In today’s episode we dive into the spectacle of public affairs—from the viral Coldplay KissCam scandal to the infamous Clinton-Lewinsky saga. We explore the cultural obsession with infidelity, the ethics of public shaming, and the complex dynamics of relationships under scrutiny.

Topics Covered

* Coldplaygate: The viral moment that exposed Astronomer CEO Andy Byron and HR head Kristin Cabot on KissCam.

* Public vs. Private Affairs: Why some affairs explode into the public eye and what that means for those involved.

* Workplace Infidelity: Why so many affairs begin at work and the psychology behind it.

* The Clinton-Lewinsky Affair: A deep dive into the scandal, power dynamics, betrayal, and media frenzy.

* Esther Perel’s “State of Affairs”: How this book reframes infidelity and offers a path to healing.

* The Ethics of Enjoying Scandal: Grappling with the guilty pleasure of watching public drama unfold.

* Security Clearances & Infidelity: Can cheating disqualify you from high-level government roles?

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In today’s Evolving Love Podcast we discuss boundaries, limits, and unpack my recent Substack article.

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Today we are having a difficult conversation on Evolving Love. A conversation that puts the safety of our children in the spotlight.

To help us navigate this conversation, we have invited on child safety expert - Kristi McVee. Kristy was a Specialist Child Interviewer and Detective Senior Constable for 10 years in the Western Australian Police force.

Since leaving the police force, she has worked to provide parents, caregivers, and guardians with the education, tools and strategies they need to protect children from child sexual abuse and work towards a safer future for all kids.

Kristi has written a book entitled “Operation Kidsafe”, and hosts the podcast – “Conversations with Kristi”.

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Important Resources:

If you feel affected by this episode and the themes discussed, please do not hesitate to reach out to these great resources:

United States:

* Childhelp USA:

* Provides a national hotline, crisis intervention, information, and referrals.

* Hotline: 1-800-422-4453

* Website: childhelp.org

* The National Sexual Assault Hotline (RAINN):

* Offers confidential support for survivors of sexual violence.

* Hotline: 1-800-656-HOPE

* Website: rainn.org

Australia:

* Bravehearts:

* Focuses on preventing child sexual assault and supporting survivors.

* Helpline: 1800 272 831

* Website: bravehearts.org.au

* Kids Helpline:

* A free, confidential 24/7 online and phone counseling service for young people aged 5 to 25.

* Helpline: 1800 55 1800

* Website: kidshelpline.com.au

England:

* NSPCC (National Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Children):

* Provides a helpline, online resources, and support services for children and adults concerned about child abuse.

* Helpline: 0808 800 5000

* Website: nspcc.org.uk

* Childline:

* A free, confidential helpline for children and young people.

* Helpline: 0800 1111

* Website: childline.org.uk