Dateable AF Show Notes: E2:E8

Sarah and Rachel discuss Coming Out Late in Life! Please reach out to Sarah and Rachel- they would love to hear from you all! The Dateable AF podcast is hosted by Dr. Sarah Kyle and Rachel Howell.

Producer: Jordan Cannon & Shelly Silvey Grabe

Theme Song: Cade Kyle

Cover Photo: Mackenzie Mowat

Dateable AF is a podcast about all things lesbian dating—or queer dating—or women-who-date-women dating. Whatever letter you vibe with, if you're a woman who dates women, this one's for you.

Hosted by two longtime friends, this show dives into the wild, wonderful, and often WTF world of dating women—with honesty, humor, and zero shame. Expect smart takes, relatable stories, and the occasional U-Haul reference.

Episode 2 Rachel & Dr. Kyle explain Lesbian dating and the tendency to move in after the first date.

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Dateable AF Season 2 Episode 7

The Dateable AF podcast is hosted by Dr. Sarah Kyle and Rachel Howell.

Producer: Jordan Cannon

Theme Song: Cade Kyle

Cover Photo: Mackenzie Mowat

Dateable AF is a podcast about all things lesbian dating—or queer dating—or women-who-date-women dating. Whatever letter you vibe with, if you're a woman who dates women, this one's for you.

Hosted by two longtime friends, this show dives into the wild, wonderful, and often WTF world of dating women—with honesty, humor, and zero shame. Expect smart takes, relatable stories, and the occasional U-Haul reference.

💌 Have you ever thought your partner didn’t love you enough—only to realize they just show it differently?

In this episode, we unpack Gary Chapman’s 5 Love Languages—why they’ve become relationship gospel, why they’re sometimes misunderstood, and how to translate your partner’s “I love you” even when it doesn’t sound like yours.

We cover:

• The Big Five: words, acts, gifts, time, touch
• Why love languages click for people—but also spark debate
• Common translation fails (hello, laundry-folding vs. “I love you”)
• How to decode what your partner really means
• Why love languages are tools, not rules

✨ Takeaway: It’s less about perfection, more about effort. Learn to “translate,” and your relationship fluency goes way up.

📌 Next week: Apologies That Don’t Count—why half-hearted sorrys keep couples stuck, and how to repair for real.

🎙️ The Dateable AF Podcast — because women dating women is wild, wonderful, and occasionally a disaster.

#DateableAF #LoveLanguages #GaryChapman #LesbianDating #WLW #DatingPodcast #RelationshipTips #QueerLove #WomenWhoLoveWomen #DatingFails #LoveAndRelationships

A huge thanks to our sponsors and trailblazers at Shody Media LLC

Dateable AF Season 2 Episode 6

The Dateable AF podcast is hosted by Dr. Sarah Kyle and Rachel Howell.

Producer: Jordan Cannon

Theme Song: Cade Kyle

Cover Photo: Mackenzie Mowat

Dateable AF is a podcast about all things lesbian dating—or queer dating—or women-who-date-women dating. Whatever letter you vibe with, if you're a woman who dates women, this one's for you.

Hosted by two longtime friends, this show dives into the wild, wonderful, and often WTF world of dating women—with honesty, humor, and zero shame. Expect smart takes, relatable stories, and the occasional U-Haul reference.

💌 Have you ever thought your partner didn’t love you enough—only to realize they just show it differently?

In this episode, we unpack Gary Chapman’s 5 Love Languages—why they’ve become relationship gospel, why they’re sometimes misunderstood, and how to translate your partner’s “I love you” even when it doesn’t sound like yours.

We cover:

• The Big Five: words, acts, gifts, time, touch
• Why love languages click for people—but also spark debate
• Common translation fails (hello, laundry-folding vs. “I love you”)
• How to decode what your partner really means
• Why love languages are tools, not rules

✨ Takeaway: It’s less about perfection, more about effort. Learn to “translate,” and your relationship fluency goes way up.

📌 Next week: Apologies That Don’t Count—why half-hearted sorrys keep couples stuck, and how to repair for real.

🎙️ The Dateable AF Podcast — because women dating women is wild, wonderful, and occasionally a disaster.

#DateableAF #LoveLanguages #GaryChapman #LesbianDating #WLW #DatingPodcast #RelationshipTips #QueerLove #WomenWhoLoveWomen #DatingFails #LoveAndRelationships

A huge thanks to our sponsors and trailblazers at Shody Media LLC

Dateable AF Season 2 Episode 5

The Dateable AF podcast is hosted by Dr. Sarah Kyle and Rachel Howell.

