Episode 221 - Out of Place but Learning to Balance, What a Post Turtle Can Teach A Dad

Sometimes in life, we find ourselves as human post turtles. Maybe it’s that coworker who somehow got promoted to manager and you’re scratching your head wondering how. Or that pop star who’s suddenly the face of everything, but can’t carry a tune in a bucket. The idea is the same—they didn’t get there on their own. Someone lifted them up, put them there, and now they’re just trying to figure out what to do with it.

As dads, we get it. None of us really “earned” fatherhood through a test or certification. One day we were just placed there—sometimes ready, often not. Suddenly, we’re balancing on this narrow post called “Dad Life,” looking down, hoping we don’t fall, wondering who thought this was a good idea anyway.

But here’s the thing about post turtles: even though they didn’t get up there on their own, they’re there now. And like us, they have two choices—freeze up and panic, or adapt and learn to balance. That’s the heart of the dad journey. We might not have all the answers, but we learn on the post. We lean on other dads. We adjust our footing. And maybe, we even learn to enjoy the view from up there.

Reflection Segment

So, who put you on your post? Maybe it was your partner, your parents, your kids, or maybe life itself. The truth is, we’ve all had help. And that’s not something to hide—it’s something to honor. Every dad who’s ever rocked a newborn at 3 AM, every dad who’s shown up to a recital or a soccer game after a long week, every dad trying to be present—each one is a post turtle in his own way. We didn’t get here alone, and we’re not staying balanced by ourselves either.

Next time you feel like a post turtle—awkward, unsure, maybe out of place—remember: it’s normal. You’re not alone on that fence post, and there’s a whole community of dads out here cheering you on, helping you find your balance.

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Episode 220 - An Introvert’s Perspective - The Quiet Truth For Dads About Energy and Connection

An Introvert’s Perspective: The Quiet Truth About Energy and Connection

In this episode, the conversation centers on a familiar frustration for many introverts—the misconceptions people have about what it means to be quiet, reserved, or private. The host explores three common phrases that introverts often hear and why they can be both unhelpful and misunderstood.

The first is the casual observation, “You’re so quiet. Are you okay?” For introverts, their quietness is not a sign of something being wrong; it’s simply their natural rhythm. Asking them to defend their silence can make social interactions even more uncomfortable. Quiet is not a problem to be fixed—it’s part of how some people process the world.

The second remark, “You need to get out more,” misses the point of introversion entirely. Introverts do not need more external stimulation to feel complete. Home and solitude are restorative spaces where their energy is recharged. They venture out when they are ready, not when social expectations demand it.

And then there’s, “You need to loosen up.” For an introvert, this can feel like pressure to perform rather than an invitation to connect. Instead of making them feel relaxed, it often highlights the very discomfort they were trying to manage quietly.

To help make sense of these differences, the host offers a vivid analogy: introverts start each day with five coins, and every social interaction costs them one. By the end of the day, their coins are spent—they need alone time to refill their emotional balance. Extroverts, however, begin with zero coins and earn one from every interaction. Their energy grows through engagement and connection.

This simple idea explains why introverts and extroverts sometimes misunderstand each other. When an extrovert suggests happy hour after work, they’re riding a social high, eager to keep going. The introvert, meanwhile, has exhausted their coin supply. The two operate on different energy economies—one earning through interaction, the other conserving through solitude.

But these differences aren’t barriers to friendship or love. They’re opportunities for understanding. When both sides recognize how the other recharges, connection becomes easier and more genuine. Whether you’re an introvert protecting your peace or an extrovert chasing new connections, empathy is the bridge that keeps relationships balanced.

Key Takeaway:

Introversion and extroversion are not opposites—they are complementary ways of managing energy. Understanding the balance between solitude and connection leads to stronger relationships and deeper respect for how others navigate the world.

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Episode 219 - Trust, Truth, and Tense Talks - Dad Strategies for Marriage Recovery

Trust is the foundation of any healthy marriage—but when it’s broken, even everyday conversations can feel like navigating a minefield. This episode explores the warning signs that trust is eroding, why it matters for dads, and practical ways to rebuild connection with your partner and kids. Whether you’re just noticing distance or working to heal after hurt, you’re not alone—let’s talk honestly about trust, respect, and hope for your family.

