Are you wondering how you’re doing as a submissive wife and what it means to honor God in your role?

In this episode, I invite you to join me for a gentle, honest self-check as we explore what it means to be a submissive wife and a godly Christian woman. I share my own journey, scriptural insights, and practical questions to help you reflect on your heart and your marriage.

Whether you’re just starting out or have been married for years, I want to encourage you with biblical wisdom and real-life application for your walk as a wife.

Let's get started.

• Biblical submission is about trusting God’s design, not losing your voice
• Respect and humility are essential for a godly marriage
• Every wife—including me—has areas to grow, and that’s okay
• Honest self-check questions help us reflect and take action
• God’s grace is sufficient for every step of our journey

Scripture References:

James 1:5

Joshua 1:8

Romans 14:12

Ephesians 5:22

1 Peter 3:1

Ephesians 4:31-32

Colossians 3:15

Philippians 2:3

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Scripture taken from the New King James Version®. Copyright © 1982 by Thomas Nelson. Used by permission. All rights reserved.

Welcome to the best of 2025. Of the 52 episodes that were aired last year on the Faith Lived Out podcast, #108, 2 Essential First Steps To Becoming a Submissive Wife, was the one you listened to the most. Which as a Bible study teacher and submissive wife coach I think is great, because the episode teaches on the two steps that are the foundation for every woman who desires to become a godly wife. These are absolutely the two first things that you need to be successful in your marriage.

If you've listened to this in the past, this will be a great refresher for you, and if this is your first time hearing it, I hope you enjoy it as much as everyone else has.

No matter how hard we try, no matter how determined we might be, we will not be successful at becoming a submissive wife, without first doing two essential steps.

Yes, we may make some strides here or there, but lasting change, a true change of the heart, only happens when we are willing to put these foundational steps into practice.

How do I know? Because I’ve been there. I was the young wife who desired to do marriage right. Who longed to have a loving marriage that stood the test of time. It was a commitment to these 2 principles that made the difference.

Join me as I share two essential steps that will help you start your journey off right in becoming the godly wife that you want to be.

Let’s get started.

Scripture References

James 4:7-8, 10

Psalms 18:30

Ephesians 5:22

Galatians 5:19-21

2 Timothy 3:2-4

1 John 1:8-9

Romans 10:9-10

2 Peter 1:3-4

Joshua 1:8

John 14:16-17

Proverbs 31:30

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Scripture taken from the New King James Version®. Copyright © 1982 by Thomas Nelson. Used by permission. All rights reserved.

In this episode, we'll explore how a godly wife’s transformation can change her marriage, bringing new life, peace, and unity. I will show you 6 biblical ways you can influence your marriage through spiritual growth, communication, respect, love, homemaking, and perseverance.

Whether you’re longing for deeper connection, better communication, or a more Christ-centered relationship, you’ll find practical encouragement and scriptural truth to help you take the next step to real change. Listen to discover how God can use your obedience to His Word to bless not only your marriage but your entire family.

Let’s get started.

KEY TAKEAWAYS

• A wife’s spiritual growth is a catalyst for positive change in marriage.
• Biblical communication builds unity and trust.
• Respect and submission are essential for marital harmony.
• Christlike love and affection strengthen the marital bond.
• A peaceful, well-managed home honors God and blesses the family.
• Faith and perseverance help overcome marital challenges.

Scripture References:

Matthew 6:33

Josua 1:8

Proverbs 31:30

Romans 8:28

Ephesians 4:29

Proverbs 18:21

Proverbs 31:26

Ephesians 5:22-24, 33

1 Peter 3:1-2

1 Corinthians 13:4-7

1 Corinthians 7:3-5

Titus 2:5

Proverbs 31:27

Deuteronomy 6:6-7

Isaiah 41:10

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🌷Submissive Wife Study Guide ~ Download your free guide to begin your journey to becoming a better wife and to the marriage God designed for you. Get your copy today!

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Scripture taken from the New King James Version®. Copyright © 1982 by Thomas Nelson. Used by permission. All rights reserved.

In this episode, I share 6 biblical ways you and your husband can truly work as a team in your Christian marriage. I’ll walk you through what God’s Word says about unity, trust, and partnership, and offer practical steps you can take to build a stronger, more joyful relationship with your husband.

Whether you’re feeling disconnected or simply want to grow closer, I’ll equip you with strategies and encouragement to help you experience the joy and strength that comes from working together as a team, all for God’s glory.