Producer: Jordan Cannon

Theme Song: Cade Kyle

Cover Photo: Mackenzie Mowat

Dateable AF is a podcast about all things lesbian dating—or queer dating—or women-who-date-women dating. Whatever letter you vibe with, if you're a woman who dates women, this one's for you.

Hosted by two longtime friends, this show dives into the wild, wonderful, and often WTF world of dating women—with honesty, humor, and zero shame. Expect smart takes, relatable stories, and the occasional U-Haul reference.

💌 Have you ever thought your partner didn’t love you enough—only to realize they just show it differently?

In this episode, we unpack Gary Chapman’s 5 Love Languages—why they’ve become relationship gospel, why they’re sometimes misunderstood, and how to translate your partner’s “I love you” even when it doesn’t sound like yours.

We cover:

• The Big Five: words, acts, gifts, time, touch
• Why love languages click for people—but also spark debate
• Common translation fails (hello, laundry-folding vs. “I love you”)
• How to decode what your partner really means
• Why love languages are tools, not rules

✨ Takeaway: It’s less about perfection, more about effort. Learn to “translate,” and your relationship fluency goes way up.

📌 Next week: Apologies That Don’t Count—why half-hearted sorrys keep couples stuck, and how to repair for real.

🎙️ The Dateable AF Podcast — because women dating women is wild, wonderful, and occasionally a disaster.

#DateableAF #LoveLanguages #GaryChapman #LesbianDating #WLW #DatingPodcast #RelationshipTips #QueerLove #WomenWhoLoveWomen #DatingFails #LoveAndRelationships

A huge thanks to our sponsors and trailblazers at Shody Media LLC

Dateable AF Season 2 Episode 4

The Dateable AF podcast is hosted by Dr. Sarah Kyle and Rachel Howell.

Producer: Jordan Cannon

Theme Song: Cade Kyle

Cover Photo: Mackenzie Mowat

Dateable AF is a podcast about all things lesbian dating—or queer dating—or women-who-date-women dating. Whatever letter you vibe with, if you're a woman who dates women, this one's for you.

Hosted by two longtime friends, this show dives into the wild, wonderful, and often WTF world of dating women—with honesty, humor, and zero shame. Expect smart takes, relatable stories, and the occasional U-Haul reference.

👓✨ Age gaps in 2025: one of you’s reaching for reading glasses, the other’s adjusting the ring light.

This week, we’re diving into age-gap relationships—the fascination, the judgments, and the real-life dynamics behind the gossip.

We cover:

• Why people are so nosy about age gaps (power, motives, and cultural scripts)
• The romance of contrast: playlists vs. mixtapes, novelty vs. stability
• Common judgments: “gold digger,” “midlife crisis,” and why they usually say more about the onlooker than the couple
• Private realities: how couples actually make it work (hint: they fight about Netflix, not just age)
• Communication tips when you’re in mismatched life stages
• Handling outside judgment with confidence

💡 Takeaway: Age gaps aren’t inherently good or bad—it’s all about power, pace, and play.

📌 Next week: Love Languages or Lost in Translation? Why your partner’s way of showing love might feel like a foreign language (and how to actually get the message).

🎙️ The Dateable AF Podcast — because women dating women is wild, wonderful, and occasionally a disaster.

#DateableAF #LesbianDating #WLW #LovePodcast #AgeGapRelationships #QueerLove #WomenWhoLoveWomen #DatingPodcast #RelationshipTalk #CougarTown

A huge thanks to our sponsors and trailblazers at Shody Media LLC

Dateable AF Season 2 Episode 3

The Dateable AF podcast is hosted by Dr. Sarah Kyle and Rachel Howell.

Producer: Jordan Cannon

Theme Song: Cade Kyle

Cover Photo: Mackenzie Mowat

Dateable AF is a podcast about all things lesbian dating—or queer dating—or women-who-date-women dating. Whatever letter you vibe with, if you're a woman who dates women, this one's for you.

Hosted by two longtime friends, this show dives into the wild, wonderful, and often WTF world of dating women—with honesty, humor, and zero shame. Expect smart takes, relatable stories, and the occasional U-Haul reference.

A huge thanks to our sponsors and trailblazers at Shody Media LLC