In this episode of Father and Friend, Tim Anderson talks with Anthony Vandagriff, father of four and host of Fathering Our Future. Together they explore how love, listening, and community shape intentional fatherhood and why being present matters more than being perfect.

What does it really mean to be a father who listens and loves well? In this conversation, Anthony Vandagriff shares his personal journey as a dad of four, reflecting on sleepless nights, lessons from his own father, and how scripture shapes his approach to parenting.

He unpacks why “God is love” should be the defining characteristic of dads, why listening builds trust and connection, and how to resist the temptation of trying to “be the dad you wish you had” instead of the dad your kids actually need.

This episode is packed with encouragement, practical wisdom, and biblical insights for dads who want to show up consistently and love their families well.

-----------------------------------------------------

📣What Next? If this episode spoke to you, please like, comment, and share it with a fellow dad. Subscribe for more real conversations on fatherhood, family, and faith.

Join Our Fatherhood Email list at https://fatherandfriend.com or connect with us on social media:

https://www.facebook.com/LivingForTheirGood

https://instagram.com/livingfortheirgood

https://www.tiktok.com/@fatherandfriend

#Fatherhood #EmotionalResilience #Parenting #FamilyValues

In this episode of Father and Friend, host Tim Anderson sits down with BJ Freeman to discuss fatherhood, faith, and building a home filled with peace, prayer, and intentional family time. BJ shares stories from his upbringing, lessons from his father, and practical ways he leads his own family today.

This conversation dives deep into what it means to be an intentional father and husband. BJ reflects on his positive relationship with his own dad, the importance of affirmations, and childhood memories that shaped him as a man. Together, he and Tim discuss three key pillars for strong family leadership:

1. Cultivating a standard of peace in the home.

2. Being intentional with prayer, discipline, and family bonding.

3. Ensuring family is never in competition for your time.

BJ also shares how scripture guides his parenting, the role of fathers as spiritual leaders, and the importance of being present in everyday family life. From fishing trips with his dad to creating affirmations for his young son, this episode is filled with practical wisdom, encouragement, and biblical insights for fathers at any stage.

-----------------------------------------------------

📣What Next? If this episode spoke to you, please like, comment, and share it with a fellow dad. Subscribe for more real conversations on fatherhood, family, and faith.

Join Our Fatherhood Email list at https://fatherandfriend.com or connect with us on social media:

https://www.facebook.com/LivingForTheirGood

https://instagram.com/livingfortheirgood

https://www.tiktok.com/@fatherandfriend

#Fatherhood #EmotionalResilience #Parenting #FamilyValues

In this episode of Father and Friend, host Tim Anderson sits down with Red Wallace — legacy mindset coach, founder of Better Than Best Academy, and creator of the Redprint framework — to talk about servant leadership, fatherhood, and building a family culture rooted in faith and purpose.

Red Wallace shares his journey from growing up in a sports-driven home to becoming a Christian rapper, husband, father, and now a faith-fueled coach for men. He opens up about lessons learned from his dad’s encouragement, how affirmations shape his children, and the importance of modeling faith in everyday family life.

This conversation dives deep into servant leadership as modeled by Jesus, the challenges of raising kids while working on personal growth, and the reality that leadership and love are “caught, not taught.” Red also explains how his coaching helps men rediscover identity, lead with purpose, and create lives of eternal impact.

Whether you’re a dad, husband, or leader, this episode is packed with encouragement and practical wisdom on legacy, leadership, and living for the good of your family.

-----------------------------------------------------

📣What Next? If this episode spoke to you, please like, comment, and share it with a fellow dad. Subscribe for more real conversations on fatherhood, family, and faith.

Join Our Fatherhood Email list at https://fatherandfriend.com or connect with us on social media:

https://www.facebook.com/LivingForTheirGood

https://instagram.com/livingfortheirgood

https://www.tiktok.com/@fatherandfriend

In this episode of Father and Friend, Tim Anderson interviews Zach Williams—Christian, husband, father, bestselling author, and motivational speaker—about his powerful journey through betrayal, tragedy, and near-death experiences to discovering faith, fatherhood, and living fully in the moment.