KEY TAKEAWAYS

• Teamwork in Christian marriage is rooted in God’s design for unity and partnership.
• Embracing your role as a helpmate brings strength and balance to your marriage.
• Open communication and shared decision-making are essential for unity.
• Trust and spiritual intimacy grow as you work together and put each other first.
• Shifting from “mine” and “yours” to “ours” creates a strong foundation for your family.
• Practical steps and real-life examples help you apply these truths today.

Scripture References:

Genesis 2:24-25

Ephesians 5:29, 31

Ecclesiastes 4:9-12

Philippians 2:3-4

Proverbs 31:11

Psalms 37:3

James 1:19-20

Ephesians 4:15

🌷 30 Day Communication Reset ~ Transform the communication in your marriage with this simple daily action plan.

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🌷Submissive Wife Study Guide ~ Download your free guide to begin your journey to becoming a better wife and to the marriage God designed for you. Get your copy today!

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Scripture taken from the New King James Version®. Copyright © 1982 by Thomas Nelson. Used by permission. All rights reserved.

Are you longing for a new beginning in your marriage as the new year begins? Has there been challenges, disappointments, or do you feel that you and your husband have grown distant this past year? And now you’re yearning for a deeper connection and renewed joy in your relationship.

This episode is for every wife who wants to break free from old patterns, let go of past hurts, and discover how God’s grace, forgiveness, and hope can help you and your husband start fresh—no matter what last year held.

Together, we’ll explore practical, biblical steps to renew your relationship, restore your hope, and embrace God’s beautiful design for your marriage in the year ahead. If you’re ready for a fresh start to real change and lasting growth, today is for you.

Let’s get started.

Scripture References:

Psalms 139-23-24

Romans 5:8

Psalms 43:5

1 John 1:9

1 Peter 3:4

1 John 3:18

Referenced Episode

139 ~ How to Relieve Stress & Bring Contentment to Your Marriage With a Simple Change of Focus

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🌷Submissive Wife Study Guide ~ Download your free guide to begin your journey to becoming a better wife and to the marriage God designed for you. In it you will learn what it means to be a submissive wife, how to respect your husband, and how following God's commands for your life will transform your marriage. Get your copy today!

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Scripture taken from the New King James Version®. Copyright © 1982 by Thomas Nelson. Used by permission. All rights reserved.

After the busyness and glitter of Christmas fades, the worries that you set aside during the holiday can come rushing back — bills, marriage strains, health fears, sleepless nights. But God's perfect peace can calm all your fears, even in the midst of the storm.

Join me as I share 5 simple, biblical steps, you can start today, to experience the kind of peace that surpassing all understanding. One that will transform your anxious heart to one of quiet trust and rest.

Don't wait another day to hand your burdens to God and experience a peace that doesn’t depend on circumstances or life changing. Short, hopeful, and deeply encouraging — this episode is for any woman longing to trade fear for faith and find rest in the storm.

Let's get started.

Scripture References:

John 14:27

John 16:33

Isaiah 26:3

Romans 8:28

Matthew 1:23

Hebrews 13:5

Isaiah 41:10

Isaiah 26:3

1 Peter 5:7

Philippians 4:8

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🌷Submissive Wife Study Guide ~ Download your free guide to begin your journey to becoming a better wife and to the marriage God designed for you. In it you will learn what it means to be a submissive wife, how to respect your husband, and how following God's commands for your life will transform your marriage. Get your copy today!

🌷30 Minute Mentoring Calls ~ Have a struggle or concern and need someone to talk to about it? Then come pull up a chair next to mine and let's chat. Click here for more info.

• Thank You for listening!♥️

Do you like the podcast? I would love to hear from you. Please leave a review or share it with a friend. Oh, and be sure to hit the follow button so you don't miss any new episodes!

🌷A.C.T.S Spiral Prayer Journal with prompts to help you have a focused, confident and effective prayer life.

🌷Marriage Prayer Journal for Wives ~ As you follow the daily prompts, you will be led by the Holy Spirit to grow as a godly woman and wife. Check it out and start your journey today.

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Scripture taken from the New King James Version®. Copyright © 1982 by Thomas Nelson. Used by permission. All rights reserved.

The allure of these subtle temptations are not immediately apparent, making it difficult to recognize and resist them. Instead, they subtly infiltrate your heart, quietly eroding your joy, your relationship with God, and your marriage.

If someone were to inquire about these feelings, you would likely deny them outright. However, they have a subtle way of creeping into your heart, going unnoticed until their outward impact on your relationship becomes evident.

