In this podcast episode, San Diego divorce and child custody attorney and mediator, Brian A. Victor discusses child custody and divorce matters. Specifically, he explains the one mistake smart parents make in custody cases and don’t even realize it. He provides insight into why this mistake is so common. Attorney Victor also discusses how psychology plays a role in custody disputes.

Listen to Attorney Brian A. Victor as he provides real-world examples of parents who come into court, Family Court Services, or divorce and custody mediation sessions and how they can change their perspectives on parenting. Brian tells the listener what judges and mediators want to hear and how to avoid making mistakes during the court process.

Attorney Brian A. Victor has experience both in the field of psychology as well as in divorce and child custody in San Diego. He worked at Family Court Services in San Diego for more than 11 years where he created and recommended to family court judges parenting plans for parents unable to reach agreement on a child custody plan. Attorney Victor is also a licensed Marriage Family Therapist in California. He is an Adjunct Professor of Law at Purdue Global Law School.

Divorce and Child Custody Discussion with Attorney Brian A. Victor was named one of the Top 15 Child Custody Podcasts You Must Follow by Feedspot and one of the Top 100 Divorce Podcasts, one of the Top 40 Mediation Podcasts, and number 2 in a list of the Top 30 Child Custody Podcasts by Million Podcasts.

Remember to subscribe to Attorney Victor’s podcast on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Amazon Music, Deezer, Podchaser and wherever you listen to your podcasts so as not to miss any important discussions regarding divorce and child custody.

The information provided in this podcast is to inform rather than to provide therapeutic or legal advice and nothing in this podcast creates an attorney-client relationship.

This podcast contains a sample of “We Just Begun” (C) by King B.A.V. Published by King BAV Music ASCAP Used by permission. All rights reserved.

In this podcast episode, San Diego divorce and child custody attorney and mediator, Brian A. Victor discusses child custody and divorce matters. Specifically, he provides insight into the emotional challenges a new year brings for divorce and custody matters. He provides a discussion of the common mistakes people make early in the year regarding their legal matters. Attorney Victor also explains what to expect from this podcast in the coming year.

Listen to Attorney Brian A. Victor as he discusses the difference between realistic goals vs. emotional goals. Brian talks about a healthier approach for moving forward in your life.

Attorney Brian A. Victor has experience both in the field of psychology as well as in divorce and child custody in San Diego. He worked at Family Court Services in San Diego for more than 11 years where he created and recommended to family court judges parenting plans for parents unable to reach agreement on a child custody plan. Attorney Victor is also a licensed Marriage Family Therapist in California. He is an Adjunct Professor of Law at Purdue Global Law School.

Divorce and Child Custody Discussion with Attorney Brian A. Victor was named one of the Top 15 Child Custody Podcasts You Must Follow by Feedspot and one of the Top 100 Divorce Podcasts, one of the Top 40 Mediation Podcasts, and number 2 in a list of the Top 30 Child Custody Podcasts by Million Podcasts.

Remember to subscribe to Attorney Victor’s podcast on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Amazon Music, Deezer, Podchaser and wherever you listen to your podcasts so as not to miss any important discussions regarding divorce and child custody.

The information provided in this podcast is to inform rather than to provide therapeutic or legal advice and nothing in this podcast creates an attorney-client relationship.

This podcast contains a sample of “We Just Begun” (C) by King B.A.V. Published by King BAV Music ASCAP Used by permission. All rights reserved.

In this podcast episode, San Diego divorce and child custody attorney and mediator, Brian A. Victor discusses child custody and divorce matters. He provides a review of topics discussed in 2025 on the Divorce and Child Custody Discussion podcast. He provides a reflection of the year and the highlights of the podcast. Attorney Victor explains why this podcast exists and thanks his listeners to their support during 2025.

Listen to Attorney Brian A. Victor as he discusses his thoughts about the growth of this podcast and plans for 2026. He mentions the addition of special guests during some upcoming podcast episodes.

Happy holidays and Happy New Year! Looking ahead to a great 2026.

Attorney Brian A. Victor has experience both in the field of psychology as well as in divorce and child custody in San Diego. He worked at Family Court Services in San Diego for more than 11 years where he created and recommended to family court judges parenting plans for parents unable to reach agreement on a child custody plan. Attorney Victor is also a licensed Marriage Family Therapist in California. He is an Adjunct Professor of Law at Purdue Global Law School.

Divorce and Child Custody Discussion with Attorney Brian A. Victor was named one of the Top 15 Child Custody Podcasts You Must Follow by Feedspot and one of the Top 100 Divorce Podcasts, one of the Top 40 Mediation Podcasts, and number 2 in a list of the Top 30 Child Custody Podcasts by Million Podcasts.