Communication Feels Like Navigating Shaky Ground

When trust is strong, you can talk about anything. When it’s shaky, you walk on eggshells, afraid that any word or topic could set off conflict. Instead of open and spontaneous connection, conversations become guarded and stressful. As a dad and partner, you might find yourself second-guessing every word or avoiding important topics altogether. Taking small, honest steps—like sharing feelings even when it’s tough—can open the path to rebuilding safety and trust.

Checking Up vs. Checking In: Which One Are You Doing?

It’s normal to check in with your partner out of care, but when trust fades, those moments shift into suspicion—“Where were you? Who were you with?” Instead of genuine connection, you find yourself interrogating or feeling interrogated. Choosing to check in daily, with curiosity and respect, helps restore emotional safety and turns tense interactions back into moments of support.

You Default to Negative Interpretations

When trust is lost, it’s easy to assume negative intentions—seeing innocent actions through a lens of doubt. This cycle can reinforce hurt and distance for both partners. One powerful change: choose to believe the best in each other and give your partner the benefit of the doubt, just as you’d want for yourself. This mindset shift can slowly break the cycle and bring hope back to your marriage.

• If trust is low, communication will start to feel tense and unsafe—be gentle with yourself and your partner as you work through it.
• Checking in should be a sign of care, not control. With practice, you can rebuild mutual respect, even after setbacks.
• Dads play a key role in modeling trust and honesty, both in marriage and with their kids.
• Real trust grows from small, consistent choices to communicate openly, assume the best, and repair mistakes together.

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Episode 218 - The Pencil’s Tale - Five Lessons Every Dad Should Share and Teach Their Kids

The story itself appears to be an anonymous parable, sometimes called "The Pencil Maker’s Parable," but has been attributed to adaptors such as Jimmy Reed and featured in inspirational columns and children’s teachings.

Here is the tale:

The Pencils Tale.

Once upon a time, an old pencil maker took his newest pencil aside just before he was about to pack him into a box. Imagining the little fellow as a person, he recalled a few things about the pencil.

There are five things you need to know, he said to his pencil, before I send you out into the world.

Always remember these five things. Never forget them and you will become the best pencil you can be.

The first thing is to remember that you will be able to do many great things, but only if you put yourself in someone else's hands.

From time to time you will experience a painful sharpening, but remember that this will make you a better pencil.

Also, keep in mind that you will be able to correct any mistakes you might make along the way. The most important part of you is what's on the inside.

And remember this as well. Upon every surface that you are used, you must leave your mark. No matter what else happens, you must continue to write.

It seemed the pencil listened to him and promised he would remember these five things, so that he could live his life with heart and purpose. You see in life, in your life, put yourself in someone else's hand.

Embrace challenges for growth. Learn from mistakes, value inner qualities and leave a positive mark on the world. And you too can become the best pencil there is.

This was the pencils tale

"The Pencil’s Tale" offers simple, profound lessons that resonate for dads at every stage of parenting. By sharing this parable with children, fathers model the values of humility, resilience, and purpose. The pencil’s journey provides a natural metaphor for growth, learning, and character—qualities every dad hopes to nurture in their kids.

• Acceptance of Guidance: The pencil succeeds by allowing itself to be guided. Likewise, dads can teach children that everyone benefits from mentors, family, and friends. Being open to support leads to doing great things.
• Embracing Challenges and Growth: Like sharpening a pencil, life’s difficulties shape us. Dads can explain that painful experiences (hard lessons, discipline, setbacks) help us grow stronger and better, no matter our age.
• Learning from Mistakes: Erasers let us fix errors, and so can honesty and forgiveness. Teaching kids that mistakes aren’t final—and can be corrected—empowers them to try again and learn without fear.
• Valuing What’s Inside: The most important part of a person (or pencil) is what’s inside: character, kindness, and integrity. Dads can emphasize that inner qualities matter more than outside appearances.
• Leaving a Positive Mark: Everyone leaves a mark in the world—through actions, words, and kindness. Encouraging children to be intentional about the impact they make helps them live a life with purpose.

