of Obligation Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    33 m
  • Finding your heart’s journey: Lessons from Peter Baines and Hands Across the Water

    Finding your heart’s journey: Lessons from Peter Baines and Hands Across the Water
    Oct 16 2025
    Peter Baines is one of Australia’s most impactful solopreneurs. After serving as a forensic investigator and responding to major disasters like the Bali bombings and Boxing Day tsunami, Peter found his purpose in building children's charity Hands Across the Water. In this episode of Flying Solo, he shares advice on finding a journey worthy of your heart and soul, as well as practical guidance for small business owners seeking to make a meaningful impact in their communities. Whether you’re searching for purpose or curious about integrating philanthropy into your business, this conversation is packed with lessons on resilience, leadership, and the transformative power of doing good. Key topics 1. The Journey of 'Hands Across the Water' Peter’s background as a forensic investigator and his response to the Boxing Day tsunami. Founding the charity to support orphaned children in Thailand. Realisation that the work was ongoing after building the first home. Growth from helping a few children to supporting hundreds with homes and educational opportunities. 2. Finding and Sustaining Purpose Making an impact doesn’t require a profound life event; small actions matter. Importance of finding a cause or activity that brings meaning beyond financial goals. Personal fulfillment often comes from helping others or the community. Value in choosing a journey “worthy of one’s heart and soul.” 3. Integrating Social Responsibility for Small Businesses CSR and philanthropy aren’t just for large corporations—small businesses can make a difference. Shift from one-way giving (philanthropy) to reciprocal, mutually beneficial partnerships with charities. Importance of aligning business values with charity partners and setting clear expectations. Engaging employees and stakeholders in meaningful causes enhances buy-in and impact. 4. Overcoming Challenges and Leadership Lessons Navigating unexpected setbacks, such as the COVID crisis and loss of funding. Lessons in resilience: drawing hope from challenging experiences and colleagues. Effective crisis leadership means making courageous decisions and staying present. Advice to listeners: pursue causes that are personally meaningful and sustainable, and do your due diligence. Timestamped overview 00:00 Forensic Investigator: Bali to Tsunami 06:06 Building a charity 09:52 Expanding charity Impact in Thailand 11:53 Rethinking Corporate Social Responsibility 15:08 "Choosing the right partners" 18:03 Effective CSR Partnerships explained 24:25 "Resilience amidst challenges" 26:56 Leadership lessons from crisis 31:37 Choosing meaningful causes for business 34:08 "Sustainable, meaningful partnerships matter" Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    37 m
  • Riding the waves of mental health: Cooper Chapman’s journey from pro surfer to wellbeing advocate

    Riding the waves of mental health: Cooper Chapman’s journey from pro surfer to wellbeing advocate
    Oct 9 2025
    Cooper Chapman is a former top-100 professional surfer who has transformed his passion for riding waves into a mission for improving mental health and wellbeing. Cooper is the founder of The Good Human Factory, an organisation dedicated to equipping everyday Aussies with practical mental health tools. Drawing from his elite sports background and personal journey, Cooper shares how small, consistent habits, such as spending just 14 minutes a day on gratitude and meditation, can make a world of difference. His new book, The 1% Good Club, unpacks this philosophy and provides actionable tips for living a clearer, calmer, and more intentional life. If you’re looking for inspiration to take charge of your own wellbeing—one small step at a time—this is a must-listen conversation. Key topics 1. Cooper Chapman’s Journey from Surfing to Mental Health Advocacy Early start as a competitive surfer in North Narrabeen, Sydney, and rapid rise to international competition Experiences with loss of sponsorship and transition from professional surfing to other work Personal and family experiences with mental illness and suicide influencing his new purpose 2. The Good Human Factory: Mission and Initiatives Founding The Good Human Factory to promote mental well-being Began with mental health workshops in schools, later expanded to corporate and sporting groups Focuses on practical, science-backed skills for everyday mental health (not just illness awareness) Runs a podcast featuring experts, sells