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In this episode, we explore the “paradox of visibility” within the LGBTQ+ community—especially for those of us who are bisexual/bi+/pan and feel misrepresented in the world at large.

Visibility is be a powerful statement of existence and self-worth. Yet it also comes with risks: being seen can make you a target and a political scapegoat, while being erased and overlooked can lead to feels of despair and unworthiness.

Drawing on personal reflections, Ross introduces a companion to visibility: embodiment. Rather than asking to be acknowledged, embodiment asks us to discover ourselves from the inside out to take inventory of what we need.

He discusses how institutions and mainstream narratives weren’t built with our particular life experiences in mind, why external validation alone falls short, and how cultivating a sense of wholeness and "glow" can transform both our lives and the people around us.

Tune in to learn practical questions for distinguishing whether you’re acting to “be seen” or to “feel more like yourself."

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Join me for an intimate conversation with bisexual English poet Nicholas Cairns, whose raw insights illuminate the intersections of grief, isolation, and the expansive possibilities of Bi joy. Discover how Nick turned to poetry to navigate personal loss—particularly the death of his father—and to process isolation. Learn how embracing his bi+ identity not only fueled his artistic journey but empowered others seeking representation and how he went from anonymous faceless writer to putting a name and face on his work. Nick reveals how creative expression can be a powerful tool for self-discovery. If you’re looking to explore the power of poetry through an identity-focused lens, the complexities of grief, and the possibilities of living authentically, this episode offers hope and inspiration. Tune in and celebrate the limitless potential of Bi joy and human connection.

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Download the free worksheet "Externalizing Through Lists" to make a worry list or memory list discussed in this episode.

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Dive deep into the mental health needs of bisexual and queer communities of color with Dr. Tangela Roberts, a psychologist and researcher at the University of Buffalo. In this illuminating interview, Dr. Roberts shares her insights on identity development, the dual tracks of representation and policy, funding gaps that disproportionately affect bi+ individuals, despite being the majority of the LGBTQ+ population, and reveals how systemic barriers shape both healthcare and educational experiences for queer youth. Discover how embracing all parts of one’s identity can foster resilience, counter feelings of isolation, and fuel personal growth. From debunking damaging myths to championing intersectional research, Dr. Roberts offers practical steps for accessing community for the first time, finding supportive care, and affirming your full, authentic self. Tune in for expert guidance and actionable strategies! Dr. Tangela reminds us that embracing ourselves can feel scary while we try to anchor ourselves in a world that systemically diminishes bi+ voices and people of color as agendas. https://www.instagram.com/talk2drtangi/

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Join host Ross Victory for an illuminating interview with bisexual Mexican American author Aaron H. Aceves, whose novel, This Is Why They Hate Us, boldly explores queerness, culture, and coming-of-age in East Los Angeles. In this inaugural episode, hear how Aaron channeled his personal experiences—straddling multiple identities and grappling with self-discovery—into a story that brings raw honesty and humor to themes often left unspoken. Discover how writing became Aaron’s path to embracing his own bisexuality, why he’s passionate about creating nuanced characters who challenge stereotypes, and how subverting tropes adds depth and authenticity to YA fiction. Whether you’re new to LGBTQ+ literature, an aspiring writer yearning to tell your truth, or simply curious about the magic of identity-focused storytelling, this episode offers an inspiring roadmap to owning your voice. Tune in for a candid look into Aaron’s writing process, insights on representation in publishing, and the surprising ways fictional characters can become our greatest teachers. Visit Aaron's site to learn more about his writing and future projects www.aaronhaceves.com

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In this special teaser for Embracing All of Me, author, artist, and entrepreneur Ross Victory reveals how a simple course listing sparked an entire creative enterprise. Learn why this podcast—anchored in bisexual mens’ experiences yet resonant to anyone with fluid or evolving identities—goes beyond traditional conversations about sexuality, identity, and community. Ross opens up about the fragmentation many face while juggling cultural, racial, and gender expectations, and how “identity-focused writing” can become a tool for empowerment. Hear about the upcoming book, real stories from dynamic guests, and the process of merging who you are with how you show up in the world. If you’ve ever felt torn between labels or craving deeper, heart-centered self-expression, this is your invitation!

To pre-order the book visit: https://rossvictory.com/embracingallofme

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