Before you know it, your thoughts are consumed by what you see is lacking in your life, the man you wish your husband would be, or the dreams of a different life.

Today, we will explore how to identify the signs of these quiet sinful desires, learn the emotional, spiritual, and relational consequences of harboring them, and discover practical, Christ-centered steps to renew your heart and mind.

Let’s get started.

Scripture References:

1 Timothy 6:6-10

Proverbs 14:30

Hebrews 13:5

Psalms 66:18

Luke 12:15

Psalms 139:14, 16-17

1 Corinthians 13:5

John 15:11

Proverbs 17:22

Proverbs 27:15

Proverbs 13:10

Matthew 6:19-21

Proverbs 14:1

John 10:10

James 3:16

1 Peter 5:8

1 Thessalonians 5:18

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🌷Submissive Wife Study Guide ~ Download your free guide to begin your journey to becoming a better wife and to the marriage God designed for you. In it you will learn what it means to be a submissive wife, how to respect your husband, and how following God's commands for your life will transform your marriage. Get your copy today!

🌷30 Minute Mentoring Calls ~ Have a struggle or concern and need someone to talk to about it? Then come pull up a chair next to mine and let's chat. Click here for more info.

• Thank You for listening!♥️

Do you like the podcast? I would love to hear from you. Please leave a review or share it with a friend. Oh, and be sure to hit the follow button so you don't miss any new episodes!

🌷A.C.T.S Spiral Prayer Journal with prompts to help you have a focused, confident and effective prayer life.

🌷Marriage Prayer Journal for Wives ~ As you follow the daily prompts, you will be led by the Holy Spirit to grow as a godly woman and wife. Check it out and start your journey today.

🌼 Traits of a Virtuous Wife Free Printable

🌼 6 Steps to Resolving Conflict Cheat Sheet

🌼 Blog, Journals & More Free Printables

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Scripture taken from the New King James Version®. Copyright © 1982 by Thomas Nelson. Used by permission. All rights reserved.

Money can be a significant source of stress and conflict in marriages. You might be concerned about making ends meet, or you and your husband may have differing opinions on spending and saving. Trust issues around finances or the constant anxiety about money can also be factors.

However, I have some good news. God has a better way to handle your finances. By aligning your financial practices with His Word, you can experience peace, unity, and even blessings in your marriage.

In this discussion, I’ll share six biblical principles for managing finances according to God’s Word. These principles will help you trust God more, strengthen your relationship with your husband, and enjoy the freedom that comes from obedience.

Join me as we seek God’s Word together and what it teaches about handling your finances.

Let's get started.

Scripture References:

James 1:5

Matthew 6:33

Proverbs 21:5

Genesis 2:24

James 1:19-20

Proverbs 17:27

Proverbs 16:9

Proverbs 10:4

Proverbs 22:7

Proverbs 3:9-10

Malachi 3:8-10

2 Corinthians 9:6-7

Luke 6:38

Philippians 4:19

Matthew 6:25-27, 31-33

Referenced Episode:

#22 ~ What the Bible Says About Money as a Christian Couple

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🌟Likeminded Wives Gathering

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🌷Submissive Wife Study Guide ~ Download your free guide to begin your journey to becoming a better wife and to the marriage God designed for you. In it you will learn what it means to be a submissive wife, how to respect your husband, and how following God's commands for your life will transform your marriage. Get your copy today!

🌷30 Minute Mentoring Calls ~ Have a struggle or concern and need someone to talk to about it? Then come pull up a chair next to mine and let's chat. Click here for more info.

• Thank You for listening!♥️

Do you like the podcast? I would love to hear from you. Please leave a review or share it with a friend. Oh, and be sure to hit the follow button so you don't miss any new episodes!

🌷A.C.T.S Spiral Prayer Journal with prompts to help you have a focused, confident and effective prayer life.

🌷Marriage Prayer Journal for Wives ~ As you follow the daily prompts, you will be led by the Holy Spirit to grow as a godly woman and wife. Check it out and start your journey today.

🌼 Traits of a Virtuous Wife Free Printable

🌼 6 Steps to Resolving Conflict Cheat Sheet

🌼 Blog, Journals & More Free Printables

🌼 Join sisters like you ~ Faith Lived Out Community on FB

🌼 Contact me: nanci@faithlivedout.com

Scripture taken from the New King James Version®. Copyright © 1982 by Thomas Nelson. Used by permission. All rights reserved.