positive-message merchandise, and builds mental health communities Partnerships like Blue Minds program address eco anxiety and climate issues in schools 3. The 1% Good Club and the Power of Daily Habits Concept of dedicating 1% of the day (~14 minutes) to mental health practices Daily structure: meditation and gratitude exercises within an Instagram accountability group Impact on participants, with strong testimonials and continued growth of the free community Emphasis on consistent, small actions for meaningful change 4. Science and Practical Benefits of Gratitude Neuroscientific research shows daily gratitude improves well-being by boosting positive brain chemicals Chapman integrates gratitude practices into workshops, book, and community activities Reframes “gratitude” from being “woo-woo” to a proven mental health tool Practical tips: use moments like meals or toothbrushing to reflect on the good in life 5. Navigating Stress and Building Resilience Acknowledgment of prevalent modern anxieties: eco, AI, burnout, and financial stress Grounding and self-care habits—breath work, exercise, time in nature—help regulate stress Importance of self-compassion and striving for “progress, not perfection” with healthy habits Encouragement to take small, daily steps to improve mental well-being and manage adversity Timestamped overview 00:00 From Nippers to Surfing Success 04:23 "Mindset Shifts in Adversity" 09:13 "Good Human Origin Story" 11:09 Cultivating Mental Health Strategies 14:40 "1% Daily Mental Health Habit" 18:27 Daily Gratitude Sparks Positivity 23:21 "Habits for Feeling Your Best" 25:25 "Healthy Habits and Accountability" 28:26 "Habits to Calm Your Mind" 31:01 "Passionate About Mental Health" Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    34 m
  • Building resilience and mental health for soloists with Leanne Faulkner

    Building resilience and mental health for soloists with Leanne Faulkner
    Oct 2 2025
    On this episode of Flying Solo, Cec Busby sits down with Leanne Faulkner, a small business mental health expert, researcher, and former entrepreneur. Leanne shares her inspiring journey from building Billy Goat Soap—a business sparked by her son's eczema—to becoming a leading advocate for the mental health and wellbeing of soloists and micro business owners. Leanne offers fresh research insights and practical strategies tailored specifically for solo business owners. Tune in to hear about the unique pressures facing soloists, how to build resilience, set healthy boundaries, and the importance of community and continued learning to thrive as a one-person business. Key Topics 1. Unique Pressures for Soloists and Micro Business Owners Soloists often wear multiple hats, handling everything from admin to strategy without the support larger businesses have. Isolation is a major challenge, as many work from home without the informal support networks found in a traditional workplace. Financial strain is common, with many soloists paying themselves last and rarely having resources for self-investment. The lack of formal structure or HR resources means boundaries and self-care practices often fall by the wayside. 2. Strategies for Building Resilience and Maintaining Mental Health Establishing clear workplace boundaries (e.g., defined work hours, separation of work and personal life) helps prevent burnout. Building and maintaining peer networks, such as joining business groups or coworking spaces, is vital for emotional and practical support. Forming or joining accountability or support groups can provide both business and wellbeing check-ins. Continual self-education and openness to learning play a crucial role in resilience and thriving as a soloist. 3. The Importance of Control and Power in Business Owner Wellbeing Thriving soloists typically have systems that help them feel in control—such as client agreements, prepayment systems, and sales/cash flow forecasts. Having an exit strategy from the start allows for more confident, strategic decision-making. Recognising and addressing power imbalances in client relationships (e.g., saying no to unreasonable demands or unpaid work) is essential for mental health. 4. The Need for Broader Support and Policy Changes The responsibility for small business mental health shouldn’t fall solely on owners; big businesses and government should enact policies that support their wellbeing. Advocating for fair compensation when small business owners provide expertise to corporates or government (e.g., through focus groups or consulting). The business ecosystem should develop safeguards like fair deadlines, timely payments, and clearly communicated expectations to protect small suppliers. There has been progress with resources (e.g., New Access, Ahead for Business), but extending the conversation to policy is the next step. Time-stamped overview 00:00 "Entrepreneurship and Mental Health Insights" 05:10 Entrepreneurship's Toll: Depression Struggle 08:52 "Challenges of Micro Business Owners" 13:41 "Leveraging Informal Support Networks" 16:01 Thriving at Work: Key Insights 20:08 Solo Entrepreneurs: Balancing Control & Wellbeing 23:17 "Work Control and Financial Planning" 25:55 "Business Strategy: Chess vs. Checkers" 31:09 Compensating Experts for Government Focus Groups 33:32 "Rethinking Professional Networking" Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    36 m
