In this episode I sat down with my dear friend and remarkable human being, Cal-I, for an honest and heartfelt conversation. This episode is for anyone navigating rejection, career pivots, or finding the courage to chase after a long-suppressed dream. Here are three standout topics we covered that really struck a chord:

1. The Challenge of Career Change and Rejection 2. The Power of Having a Supportive Partner 3. Reframing the “L”

It’s the classic “every L is a lesson, not a loss.” Cal-I unpacked how that difficult experience of rejection didn’t signal the end but rather the beginning of deeper self-discovery, hard work, and resilience. He spoke about the dangers of seeking validation from industries or institutions and instead championing the slog of incremental growth (“small steps, big moves”). The conversation also spotlighted the importance of not comparing your journey to others’, and how even the most multifaceted, high-achieving people wrestle with imposter syndrome and doubt.

Want to Hear More? Listen to this truly inspiring episode to see how small pivots, an honest support system, and relentless faith in yourself can transform failure into growth. You’ll also hear about Cal-I’s headline-grabbing one-man show "No More Mr Nice Guy", lessons learned from touring, and insights on life after letting go of old identities.

Connect & Get Involved: Show Cal-I some love on Instagram at @caljonel and check out his and his wife’s amazing educational initiative at love-literacy.com.

More about Cal-I

Cal-I Jonel, an East London-born theatremaker and award-winning actor, began his artistic journey through community-based youth work, creating and directing plays. Alongside a decade-long career as a qualified teacher, he also ventured into music as a singer-songwriter and composer. Jonel has received commissions from Queen’s Theatre and Talawa Theatre, and his second full-length play was shortlisted for the Soho Theatre Tony Craze Award, earning ‘Highly Commended’ status. Recently, he premiered and toured his debut one-man, gig-theatre piece, “No More Mr Nice Guy,” to 5-star reviews, also receiving an OFFIE nomination.

Cal-I is a devoted husband and father or three. He hopes to encourage his children, and others, to pursue their dreams and live a life that is full.

In this deeply moving episode, we sit down with Revd Geoff Clarke, a man who has faced betrayal, heartache, and depression, yet emerged with hope, resilience, and unwavering faith. Here are three compelling topics we delve into during our conversation:

1. Betrayal and Emotional Turmoil 2. The Impact of Faith and Community Support 3. The Road to Resilience and Purpose

If Geoff's story resonated with you or if you know someone going through similar struggles, please share this episode. Your support can make a difference in someone’s life. And remember, even in the toughest times, there’s a community around you ready to help.

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More about Revd Geoff Clarke:

Born in Stratford to parents David and Ivy Clarke. I lived there till I was 5, spent my junior school years in Kent and my senior school years in Hertfordshire. One of four children. Left school at 16 went to work in the City for a Stock Exchange firm and spent most of my working life in that industry. Became a Christian when I was 29 and had the call to Ordained Ministry when I was 58. I serve God in the church I have attended since finding my faith. I have been married twice, have 2 children and 3 stepchildren and I have 7 grandchildren. God has blessed me in many ways.

The full episode goes live on Monday 2nd September 2024 at 7am BST

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