Remember to subscribe to Attorney Victor’s podcast on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Amazon Music, Deezer, Podchaser and wherever you listen to your podcasts so as not to miss any important discussions regarding divorce and child custody.

The information provided in this podcast is to inform rather than to provide therapeutic or legal advice and nothing in this podcast creates an attorney-client relationship.

This podcast contains a sample of “We Just Begun” (C) by King B.A.V. Published by King BAV Music ASCAP Used by permission. All rights reserved.

In this podcast episode, San Diego divorce and child custody attorney and mediator, Brian A. Victor discusses child custody and divorce matters; specifically, explaining why Family Court Services isn’t what you think and that's why parents get it wrong. Attorney Victor describes how his experience as a former Family Court Services (FCS) mediator can help you learn about the FCS process and how he can prepare you for your FCS session.

Listen to Attorney Brian A. Victor as he explains what Family Court Services is designed to do. Additionally, he provides insight into the biggest mistakes parents make during their Family Court Services custody mediation session. Learn about what Family Court Services scores you on. Attorney Victor provides you with the ability to walk into FCS in order to succeed.

Attorney Brian A. Victor has experience both in the field of psychology as well as in divorce and child custody in San Diego. He worked at Family Court Services in San Diego for more than 11 years where he created and recommended to family court judges parenting plans for parents unable to reach agreement on a child custody plan. Attorney Victor is also a licensed Marriage Family Therapist in California. He is an Adjunct Professor of Law at Purdue Global Law School.

Divorce and Child Custody Discussion with Attorney Brian A. Victor was named one of the Top 15 Child Custody Podcasts You Must Follow by Feedspot and one of the Top 100 Divorce Podcasts, one of the Top 40 Mediation Podcasts, and number 2 in a list of the Top 30 Child Custody Podcasts by Million Podcasts.

Remember to subscribe to Attorney Victor’s podcast on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Amazon Music, Deezer, Podchaser and wherever you listen to your podcasts so as not to miss any important discussions regarding divorce and child custody.

The information provided in this podcast is to inform rather than to provide therapeutic or legal advice and nothing in this podcast creates an attorney-client relationship.

Podcast contains a sample of “We Just Begun” (C) by King B.A.V. Published by King BAV Music ASCAP Used by permission. All rights reserved.

In this podcast episode, San Diego divorce and child custody attorney and mediator, Brian A. Victor discusses child custody and divorce matters; specifically, the one sentence that can ruin your custody case. Attorney Victor explores the importance of staying child focused when in mediation or court regarding your child custody case.

Listen to Attorney Brian A. Victor as he discusses common pitfalls parents fall into when discussing custody at mediation, Family Court Services, or in court. Additionally, he provides insight about what to avoid saying in those situations and what you should focus on instead. Attorney Victor provides a real world example to show parents how to navigate mediation and court during a custody case.

Attorney Brian A. Victor has experience both in the field of psychology as well as in divorce and child custody in San Diego. He worked at Family Court Services in San Diego for more than 11 years where he created and recommended to family court judges parenting plans for parents unable to reach agreement on a child custody plan. Attorney Victor is also a licensed Marriage Family Therapist in California. He is an Adjunct Professor of Law at Purdue Global Law School.

Divorce and Child Custody Discussion with Attorney Brian A. Victor was named one of the Top 15 Child Custody Podcasts You Must Follow by Feedspot and one of the Top 100 Divorce Podcasts, one of the Top 40 Mediation Podcasts, and number 2 in a list of the Top 30 Child Custody Podcasts by Million Podcasts.

Remember to subscribe to Attorney Victor’s podcast on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Amazon Music, Deezer, Podchaser and wherever you listen to your podcasts so as not to miss any important discussions regarding divorce and child custody.

The information provided in this podcast is to inform rather than to provide therapeutic or legal advice and nothing in this podcast creates an attorney-client relationship.

Podcast contains a sample of “We Just Begun” (C) by King B.A.V. Published by King BAV Music ASCAP Used by permission. All rights reserved.

In this podcast episode, San Diego divorce and child custody attorney and mediator, Brian A. Victor discusses child custody and divorce matters; specifically, the impact of social media on custody cases. Attorney Victor explores the importance of understanding what kind of social media content can be used as evidence in child custody cases.

Listen to Attorney Brian A. Victor as he discusses common pitfalls parents fall into when posting on social media. Additionally, he provides insight about the best practices and protective measures parents can take when posting on social media. Attorney Victor explains how parents can navigate social media responsibly during a custody case.

Attorney Brian A. Victor has experience both in the field of psychology as well as in divorce and child custody in San Diego. He worked at Family Court Services in San Diego for more than 11 years where he created and recommended to family court judges parenting plans for parents unable to reach agreement on a child custody plan. Attorney Victor is also a licensed Marriage Family Therapist in California. He is an Adjunct Professor of Law at Purdue Global Law School.