  • How to negotiate more effectively

    How to negotiate more effectively
    Sep 25 2025
    In this episode, Cec Busby sits down with negotiation whiz Glin Bailey. Glin's a coach, author, speaker, and all-around professional who has helped everyone from big-name executives to small business owners sharpen their negotiating skills. Today, Glin is sharing all her best advice from her book, The Negotiation Playbook, and breaking down simple, practical ways you can get better results in your business—whether you’re trying to land a new client, hire your first team member, or just want the confidence to ask for what you deserve. Cec and Glin talk about why negotiation is really all about creating value, how to get comfortable with feeling uncomfortable, and why a little planning goes a long way. Key Topics 1. Why Negotiation Really Matters Negotiation pops up everywhere in business—whether you’re closing a deal or hiring someone new. If you actually want to get better results, you need to get good at it—and be bold enough to ask for what you want. Having solid negotiation skills means you’re way more confident and don’t leave value on the table. 2. Getting Comfortable with the Awkward Stuff Most of us talk ourselves out of asking for more before the real negotiation even starts. Negotiation can (and probably should) feel uncomfortable—if it doesn’t, you’re playing it too safe. Growth happens when you push yourself out of your comfort zone, even if it feels a bit cringey. 3. Working Together Beats Going to Battle You can negotiate by trying to “win” everything or by working with the other person to find a sweet spot. The best deals actually come from working together, not just trying to one-up someone. It pays off to be a “diplomat”—aiming for both a great result and a good relationship. 4. How to Actually Get Better at Negotiation Glynn’s VALUE framework lays it out: know your Value, Analyse the info, find your Leverage, accept being Uncomfortable, and Execute your plan. Prep is everything—don’t just wing it, know what you want before you start. Don’t just focus on price; add more things to the conversation (like timing, flexibility, perks) so there are more ways for everyone to win. Timestamped overview 00:00 Kid Negotiators: From Fearless to Shy 03:42 Career Shift: Finance to Coaching 09:19 Negotiation: Character & Teamwork 10:55 Collaboration: Balancing Winning and Relationships 15:13 Boosting Your Negotiation Game 18:06 Rethink Hiring: Plan a 3-Year Journey 22:34 "Negotiation: More Than Just Price" 24:03 "From Shy Teen to Deal-Maker" 27:39 "Negotiation: Plan Like a Dinner Party" 31:45 Negotiation Tips for Success 34:52 Boosting Growth with Better Conversations 38:26 "Boost Your Negotiation Game" Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    40 m
  • Why chasing growth can trap entrepreneurs: Brad Giles on building a better business

    Why chasing growth can trap entrepreneurs: Brad Giles on building a better business
    Sep 18 2025
    In today’s episode, host Cec Busby sits down with Brad Giles—business coach, entrepreneur, and author of the new book, "Bigger Isn’t Better, Better is Better." Brad brings over 25 years of experience, having founded multiple companies and created more than a thousand strategic plans with CEOs and owner-led businesses. In this conversation, Brad challenges the common narrative that business growth is always about getting bigger. Instead, he suggests that the real path to success and freedom lies in building a better business—one that works for you, your team, and your customers. Key topics 1. Rethinking Growth: Bigger Isn’t Always Better Brad challenges the conventional wisdom that “growth for growth’s sake” is the best path for business success. He warns that chasing bigger teams or higher turnover can lead to burnout, stress, and disconnection from the lifestyle entrepreneurs truly want. The focus should shift to building a “better” business—one that serves the owner, team, and customers sustainably. 