Zach Williams opens up about the defining moments that shaped his life and fatherhood. From experiencing deep betrayal in a past relationship to surviving a devastating motorcycle accident, Zach shares how these challenges ultimately brought clarity, gratitude, and purpose. He speaks about the importance of living in the moment rather than through memories, the practice of visualization, and how slowing down has changed his perspective as a husband and father.

The conversation also explores the pressures men face in today’s social media-driven culture, the dangers of “faking it until you make it,” and why real stories of success and failure matter. Zach discusses leaving behind a multi-million-dollar business to prioritize family and fulfillment, and how he now pours into men through Uncaged, a faith-based accountability and networking group.

This episode is full of encouragement, practical wisdom, and a reminder that investing time in family and faith leaves a legacy far greater than money or success.

-----------------------------------------------------

📣What Next?

If this episode spoke to you, please like, comment, and share it with a fellow dad. Subscribe for more real conversations on fatherhood, family, and faith.

Join Our Fatherhood Email list at https://fatherandfriend.com or connect with us on social media:

https://www.facebook.com/LivingForTheirGood

https://instagram.com/livingfortheirgood

https://www.tiktok.com/@fatherandfriend

#Fatherhood #EmotionalResilience #Parenting #FamilyValues #familyfirst #fatherandfriend #interview

In this episode, Byron Jones, husband and father of two, shares his journey of fatherhood—emphasizing the importance of quality time with kids, reading the Bible as a family, and balancing work and home life with intentionality and faith.

Byron Jones opens up about his upbringing as an only child, how that shaped his desire to raise two boys, and the life lessons that continue to guide him as a father today. He discusses practical ways he spends intentional, quality time with his children—from imaginative play to family outings and shared meals—and why these moments are so precious. Byron also highlights the role of faith in his home, including the importance of reading the Bible with his kids and modeling Christian values. He shares how he mentally transitions from work to “dad mode,” the challenges of balancing family and business ownership, and the lessons he wishes he had known when first becoming a dad. This heartfelt conversation is filled with encouragement, practical wisdom, and reminders that fatherhood is about presence, patience, and purpose.

-----------------------------------------------------

📣What Next?

If this episode spoke to you, please like, comment, and share it with a fellow dad. Subscribe for more real conversations on fatherhood, family, and faith.

Join Our Fatherhood Email list at https://fatherandfriend.com or connect with us on social media:

https://www.facebook.com/LivingForTheirGood

https://instagram.com/livingfortheirgood

https://www.tiktok.com/@fatherandfriend

#Fatherhood #EmotionalResilience #Parenting #FamilyValues #familyfirst #fatherandfriend #interview

In this episode of Father and Friend, Tim Anderson interviews Josh Niemi, founder of Expository Parenting and author of Expository Parenting. Together, they explore biblical parenting, the sufficiency of Scripture, and how fathers can disciple their children through verse-by-verse teaching of God’s Word.

What does it look like to parent according to Scripture? Josh Niemi shares his personal journey from growing up in a confused church background to finding clarity and conviction in God’s Word. He explains how this shaped his passion for helping parents disciple their children through expository teaching at home—showing that Scripture alone equips kids for every good work.

Tim and Josh discuss:

The importance of theological training in childhood rather than waiting until adulthood.

How expository teaching in the home parallels expository preaching in the church.

The role of fathers in leading their families spiritually.

Practical strategies for discipling children, from storybook Bibles to full-text Scripture.

The challenges of relying on creativity, tradition, or emotions in parenting—and the freedom of resting in God’s Word.

Education and discipleship, including Josh’s conviction about homeschooling.

What this looks like in his own family, with encouragement for parents who feel overwhelmed or inadequate.

Josh emphasizes that parents don’t need to be spiritual “rockstars.” Instead, by faithfully teaching Scripture, fathers and mothers can raise children deeply rooted in truth.