By retelling this parable, dads foster meaningful conversations about values, resilience, and making a difference, while building trust and deeper bonds with their families.

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Episode 217 - Movember, A Birthday, Some Coffee and a Huge Thank you to You

Hey, thanks for pressing play! It is Nov 13th - Dave's birthday, we share a coffee together, we talk Movember and why this is important and we say thanks to you - thanks for being apart of this podcast and for making this your home for all things Dad - this space is for you!

If this podcast has brought value to you - please consider sending some coffee back to the show with our buy me a coffee link

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Episode 216 - Another Great Dad Podcast - The All Pro Dad Podcast

The All Pro Dad Podcast is a weekly show dedicated to helping fathers navigate the challenges of parenting with intention, humility, and love. Created by Family First, the nonprofit behind the All Pro Dad movement founded by Mark Merrill and Coach Tony Dungy, the podcast extends the mission of helping dads “love and lead their families well” into modern, relatable conversations.

Each episode of the All Pro Dad Podcast focuses on one central parenting question, tackling real-life topics with humor, wisdom, and compassion. Hosted by Ted Lowe, Bobby Lewis, and BJ Foster, the show explores the joys and struggles of being an engaged father in today’s world. The tone is honest and approachable — designed for dads who don’t have all the answers but genuinely want to get better.

The podcast aims to create a space where dads can laugh, learn, and feel less alone in their parenting journey. Episodes blend personal stories, expert insights, and “Pro Moves” — actionable takeaways dads can apply right away at home.

Episodes cover a wide range of fatherhood and family subjects, including:

• Parenting and communication — Building trust and emotional connection with kids.
• Marriage and teamwork — Strengthening partnership and balance at home.
• Discipline and encouragement — Finding the right blend of correction and care.
• Modern challenges — Navigating social media, technology, and the "manosphere."
• Character and resilience — Raising emotionally strong, respectful children.
• Mental health for dads — Encouraging emotional openness, reflection, and community support.

Recent and fan-favorite episodes include:

• How Can I Improve as a Dad? – Knowing when to ask for feedback from your kids, spouse, or mentors.​​
• Should Dads Be Worried About the Manosphere? – Discussing how media messages shape young men's views.​
• Building Resilience in Children – Featuring insights from Dr. Chinwé Williams on helping kids handle adversity.​
• What’s the Best Part About Being a Girl Dad? – Celebrating father-daughter bonds.​
• 5 Ways Dads Cause Family Tension and 4 Things You Must Do After Yelling at Your Kids – Honest reflections on mistakes and growth.

• Approachable Format: Simple, 15–20-minute conversations centered on real-life parenting questions.
• Rooted in Faith & Practicality: Blends Christian values with relatable, modern advice.
• Diverse Guest Input: Features experts, coaches, and dads from various backgrounds.
• Actionable Takeaways: Each episode ends with a “Pro Move” — a small, tangible way to improve family life that week.

New episodes of the All Pro Dad Podcast release weekly and are available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, and AllProDad.com/podcast.​

In short, the All Pro Dad Podcast is built for men who want to be intentional about fatherhood — not perfect dads, but all-pro dads who keep showing up, learning, and growing every day.

https://movember.com/

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Episode 215 - Jennifer Celeste Briggs - Parenting Differently, Autism, Finding Balance and Being Enough

Jennifer Celeste Briggs has a BA in English Literature from Swarthmore college. She lives in Pittsburgh, PA with her husband and two daughters. Her daughter Sarah has a genetic anomaly and autism. When Sarah was four, Jenny decided to run a Son-Rise Program for her, calling it Sarah-Rise, and training at the Autism Treatment Center of America.

The Son-Rise Program is a loving child-centered approach to helping those with autism and other challenges connect socially, verbally, and through increased eye contact. Organizing hundreds of hours of therapeutic play time for Sarah, Jenny trained and coordinated multiple volunteers who contributed their love and creativity to the venture. Jenny started a blog to share the experience of Sarah-Rise and has heard multiple times that her words were helpful to others dealing with life struggles.

