Episodios

  • 110. DEANNA MARIE JONES: transgender woman
    Jul 3 2025

    Deanna Marie Jones is a speaker, consultant, and LGBTQ+ advocate, with a history in corporate technology.

    Deanna’s pronouns are she/her, and she is a transgender woman. Find out what that means to Deanna in this episode.

    We also talk about the positive evolution of the job industry, what good leadership looks like, the importance of finding community, and what allies can do to help.

    More on www.fiftyshadesofgender.com/deanna

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    52 m
  • 109. FINN EVANS: trans-masculine, trans man, queer
    Mar 6 2025

    Finn Evans is an artist, writer, film director, and owner of the production company Chudatsi.

    Finn’s pronouns are he/him, and he is trans-masculine and queer. He also uses the label trans man. Find out what that means to Finn in this episode.We also talk about challenges with gendered language, finding your people, what labels feel like home, intersectionality and discrimination, the importance of accurate media representation and celebrating genuine efforts at it, tackling misinformation, and letting people evolve.

    More on www.fiftyshadesofgender.com/finn

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    50 m
  • 108. ‘IRREGULAR JENN’ WILSON: gender non-conforming, genderqueer, non-binary, neuroqueer
    Nov 28 2024

    ‘Irregular Jenn’ Wilson is a writer, coach, and educator, founder of the company Irregular and of the International Day of Consent, which takes place annually on November 30th, and organiser of the upcoming I Do Consent summit, which runs from November 30th until December 2nd. Jenn’s pronouns are they/them (she/her is ok) and the labels they use are gender non-conforming, genderqueer, non-binary, and neuroqueer. They also refer to themself as female and woman-shaped, as well as neurodivergent, polyamorous, a relationship anarchist, bisexual, and pansexual. Find out what that means to Jenn in this episode. We also talk about creating inclusive spaces, neuroqueering everything, unmasking, consent as a practice, misunderstandings around polyamory and relationship anarchy, liberating ourselves, and being a little bit braver. More on www.fiftyshadesofgender.com/jenn-wilson

    Find out more about the I Do Consent summit here:: https://bemore.irregular.org.uk/idocsummit24s

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    1 h y 5 m
  • 107. HELENA KEY: transgender woman, pansexual, bipolar
    Nov 7 2024

    Helena Key is a queer author and founder of an independent publishing company. Helena’s pronouns are she/her, and she is a transgender woman, pansexual, and bipolar. Find out what that means to Helena in this episode. We also talk about transitioning while parenting a young child, building trust in relationships, the overlap between bipolar disorder and ADHD, challenges in calling out problematic behaviour and opinions in groups, alternative publishing company structures, writing authentic characters, and how to get a more realistic representation of LGBTQIA+ and other marginalised people in books, films, and TV. More on www.fiftyshadesofgender.com/helena

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    54 m
  • 106. ANSHAR SERAPHIM: non-binary dominant [autistic]
    Jul 4 2024

    Anshar Seraphim is a consultant, trainer, speaker, and neurodiversity advocate. Anshar likes they/them pronouns, but because they present as male, they don't really mind he/him. They identify as non-binary, because of their lack of exposure to gender constructs as an autistic person. Find out what that means to Anshar in this episode. We also talk about expectations of maleness, sensory difficulties, navigating relationships, social exclusion and isolation, making connections, masking, opening up conversations, effective listening, and learning how to treat each other well. More on www.fiftyshadesofgender.com/anshar

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    59 m
  • 105. SOFIE HAGEN: non-binary, queer
    May 23 2024

    Sofie Hagen is a multi-award-winning London-based Danish comedian, author, podcaster, and content creator. Her new book, Will I Ever Have Sex Again? Is out today, May 23rd, 2024.

    Sofie's pronouns are she/her and they/them, and they are non-binary and queer. Find out what that means to Sofie in this episode.

    We also talk about being raised as a person, how boundaries can be a gift, that safe sex is as much about being present as it is about using protection, that all bodies are new bodies when it comes to having sex, how fatness often complicates everything to do with gender, building self-trust, and becoming a safe person for yourself.

    More on www.fiftyshadesofgender.com/sofie

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    57 m
  • 104. JASON LEE: intersex, transgender (trans man), heterosexual, neurodiverse
    Apr 25 2024

    Jason Lee is an LGBTQI+ Youth Worker, previous presenter on The T-Boys Show on Pride Radio, and the first legally married transgender person in the UK. Jason's pronouns are he/him, and he is intersex and transgender (a trans man), as well as heterosexual and neurodiverse. Find out what that means to Jason in this episode. We also talk about disconnecting from the body and reclaiming yourself, the role of genetics in hormone therapy, and Gender Recognition Act reform. CW: suicide, bulllying, electric shock therapy, sexual assault, abuse, and trauma. More on www.fiftyshadesofgender.com/jason

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    1 h y 2 m
  • 103. RAY BRIGGS: genderqueer, boi, practicing bisexual, T4T
    Feb 29 2024

    Ray Briggs is professor of philosophy at Stanford University, co-host of the radio show Philosophy Talk, and co-author of the book What Even Is Gender? Ray's pronouns are they/them (he/him is also ok) and they are genderqueer, boi, and also a practicing bisexual, and T4T. Find out what that means to Ray in this episode. We also talk about ways to be queer, the expansiveness of the term bisexual, philosophy and decision making, ignoring possibilities, the essence of womanhood (or lack thereof), testosterone's physical and emotional effects, how to define aggression, consent policies, and being impossible. More on www.fiftyshadesofgender.com/ray-briggs

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    51 m