Visit Josh Niemi's Website: https://www.expositoryparenting.org

Read Josh's Book: https://amzn.to/4oWxLlo

-----------------------------------------------------

📣What Next?

If this episode spoke to you, please like, comment, and share it with a fellow dad. Subscribe for more real conversations on fatherhood, family, and faith.

Join Our Fatherhood Email list at https://fatherandfriend.com or connect with us on social media:

https://www.facebook.com/LivingForTheirGood

https://instagram.com/livingfortheirgood

https://www.tiktok.com/@fatherandfriend

#Fatherhood #EmotionalResilience #Parenting #FamilyValues

In this episode of Father and Friend, Pastor Jeff Wiesner shares deeply about fatherhood, ministry, and the challenges of raising children in the gospel of Christ without letting it become “boring” or routine. He offers practical wisdom on repentance, presence, local church commitment, and guarding family life in a tech-driven world.

Pastor Jeff Wiesner, senior pastor at Covenant Baptist Church, joins us for an honest conversation on fatherhood, faith, and family rhythms. He opens up about his upbringing, the struggles and blessings of being both a dad and a pastor, and his biggest fear for his children—that the gospel might become overly familiar and lose its wonder.

Throughout the conversation, Jeff discusses:

*How pastors balance ministry demands with parenting and marriage.

*The importance of modeling repentance, forgiveness, and honesty in the home.

*Why centering family life around the local church matters.

*Hard choices like saying no to Sunday sports in order to prioritize worship.

*The challenge of technology, presence, and guarding time with family.

*Practical ways to show kindness, stay present, and build a grace-filled home.

This episode will encourage dads, pastors, and families seeking to live out the gospel faithfully in everyday life.

Connect with Covenant Baptist Church: https://www.covenantdenton.org/

Song by Father & Friend: https://open.spotify.com/track/1nh7t4qgKX6nkdeP9D9iqu?si=591c1f9614614d54

-----------------------------------------------------

📣What Next?

If this episode spoke to you, please like, comment, and share it with a fellow dad. Subscribe for more real conversations on fatherhood, family, and faith.

Join Our Fatherhood Email list at https://fatherandfriend.com or connect with us on social media:

https://www.facebook.com/LivingForTheirGood

https://instagram.com/livingfortheirgood

https://www.tiktok.com/@fatherandfriend

#Fatherhood #EmotionalResilience #Parenting #FamilyValues

In this episode of Father and Friend, Tim Anderson sits down with John Helton—known as "The Blind Fury"—to discuss fatherhood, faith, marriage, and resilience. John shares his powerful journey through vision loss, single parenting, and ministry, offering wisdom on building godly marriages and raising strong families.

John Helton’s story is one of perseverance, faith, and purpose. As a legally blind father of three grown children, author, speaker, drummer, and founder of the marriage ministry Marital Monkey, John has lived through extraordinary challenges—from life-threatening illnesses, loss of his vision, and the sudden passing of his wife.

In this conversation, John reflects on how he modeled resilience for his children, showing them that life’s hardships don’t define you—it’s your response that matters. He talks about the importance of servant leadership in marriage, prioritizing your spouse while raising kids, and demonstrating Christ’s love through action.

The episode also dives deep into practical parenting advice—setting boundaries, instilling responsibility, and showing children what real love and godly strength look like. John’s ministry work mentoring husbands, especially younger dads, shines through as he encourages men to love their wives well and lead their families faithfully.

If you’re a dad or husband looking for encouragement, practical wisdom, and biblical truth, this episode is packed with insights to help you lead and love your family well.

Visit John Helton's Website: theblindfury.com

-----------------------------------------------------

📣What Next?

If this episode spoke to you, please like, comment, and share it with a fellow dad. Subscribe for more real conversations on fatherhood, family, and faith.

Join Our Fatherhood Email list at https://fatherandfriend.com or connect with us on social media:

https://www.facebook.com/LivingForTheirGood

https://instagram.com/livingfortheirgood

https://www.tiktok.com/@fatherandfriend

#Fatherhood #EmotionalResilience #Parenting #FamilyValues