Divorce and Child Custody Discussion with Attorney Brian A. Victor was named one of the Top 15 Child Custody Podcasts You Must Follow by Feedspot and one of the Top 100 Divorce Podcasts, one of the Top 40 Mediation Podcasts, and number 2 in a list of the Top 30 Child Custody Podcasts by Million Podcasts.

Remember to subscribe to Attorney Victor’s podcast on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Amazon Music, Deezer, Podchaser and wherever you listen to your podcasts so as not to miss any important discussions regarding divorce and child custody.
The information provided in this podcast is to inform rather than to provide therapeutic or legal advice and nothing in this podcast creates an attorney-client relationship.

Podcast contains a sample of “We Just Begun” (C) by King B.A.V. Published by King BAV Music ASCAP Used by permission. All rights reserved.

In this podcast episode, San Diego divorce and child custody attorney and mediator, Brian A. Victor discusses child custody and divorce matters; specifically, divorce mediation. In part five of this five-part special series, Inside Divorce Mediation, Attorney Victor explores how to turn mediation agreements into a long-term way of life.

Listen to Attorney Brian A. Victor as he discusses why mediation doesn’t end when you sign the settlement agreement. Additionally, he provides insight to help turn a mediation agreement into a court order. Attorney Victor explains how to implement the agreement into everyday life and the attorney’s role in helping their clients successfully navigate life after mediation.

Attorney Victor further explains the importance of flexibility to avoid chaos when following the mediation agreement and how to deal with when things don’t go as planned after mediation. Additionally, he discusses the child’s perspective regarding mediation agreements. Attorney Victor provides a real-life example from inside the mediation room.

Attorney Brian A. Victor has experience both in the field of psychology as well as in divorce and child custody in San Diego. He worked at Family Court Services in San Diego for more than 11 years where he created and recommended to family court judges parenting plans for parents unable to reach agreement on a child custody plan. Attorney Victor is also a licensed Marriage Family Therapist in California. He is an Adjunct Professor of Law at Purdue Global Law School.

Divorce and Child Custody Discussion with Attorney Brian A. Victor was named one of the Top 15 Child Custody Podcasts You Must Follow by Feedspot and one of the Top 100 Divorce Podcasts, one of the Top 40 Mediation Podcasts, and number 2 in a list of the Top 30 Child Custody Podcasts by Million Podcasts.

Remember to subscribe to Attorney Victor’s podcast on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Amazon Music, Deezer, Podchaser and wherever you listen to your podcasts so as not to miss any important discussions regarding divorce and child custody.
The information provided in this podcast is to inform rather than to provide therapeutic or legal advice and nothing in this podcast creates an attorney-client relationship.

Contains a sample of “We Just Begun” (C) by King B.A.V. Published by King BAV Music ASCAP Used by permission. All rights reserved.

In this podcast episode, San Diego divorce and child custody attorney and mediator, Brian A. Victor discusses child custody and divorce matters; specifically, divorce mediation. In part four of this five-part special series, Inside Divorce Mediation, Attorney Victor explores the importance of understanding when to settle and when to stand firm in mediation.

Listen to Attorney Brian A. Victor as he discusses why mediation is a balancing act. Additionally, he provides insight to help participants identify what truly matters regarding a plan for success in divorce mediation. Attorney Victor explains the cost of winning and the danger of settling too quickly.

Attorney Victor further explains the importance of understanding when to stand firm in your position in mediation. Additionally, he discusses the long-term implications of the settlement agreement. Attorney Victor provides a real-life example from inside the mediation room.

Attorney Brian A. Victor has experience both in the field of psychology as well as in divorce and child custody in San Diego. He worked at Family Court Services in San Diego for more than 11 years where he created and recommended to family court judges parenting plans for parents unable to reach agreement on a child custody plan. Attorney Victor is also a licensed Marriage Family Therapist in California. He is an Adjunct Professor of Law at Purdue Global Law School.

Divorce and Child Custody Discussion with Attorney Brian A. Victor was named one of the Top 15 Child Custody Podcasts You Must Follow by Feedspot and one of the Top 100 Divorce Podcasts, one of the Top 40 Mediation Podcasts, and number 2 in a list of the Top 30 Child Custody Podcasts by Million Podcasts.

Remember to subscribe to Attorney Victor’s podcast on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Amazon Music, Deezer, Podchaser and wherever you listen to your podcasts so as not to miss any important discussions regarding divorce and child custody.
The information provided in this podcast is to inform rather than to provide therapeutic or legal advice and nothing in this podcast creates an attorney-client relationship.

Contains a sample of “We Just Begun” (C) by King B.A.V. Published by King BAV Music ASCAP Used by permission. All rights reserved.