2. The Power of Mindset and Defining Success Brad’s book centers on the idea that building a better business starts with a shift in mindset, not just chasing bigger numbers. Defining what you really want out of life and business is essential—success is personal and requires clarity. Owners should design their business to achieve “freedom,” whether that means more time, less stress, or a more enjoyable work environment. 3. Combating “Drift” in Key Business Areas Businesses naturally “drift” into problems if not actively managed—teams drift to toxicity, customers to indifference, offerings to mediocrity, and financials to unprofitability. Regularly working “on” the business, not just “in” it, is crucial to counteract this drift and maintain growth in quality. Compounding improvements in four areas—team, customers, offerings, financials—leads to a sustainable, thriving business. 4. Building a Team and Culture with Soul Owner-led companies have a unique advantage: they can build a business with “soul” that attracts top talent seeking meaning, not just a paycheck. To stand out against soulless corporations, focus on culture, purpose, and creating an environment where people want to work. Use tools like a “role scorecard” and a clearly defined “employee promise” to attract and retain A-players who fit your business vision. Time-stamped overview 00:00 Finding Life's Purpose with Passion 06:32 "Pursuing Freedom or a Trap?" 08:02 "Preventing Business Drift" 13:29 "Owner-Led vs. Corporate: Cultivating Soul" 16:13 "Owner-Led Companies: Challenges & Advantages" 19:17 Optimizing Onboarding for Success 24:58 "Defining Sacrifice for Success" 27:20 Designing Success: Life by Choice 29:44 "Chasing Meaning Over Growth" Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    31 m
  • From rock bottom to redemption: Understanding men's mental health

    From rock bottom to redemption: Understanding men's mental health
    Sep 4 2025
    [Trigger warning] This episode of Flying Solo discusses depression and suicidal ideation. Listener discretion is advised. On this episode of Flying Solo, host Cec Busby dives deep into a topic that too often remains in the shadows: men’s mental health. With Are You OK? Day around the corner and financial, emotional, and social pressures weighing heavily on solo business owners, now is the time for an honest conversation. Cec is joined by John Broadbent—men's mental health advocate, business owner, coach, and author of Man Unplugged—to share his personal journey from emotional shutdown and loss to self-discovery and healing. Together, they explore why men remain overrepresented in suicide statistics, the shifting cultural expectations around masculinity, and why sharing our stories and showing vulnerability is so critical. Whether you're running your own business or simply looking to better understand the men in your life, this episode is packed with heartfelt insights and hope for change. Key topics 1. Men’s Mental Health: The Crisis, Causes, and Stigma High rates of suicide among Australian men; ongoing stigma around seeking help Traditional expectations of masculinity (provider, protector, stoic) vs. shifting cultural norms The impact of isolation, low self-worth, and reluctance to discuss feelings 2. John Broadbent’s Personal and Professional Journey Experiencing emotional awakening, loss, and rebuilding after personal and business setbacks Finding healing through workshops, mentorship, and self-exploration Writing "Man Unplugged" and evolving as a leader and advocate in men’s personal development 3. Breaking Through: Emotional Literacy and Honest Conversation The importance of vulnerability, open communication, and emotional skills for men Practical steps: Level 1-3 conversations for deepening relationships Teaching emotional literacy to boys and supporting men in expressing emotions beyond anger 4. Solutions, Support, and Hope for the Future The value of safe spaces, group work, and community support for men Shifting the narrative: inclusive dialogue for lasting cultural change Hope found in younger generations and in men opening up when given the opportunity Timestamped overview 00:00 Rethinking Men's Mental Health 05:16 Epiphany Through Reading Journey 09:17 "Reflecting on My Ancestral Timeline" 11:21 Embracing Change and Growth 13:09 "Man Unplugged: Understanding Midlife Transitions" 19:13 Deepening Conversations for Genuine Connection 20:04 "Importance of Deep Conversations" 23:20 Encouraging Emotional Awareness in Men 28:38 "Emotional Availability in Relationships" 32:03 Shame, Violence, and Domestic Abuse 36:11 Men's Retreats Foster Emotional Growth 37:56 Support Resources and John’s Story Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    39 m