Jenny wants to help parents feel understood and to spread the word about The Son-Rise Program. She hopes that her words bring comfort, joy, and inspiration to readers whatever their challenges and journeys may be.

Sarah is a feisty and determined four-year-old with autism and a unique genetic blueprint. Her mom Jenny is equally feisty and determined, which leads to clashes and strife but also leads to phenomenal connection and progress as Jenny runs a Son-Rise Program for her, calling it Sarah-Rise.

The Son-Rise Program is an approach to working with people with autism to foster social connection. It provides intensely loving, focused one-on-one therapeutic play time, meeting Sarah where she is and never stopping her repetitive behaviors. Sarah’s language explodes, her eye contact intensifies, she plays games, plays imaginatively, uses the potty, eats healthily, reads, and writes.

Playing with Sarah is deeply rewarding for the volunteers who spend time in the Sarah-Rise room. While Jenny sometimes doubts herself and criticizes her parenting, she also explores new pathways to gentleness, joy, and laughter. She celebrates Sarah’s successes, marveling at the depth of love and creativity that her volunteers bring to the scene and stretching her own creative self. Accompany Jenny from Sarah’s birth through the decision to run Sarah-Rise, and follow the years of Sarah-Rise, pretending that markers are flowers and number flashcards are snowflakes. Have your heart warmed and your socks knocked off by this momentous journey.

“Watching Sarah Rise is equally informative as it is inspirational, gracious as it is gutsy. A beautifully written story filled with hope, integrity, and pure emotion, Briggs intimately invites her reader to experience the unique heartbreak and joy that comes with mothering a neurodivergent child.”

-Sherry Sidoti, author of A Smoke and a Song: A Memoir

https://www.watchingsarahrise.com/

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Episode 214 - What Search Has Said About the Dad Space Podcast - Our Mission to Support Dads Continues

The Dad Space Podcast, hosted by Dave Campbell in Ontario, Canada, is a community-focused show created "for dads, by dads." Dave—himself a father of three adult children and an empty nester—aims to provide a welcoming space for fathers to connect, share stories, and support one another on their unique parenting journeys. The podcast recognizes the evolving challenges of fatherhood and the need for camaraderie, advice, and encouragement among dads of all backgrounds—whether you’re a new dad, stepdad, empty nester, or grandfather

Dad Space Podcast is dedicated to equipping dads with practical advice and inspiration for all aspects of parenting and family life. Episodes often feature guests who share their own "dad journeys," offering a mix of personal stories, actionable tips, and encouragement. The show covers how-to guidance, marriage and relationship insights, family bonding ideas, and, of course, the occasional classic “dad joke.” Dave’s mission is to make every dad feel less isolated and more empowered—think of it as a "play-date for dads" where questions are welcomed, and experiences are shared openly

• Fatherhood Advice: Navigating every stage, from new dads to empty nesters.
• Marriage & Relationships: Tips for strong partnerships and growing together.
• Family & Parenting: Insights into raising children, step-parenting, and grandparenting.
• Mental Wellness: Candid conversations about the emotional side of fatherhood.
• Community Building: Encouraging dads to help one another and find support.
• Practical Life Tips: Including health, work-life balance, humor, and occasional dad jokes.
• Inspiring Guest Stories: Featuring dads, experts, and advocates from diverse backgrounds

• Safe and judgment-free environment for dads to share and learn.
• Content relevant to all kinds of dads—new, step, single, empty nesters, or grandparents.
• Emphasis on authentic connection, not perfection.
• Ontario-based but featuring guests and stories with wide-reaching appeal

Listeners are encouraged to join the Dad Space community and visit DadSpace.ca for additional resources. The podcast is available on all major platforms and is frequently updated with fresh, relevant content.

In summary:

If you’re a dad in Canada—or anywhere—looking to connect, learn, and laugh with others who understand the unique journey of fatherhood, the Dad Space Podcast with Dave Campbell is your welcoming space to do just that.

https://movember.com/

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